'She didn't ask him'

[Admit_The_ProblemParticipant 69]

Hope you’re doing well guys.

This week I saw perhaps the most clear cut example of mercenary female nature.

About 3/4 of a year ago, a girl in my friend group told me she loved me and wanted to go out etc. I quickly shot it down, as I have severe discomfort with dating anyone especially

1. people who know my friends

2. people who know my coworkers

A week after that she got a new guy, fast forward one month and she is now pregnant. (Keep in mind we are all young twenties still in college or fresh out. girl has no degree, no job, and some loans)

Guy promises to stay and raise the kid, his dad steps in and tells him and the girl that he will PERSONALLY pay the child support and that no son of his is raising a kid at 21.

Now that personally wouldn’t be my style, i think people should live with their consequences when it comes to women. But I still have a ton to learn.

Anyway…

I recently saw that girl again after cutting ties. And she brought her new husband with her.

Within 5 months she ALREADY had a stranger lined up to pay the bills and buy her a home. And this guy seems like a nice (if shy/awkward) guy. Talking with him I saw a flash of all of us as kids. He hasn’t realized how women are and he is walking right into the worst mistake of his life. I felt like slapping him to be honest. Pulling him aside and calmly explaining the situation. But I know I couldn’t have reached him. But damn it hurt to watch.

She admits that she is still in love with Alpha Mcdudebrosen and doesn’t even like the new dude and will not ever f~~~ him.

When this was brought up among my closest friends I worried aloud about future domestic violence.

‘so he pays for everything and gets no sex while some guy got all the sex and paid for nothing, and they’ll be in a loveless financial union from day one… how many years do you think he can go without getting his dick sucked before he starts hitting things or her? Dude is going to be in jail or his own noose within 5 years’ was my sentiment.

My guy friends all agreed with me but the couple of women in my life who I do trust (they have proven themselves) were emphatic that I had this all wrong.

I repeatedly heard the phrase ‘she didnt ask him to marry her’. It is supposedly ok that she is using this guy for money with no passion for him just because hey, she didnt seek it out. One of them even said ‘i mean he just wants to pay for her stuff so that eventually she will love her, which is wrong too. they are both at fault.’

I really didn’t know where to go from there.

In my view, a girl just got to get sex with a dangerous, rough dude, and the financial assistance of the government AND a somewhat nerdy if nice provider male and she is STILL A VICTIM.

Dont you see? the guy just wants to BUY HER STUFF. HE IS USING HER.

I have to say. The women in my life who I do trust give me these occasional glimpses of being just like the rest of them. Cold. Calculating.

Stay strong out there guys.

Lift some weights, have a few cold ones.

-Cheers mate.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I would say print out what you just wrote and show it to him. Let him drink it in. The fact that he is using her, that’s chick logic for you.

Order the good wine

[Admit_The_ProblemParticipant 69]

I feel like honestly when its this bad, that he is just lucky to be making this mistake at an age where he can bounce back.

Awesome signature by the way ‘We all get what we tolerate’ are words to live by.

-Cheers mate.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Admit_The_Problem wrote:

A week after that she got a new guy, fast forward one month and she is now pregnant.

Believe me, she was ALREADY pregnant when attempting to latch onto you…

[KeymasterKeymaster]

XSDBS wrote:

Believe me, she was ALREADY pregnant when attempting to latch onto you…

+100.

Admit_The_Problem wrote:

About 3/4 of a year ago, a girl in my friend group told me she loved me and wanted to go out etc. I quickly shot it down, as I have severe discomfort with dating anyone especially
1. people who know my friends
2. people who know my coworkers

A firm policy like that is quite sensible.

Admit_The_Problem wrote:

But I still have a ton to learn.

Don’t know why you would imply that.
Your head seems screwed on just right.

Admit_The_Problem wrote:

I recently saw that girl again after cutting ties. And she brought her new husband with her.

She works fast.

Date / marry / baby is the usual expected sensible order….. but who gives a f~~~ about that ? Women sure don’t. She’ll f~~~ up the baby’s life too.

Admit_The_Problem wrote:

Alpha Mcdudebrosen

Never heard that one before. Big lolz over here.

Admit_The_Problem wrote:

She admits that she is still in love with Alpha Mcdudebrosen and doesn’t even like the new dude and will not ever f~~~ him.

Classic.

https://archive.is/Kenvx

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[BryantParticipant 229]

These horror stories are exactly why Im so happy my “unicorn” of 7 years left me at valentines and I have no kids. Being single was the best gift Ive received in some time I tell ya.

"He who lives with honor dies with honor."

[BryantParticipant 229]

what the f~~~ing f~~~
https://archive.is/Kenvx
that was horrendous

"He who lives with honor dies with honor."

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Admit_The_Problem wrote:

Dont you see? the guy just wants to BUY HER STUFF. HE IS USING HER.

Dumb c~~~s don’t even realize that sometimes its the opposite…you like someone so you buy them something. Sometimes I’ll buy friends a drink or pay for dinner if we go out, or buy them random s~~~ for hahas. Its not because I want them to like me, I’m not trying to buy them s~~~ so they like me, its because I like them and don’t mind doing nice things for people I like.

I mean…she f~~~ing said YES to marrying him…I think we all know better after reading the post, but the poor clueless idiot assumes she loves him because she said yet to marrying him. Why would he try to buy her affection if he thought he already had it?

[Anonymous 12]

Alpha Mcdudebrosen

say it.
say it again. With a German Accent.
Ouuuh yea dude. That sounds like Breakfast to me. brilliant!

Look – you have one more lesson to learn, at the end of your Post you talk about it:

I have to say. The women in my life who I do trust give me these occasional glimpses of being just like the rest of them. Cold. Calculating.

Stay strong out there guys.

I would propose that you use these trusted females as a testgroup to validate some redpill/bluepill concepts.
But never trust them with anything that can expose you to legal, professional, personal danger.

Trust them but not with your own weak points.
and in case of doubt: Do NOT trust them – obviously.

awesome post – thanks Bro!

[AttonParticipant]

Sounds like she wanted to trade in her working life for kids honestly. To think the male birth control pill would make this entire tactic meaningless.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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