She chose a bum over me

[TeddyParticipant 70]

So I met this girl who has a car, own house, ect. Our relationship was great until after 2 months she wanted me to move in with her. She said that I work too much and I need to spend more time with her. Obviously, I cannot do that. (Money over everything). Since I work too much, she broke up with me for a guy who is unemployed and car(less). She told me that he is a better man than I am because he is there for her 24/7. After a month of dating, they got engaged. I was hurt when I founded out she cheated on me. But, when I saw who she cheated on me with, I just laughed. LMAO.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Dude, you got the better of it – not her. Just another self absorbed modern woman. Her new bum husband to be will wise up quickly when she dumps his broke ass for Chad T and his abs and Porsche.

[LurchParticipant 3871]

Ahh, the age old story of girl meets unemployed Chad and rather than get a nice guy, decides Chad’s just the “fixer-upper” she needs for her next man-scaping project.

Don’t worry. I would give that relationship 6 months tops. Once she gets sick of him lying around the house, inviting his “friends” over to “party” and just going nowhere, she’ll kick him to the curb and find another DIY man renovation project.

Now in your cast there was nothing for her to “fix” and thus got bored. When she was bitching about your time at work, that’s something she couldn’t fix as your work equaled money and we all know that the number one thing a woman looks for in a man is money. If anything take it as a compliment that you’re too good for her.

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You’re free and she needs a cat.

What’s not to like.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Women are crazy like that. Your entire life has to revolve around them and the minute it doesn’t then boom. If you can’t provide her with something, more often EVERYTHING that she wants then you’re gone. Sounds to me like she wanted to treat you like an emotional tampon more than anything.

She wanted you to put her as a top priority, above work, above yourself and above everything. Which would be fine if she reciprocated and did that same to you but women never do. You lucked out man, and learned a lesson.

As for her new bum she’s with, I’ve never understood this. Why would anyone get in a serious relationship let alone marriage with somebody that cheats? You know they’re a cheater so why the f~~~ would you marry them? I don’t get it.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

That girl has some special issues. Why does she need a guy to be completely dependent on her? She doesn’t trust that she’s enough on her own so she wants a guy that has to come to her for everything. Control issues? Low self esteem? Mommy issues?

That’s a special brand of crazy right there.

Order the good wine

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

And more than likely, your work ethic and sense of fiscal responsibility was part of the reason she was attracted to you in the first place. Now, however, it’s what drover her away.

Same as it ever was.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

More likely she has daddy issues.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Congratulations, Teddy. You just won the lottery.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

dont worry bro..That bum will teach her lesson of monkey branching by impregnating her and cheat with her best friend…. in a few months down the line…I am 110% sure,she will call you to use you as emotional tampon that time..BEWARE ..Be MGTOW

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

You got the best of her (golden uterus) and she got nothing and now the simp has to pay emotionally for her having to settle. Not Your Problem.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

She chose being worship over money. But she has to fund the worship, lol.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[sidecarParticipant 35851]

Bullet dodged.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Women are crazy like that. Your entire life has to revolve around them and the minute it doesn’t then boom. If you can’t provide her with something, more often EVERYTHING that she wants then you’re gone. Sounds to me like she wanted to treat you like an emotional tampon more than anything.

She wanted you to put her as a top priority, above work, above yourself and above everything. Which would be fine if she reciprocated and did that same to you but women never do. You lucked out man, and learned a lesson.

As for her new bum she’s with, I’ve never understood this. Why would anyone get in a serious relationship let alone marriage with somebody that cheats? You know they’re a cheater so why the f~~~ would you marry them? I don’t get it.

Correct, the moment they realize they are not number one in your life they will do their damnest to be in that position. If they don’t win, they’ll go to someone else who will put them in that number one spot. They will never do this for you.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

You are so much better off. LOL, that dumb c~~~ will wake up broke as s~~~ from that Chad taking all he can. And you will just smile and laugh and go your own way.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

I fail to see the problem. So you are free and the bum is going to get to wake up and deal with her nagging and needs. If I were you I’d send her a Edible Arrangement basket and thank her for not picking you.

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