she gets gently told where the good men went

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/where-are-all-the-emotionally-available-mentally-healthy-men/

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

interesting find. good reading.

It would be cool if someone from here ran a dating column blog “MGTOW relations~~~ advice”. Or does such thing already exist? Would have been fun to read

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 3]

Well that guy is a mangina that caters to post wall moron women. I think they pay him for advice or something, he’s not going to kill the goose.

These women are disgusting and complete fools. From 15-35 life is handed to them on a platter, but rather than finding a good man, they turn their noses up. Men from birth to 25 are considered intrinsically worthless, and finally that shifts from 30+.

Of course men are entitled to the same things, especially when these women are so low quality. A young woman doesn’t have the history of poor decision making and refusal to pair bond. Good men and good women go off the market as soon as they are able to. That means women marry young, prior to 25, and men generally marry from 25-32 or so. Nowadays with the atrocious economy perhaps the man’s age rises, but a woman’s won’t.

A woman needs to do nothing other than exist in order to have value and be marriageable. Women by default are desirable, but they can remove that by having bad attitudes, sexual histories and through age. Also nowadays the legal system makes things worse too of course. Driving otherwise willing men out of the market.

Women aren’t going to campaign to change any of this, so no sympathy for them. They claim they don’t need men, what a laugh. Let the desperate sex fix the mess they created and learn something about self sacrifice for once in their lives. And if they think their income is such a great trait, maybe they can start paying dowries to get married. Otherwise it’s not like a man has access to that money to begin with.

[Anonymous 25]

That told her. I would add to that and say that she is probably nothing like how she describes herself. Every woman thinks she looks 10 years younger than she is. They don’t. Women are particularly delusion of their place in the social order of dating. I found an article on this earlier:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1213212/The-ego-epidemic-more-inflated-sense-fabulousness.html

In my experience, most women don’t even understand the concept of What’s In It For me (WIIFM). They think if the guy gets to have sex with them once in a while that’s enough. Erm no, I can get that already without listening to her crap so it doesn’t pass a cost benefit analysis.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

it’s pictures or GTFO with “I look 10 years younger” bs
this doesn’t fly

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Anonymous wrote:

And if they think their income is such a great trait, maybe they can start paying dowries to get married.

I like your thinking. This might actually actualize into reality in a not so distant future. But government won’t let that happen – they want women to be married to the government. For life! Women are easy to control and their children are isolated from men and get indoctrinated with feminism/PC mind control from birth. Government also likes estrogenated manginas – so gullible and easy to control using women.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Where are all the emotionally available and mentally healthy men? They are busy staying away from the emotionally manipulative and mentally unhealthy women. Nonsense.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[SMADParticipant 651]

Quote from the blog / initial poster:

“Unfortunately, the pool of men that I’m dating from (early to mid 40s, usually divorced) are pretty messed up. A number of them want younger women (never mind that I look much younger) – didn’t anyone tell these guys that women hit their sexual prime over 40:-)?”

My first thought was – sexual prime over 40 means they have been plundered over and over on the c~~~ carousel?  For the second time today, I am going to use the “fanny like a punched lasagne” phrase.

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

SMAD wrote:

I am going to use the “fanny like a punched lasagne” phrase.

Oh god don’t please …. don’t say anymore … I can’t breath 😂

[SMADParticipant 651]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Oh god don’t please …. don’t say anymore … I can’t breath

Amused by my anecdotes, eh?  Sharing my British humour with our brothers across the pond!  Let’s see…how about:

“Finger-blasting on the dance floor” or “Pre-fisting – a glimpse into your future.”

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[Anonymous 5]

I read it and it is so wrong. These c~~~s are truly delusional.

[sidecarParticipant 35860]

If men aren’t buying McDonald’s hamburgers any more because McDonald’s charges too much for how bad they taste, it’s not the fault of the men.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Where Are All the Emotionally Available, Mentally Healthy Men?

This could be a viable question if a woman had the ability to spot one when she found one. But they can’t, so it’s just embarrassing. They are complete s~~~ at it. That’s why the MGTOW.COM Good Man Locator is so f~~~ing hilarious. Because she could be standing in front of TEN of them – and be spoon fed the locations of Emotionally Available, Mentally Healthy Men and she STILL wouldn’t know one if he wore wings, a diaper, and shot heart-shaped arrows at her ass.

The question “Where Are All…..” is so f~~~ed and stupid because it implies she DESERVES her choice of ALL the “Emotionally Available, Mentally Healthy Men”…… when she would be lucky to get to choose ONE who would be interested in her at all.

But she wants to know where they *ALL* are.
You’re a 48 year old single mother, bitch. You don’t get to pick from ALL.
That’s what he needed to tell her. She wouldn’t even be able to identify ONE.

What the f~~~ does “Emotionally Available” mean? Too many self help books?
She needs to stop reading s~~~ like: “INTO ME SEE – A WOMAN”S GUIDE TO INTIMACY”.

She can put down that “emotionally available” crap and back away, because she’s not looking for a man who is “emotionally available”, she’s looking for an available credit line as high as possible, and her personal rating SUCKS. She’s WAY overdrawn and behind on her payments.

Mentally Healthy???? A “Mentally Healthy” man in a woman’s mind is any docile control schmuck who never questions anything, quietly pays for everything and never pesters her for sex. Thats’ what a woman means by “mentally healthy”.

Women like this are a disgrace. They have zero ability to identify men of any value, with any values, or recognize value in them. But more importantly they have no ability to see themselves in any realistic light.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

An interesting article no doubt.

I don’t care for his summation of a few very important points though.

“That said, men ARE impossibly shallow. I struggle with it in my coaching every day. Clients who tell me, as they show me their lists of hot, underaged favorites, “I can’t help what I’m attracted to”. Yeah. There’s not much we can do about that. It’s why the 50+ set is interested in you. Just know that there ARE men out there who are looking for peers. My 60-year-old Mom married a 60-year-old guy. I’ve had single parent clients find the love of their lives on Match.com, JDate and Nerve. It happens all the time.”   He needs to replace the third word in his statement with “My Clients”.

Men aren’t impossibly shallow.  The clients who’ve come to him are probably already super-f~~~ed up and lost, by their very act of consulting with him in what they want.  They’re long past the point of knowing what’s good for themselves, so they’re going to have someone else tell them who they are.  There’s cheap, ineffective therapy between a set of huge perfect t~~~, paid for, rented, or otherwise.

Men aren’t impossibly shallow.  By any stretch of the imagination.  We are the polar f~~~ing opposite.  Men are the authors, keepers and protectors of the values and codes which set the human race a tree branch apart from being f~~~ing hyenas.

While I am not religious, I’d use the following as an example:  If we were to become impossibly shallow, we might revisit the trials of Lot running for his life from Soddom in an attempt to preserve that which is good.  Even then, his retarded wife just had to look over her shoulder.  Lot knew better.  Women want men to be ridiculously simple, so that we can suit their child-like “needs”.  And they’ll find a plethora of those guys on dating sites and occupying well-worn bar stools in watering holes.

Regardless of the historical validity of the bible, I think it’s pretty significant that MGTOW’s were writing about this s~~~ that long ago, in one form or another.  I don’t know if Noah, or Lot were real men; but I do know this.  The essence of their very story is MGTOW.  You can’t get much more MGTOW than building a gigantic f~~~ing boat, sticking a bunch of innocent animals on it to save their lives, closing the doors and peering out at the miserable self-destructive louts as they scream for the very shelter which you’ve built, all while you’ve been mocked for building it.

Men are the individuals who cherish and hold dear ideals and attributes such as honor, commitment, courage, love, integrity, fortitude, nurturing, self-discipline and bravery.  These are not qualities which pop to mind when pondering the mess that is woman.  While the principles of the aforementioned might appear simple from the outset, they are codes, laws and ideals which men take great pride in maintaining.  These are not random happenings or instances in our lives.  Men MAKE these things happen, and MAKE these ideals a part of our lives. It takes work and self-discipline.  They aren’t happenings.  And women will never understand this, because they believe that everything happens to them.  They don’t understand what actually “being in control” means.

It’s this continual ongoing statement of men being ridiculously simple that makes men appear to be absurdly mindless creatures who don’t think complex thoughts and aren’t capable of maintaining any sort of relationship above and beyond “huhuhuhuhuhu leeesssss f~~~er her hard ya lesss f~~~ er big titties an, an, an wear hurr ass as a hat yass huhuhuhuhu”.  Sure, many men will make these types of statements, sometimes even as a form of bonding, and many of us love sex.  But deep down, many men have simply been seeking Love and Commitment.

Two attributes which women have mangled beyond recognition, and then expect men to fix.  We’re done fixing s~~~.

If by impossibly shallow, the author means “Men have been f~~~ed over so many times in their pursuit of true love, that they’ve arrived at the conclusion that such a thing doesn’t exist from the opposite sex, so they just f~~~ instead “, then yes, I’m with him.

 

 

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Did she honestly try to say that women reach their sexual peak at 40+?  What a pile of horses~~~.  When I was in high school, I was taught that women reached their sexual peak at 30-35 (which I didn’t believe then and still don’t believe now).  I suppose in another 10 years women will be saying they reach their sexual peak at 50+.  My experience has taught me that women have and always have had a lower sex drive than me.  Their “peak” doesn’t even reach my trough.  They may suck c~~~ with great skill at 40+ but those women are so horrible looking that they just kill boners.  They’re 2 baggers.  You need a paper bag on your head in case hers breaks.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“That said, men ARE impossibly shallow. I struggle with it in my coaching every day. Clients who tell me, as they show me their lists of hot, underaged favorites, “I can’t help what I’m attracted to”.

No ladies. WOMEN are attracted to much older MEN. Men are not shallow for liking them back.

GET IT?????

Google “I prefer older men”.
And if you google “I prefer MUCH older men” you actually get +TEN TIMES as many results.

Is it making sense yet? Do you get what I’m tellin’ ya?
You complain, but you started this game when you were f~~~ing 13 years old.
What, when you girls turn 26, do you all develop some acute case of amnesia???

17 AND IS ATTRACTED TO OLDER MEN
http://tinyurl.com/byy25jo

15 AND IS ATTRACTED TO MUCH OLDER MEN
http://tinyurl.com/a8uj7ab

16 AND IS ATTRACTED TO MUCH OLDER MEN
http://tinyurl.com/bxdo2cy

14!!!! AND IS ATTRACTED TO MUCH OLDER MEN IN THEIR 40s and 50s
https://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110410171931AAiJL4O

19 AND THINKS OLDER MEN SHOULD DATE YOUNGER WOMEN
http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Think-Older-Men-Should-Date-Younger-Women/1738405

Do you think she will say the same when she is 48?? Men are not sick, perverted, pedophiles and peter pans. We actually have to make them wait until their 18th birthday because those poor girls aren’t even LEGALLY PERMITTED TO ACT ON IT. Women under 18 who are attracted to men over 18 should be in JAIL!! (Lol!)

When I was in high school, I was taught that women reached their sexual peak at 30-35 (which I didn’t believe then and still don’t believe now). I suppose in another 10 years women will be saying they reach their sexual peak at 50+.

Yeah “40 is the new 30” and other lies women tell themselves. Laying on your back with your legs in the air isn’t called a “peak” now matter how old or young you are. There is no “peak performance level” for women. I have been with 19 year olds who made me call out to god and the devil in the same breath …. and 29 year old women who did not. There is no “peak”. They don’t get better with age. It’s such a lie.

A man will be a better f~~~ at 31 than he was at 19.
But a woman is exactly the same hole she was 12 year ago… just older.

(I’m sorry I can’t stop laughing. It’s SO ridiculous. We have to make it ridiculous back.)

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Keymaster wrote:

A man will be a better f~~~ at 31 than he was at 19. But a woman is exactly the same hole she was 12 year ago… just older. (I’m sorry I can’t stop laughing. It’s SO ridiculous.)

[VictorParticipant 124]

What actually offends me most about that letter is the reference to “mentally-healthy men”.  Like most women, the author has lived in a social bubble for most of her life and probably has a very narrow experience of things.

It doesn’t occur to this woman that some men are mentally- and emotionally-damaged because of this gynocentric society and the behaviour of women.  It’s comments such as this that really show women in their true colours.  They are not the empathetic creatures they claim to be, but are in reality cold, shallow and unsympathetic.  That is certainly my experience – I grew up with a mother and a sister; I have dealt with women in education and then for many years in the workplace; and I have encountered female therapists (who, incidentally, are always useless).

Bottom line for me: Women should be fighting for their men, instead of insulting, demeaning, shaming and belittling us.  I’m at the stage now where I’m thinking “F~~~ it”.  I’ve got a life of my own to lead.  I wanted to find a woman to love, but I could just learn how to pick up young women to f~~~ and there are escorts too.  Why be weighed down with all the hassle and responsibility..??

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Victor wrote:

What actually offends me most about that letter is the reference to “mentally-healthy men”.  Like most women, the author has lived in a social bubble for most of her life and probably has a very narrow experience of things.

Yeah like she is some kind of authority on “mental health”. Now take a look in her medicine cabinet.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

“I’m a 42 year old single mom”

That tells me that she DID have a good man.

Why would any “new” man want to end up like him?

 

 

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