Hey guys. I hope everyone is doing well. Always lots to read and learn on here. I posted awhile ago about “Loser Women”. This ties into it, but is more specific.
Been good buddies with a guy now for some time. His wife died of canser at 36 years old in 2004 I believe. Left behind an 11 year old son and a 13 year old daughter. Yikes. I met him when I lived at my parents. He lives just a house over. I remember his wife. I never actually started getting to know him till years later. Having beers and backyard fires at his place in the summer. Snowmobile trips in the winter. You could tell he was hurting over the death of his wife. He’s had girlfriends after. He actually went on a trip with a‘girlfriend‘ and his kids one time. It was a litte after that we started becoming good friends. Then came f~~~ing internet dating. A real prize came along. 3,4 years older than him. Kids. Divorced. All I hear about is the sex they have and she ‘has the body of an 18 year old’. Long story short, about an entire 2 years later she moves in. He’s at work out of town. The son is home and from what he told me, her van pulled up the back lane, the doors opened up and she started taking her s~~~ inside the house. They live together for a bit but not too long. She gets a ‘settlement’ from the divorce from her ‘ex’. I was told it was supposed to be $60K. Must’ve had the s~~~s for a lawyer. Gets $16K. She pays for her daughter to move out, the rent a bunch of times, pays for the daughter to go to school and rest went up the daughters nose. The c~~~ knows how to sell herself and one-up everything. He has enough one day and she gets the boot. This was great. His son sees through her games too. That didn’t last long. Back to communicating via dating sites and a few weeks later it’s game on. He won’t let her move back in. All through this time she’s on/off again working. Took stress leave from a hardware store. Has a few jobs doing daycare looking after other people’s mistakes. Never really has any money, ever. He pays for her beer/smokes. This goes on but has her own apartment. He drinks heavy too. Starts about 10 in the morning and goes till about 11 at night. Maybe eat today, if not then tomorrow. She makes his drunk ass meals, cleans up the house, plants flowers and s~~~ at his house in the spring. Basically enabling alcoholism. This goes on for a few years. One day he’s in my garage and says ‘ f~~~ man, 8 years with the old lady. Didn’t think it would last this long’. At this point it’s acknowledged that a clean break has to be made. Ok I thought. Months later he tells me to break it off, he has to move to put an end to it. F~~~ man. Has no functional relationship with his own daughter who’s about 29 or so. His kids are out of his house so it’s just him. He tells me this past winter that it would make better sense if the old lady moves in. ‘She’s paying rent and could just live here’. This woman has nothing. Nothing. One of her ex’s parents died, one of family members contacted her and the family decided that she should get a bit of inheritance from the ex’s
Parents estate. Bells went off on my head. F~~~ing separated from the guy for over 10 years and his family contacts her about inheritance money?? Huh.. more f~~~ing like she’s been in contact with him, his family more that we’ve been told. We’re not being told the whole story here. Only what she wants to surrender. Goes and buys $6000 car. The only way loser woman ever get something is through someone else. Never off their own efforts. No pension, nothing. Her dad passed in March sometime. Didn’t seem too upset about it too. Then I find out she doesn’t talk to one of her sisters at all. Just about 2 months ago she moves back into buddies place. Now he tells me she’s getting inheritance from her fathers estate. They’ve put bids on a house for sale out of town. I can’t stand her. I’m at the point if he wants to go with her, then go. Bye…
Ronin11 5 months, 3 weeks ago.
