She calls you controlling

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

As a response to questioning movements and setting some boundaries.
Hand in hand with I love you so much and miss you when apart etc etc.
I’m assuming extra curricular activities or she’s considering it.
Getting ready to DTB. Interesting turn of events as she was playing NAWALT for a while.
Feedback appreciated but I’ve pulled back my blue pill emotions and considering it done at this point.
Going away for a break to support a friend and glad to unplug for a bit…

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Good decision about deciding to take a break. Th funny thing with this controlling comment. I lived through this shame and blame game before. The funny thing is women want men to lead yet they don’t want men to be in charge of them or tell them what to do. Then my favorite is tell them this at the beginning for e.g you don’t date women who goes out to night clubs. My thing is she can do whatever but she won’t be my girlfriend. She will say you are trying to control her. Then you say I’m not controlling you I’m giving you a choice want to be a party girl then we will never be serious yet she still wants to be with the guy. She pretty much wants the guy to bend. Women want men to lead a relationship when it is beneficial to them. Then when you state you go to clubs no more. Then she cries oh you are trying to control me. All she wants is her way with you not having any set rules over her but she expects you to lead the relationship. That’s a relations~~~ in my opinon.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

When a man CHOOSES to get into a relationship with a Woman; he is allowing his blue pill programming to take over. When this happens ANYTHING can happen.

My personal OPINION is if you desire sex, but just don’t want to deal with dating/relationships because eventually they all blow up in your face then just hire out professional services as needed, and INVEST THE REST OF YOUR Time, Energy, Effort, and Resources on ANYTHING else that YOU want to do.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

In my past experience, a woman is going to do whatever she WANTS to do.
If she WANTS to be with you, she will.
If she doesn’t, you will know this because of her s~~~ tests, guilt trips, arguing, shaming, reduced sex/intimacy, etc…
Why would you want to be with a woman who doesn’t want to be with you?

[TwistParticipant]

“Controlling” is cheaterspeak.

Every F~~~ing Time.

EFT

Follow that feeling in your belly.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

kbbroiler wrote:

The funny thing is women want men to lead yet they don’t want men to be in charge of them or tell them what to do.

Women want men to lead when the s~~~ hits the fan. That way women have someone to blame it on and can absolve themselves of the blame. Men also have to do the work of fixing the problems. Women don’t want responsibility or accountability at that point.
So in a nutshell; Women want men to lead when things are bad and need work. When things are going good and little to no work is needed, women should lead.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Twist wrote:

“Controlling” is cheaterspeak. Every F~~~ing Time.

Yes.

When you hear this, you know that the hamster wheel is spinning up and it’s time to get out before the smash.

Mr. Spock wrote:

Women want men to lead when the s~~~ hits the fan. That way women have someone to blame it on and can absolve themselves of the blame. Men also have to do the work of fixing the problems. Women don’t want responsibility or accountability at that point.

This.

“Power without responsibility – the prerogative of the harlot throughout the ages”. Stanley Baldwin.

[Branched offParticipant 10933]

I have to agree that each time it has been said to me it was by a woman who I later became 95 -100% certain was not faithful. Interestingly these women were all the most manipulative women I have been involved with too that I have been close to that I have come to actually dislike.

In fact each time I went to bed and lay awake thinking about it and felt uneasy until it dawned on me that it was a manipulative thing said by a controlling person to shut down a conversation that was clearly not going their way because of logic and fairness.

Its one of the last retreats of the manipulator. When they are cornered by logic and asked to do what is plainly fair and there is no way to wriggle out. Its like racist or sexist -it just shuts the modern man down because he is too afraid to be so evil as to try to control a female. It is one of the great sins for the modern man to manipulate a woman, so you run form the mere suggestion.

There must be some over controlling man somewhere who would justify the description of controlling but the average man has far to much sense to make himself a huge target for the police and divorce rape and all that by actually trying to control a woman. Women are free agents free from accountability and responsibility today. they do as they like, so whatever the reason she is calling you it, she is saying she does not want to do what you consider reasonable. If she won’t sit down and explain logically how it is or unreasonable then you are in a relationship with the wrong person. It is a rare woman today who will actually do a thing she does not want to do for her man, while men do that multiple times a week for their women.

Its hard to see it when you are at the coal face but you are probably tunnelling on a bad seam. Just bin it is usually the right action. For the sake of her strength and independence take your toxic controlling masculinity away from her.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9550]

She’s the fine one to talk about who’s controlling! Women are by far more controlling than men. In fact, that’s how women get what they want that they’re not suppose to have. Shame, guilt, reason and sex are her manipulative tools.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[coolthingy450Participant 1223]

XSDBS wrote:

In my past experience, a woman is going to do whatever she WANTS to do.If she WANTS to be with you, she will.If she doesn’t, you will know this because of her s~~~ tests, guilt trips, arguing, shaming, reduced sex/intimacy, etc…Why would you want to be with a woman who doesn’t want to be with you?

Oh man ya and they will let you know it too.

Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.

[coolthingy450Participant 1223]

And some of the ways they can be controlling according to my best friend is how they don’t mention about having a partner, or telling you how to feel and what not depending on the convo you have with them. or when they start doing things that don’t make sense but when you point it out, they will try to turn the convo away from the main topic depending on what it is

And blue pillers are almost no better then women im afraid. Sometimes they end up adapting a womens way of thinking its sad.

Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.

[GrumpyParticipant]

A skunk smells its own stench first.
For some reason that old adage always comes to mind when I hear the “controlling” comment.
All it really means is that you are not giving someone else exactly what they want, when they want it, on their terms, without consequence or accountability.
Sometimes it is true that “he is controlling”, however, what has she done to prompt that response?
Mind you it’s of moot concern for me, as when I hear that term being bandied around. I control myself and un-ass the area like a liberal at tax time.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[ironheartParticipant 942]

It is part of their social brainwashing. All the western Princesses think they deserve to be Queen. But not the responsible, benevolent kind. The miserable, backstabbing, “I am in charge bytch” kind.

A lot of it comes with how they relate to other women. They are so weak that they feel a constant need to prove dominance, just like the weak beta boy males do. These bytches think that the same kind of manipulative s~~~ they use on lesser women also works on men too. Sometimes it does, because men are not looking for it. When you love someone you do not think that they have a bytch-mode button. Then one day men wake up and realize that is just her projecting her s~~~.

So when a woman calls you controlling, 90% of the time is because you are so in charge of your own s~~~ that they resent you for it. They have to destroy you to be happy, or they have little anxiety-issues that will never let go any negative thing.

They say you are controlling, because they want control over you.

They will do the same s~~~ to their kids, so consider that before you breed with one. The behavior only gets worse after the kids come along.

"Women have become so full of hatred that they are blind to reason and humanity. That which they practice will be the end of humanity, long before any war that men may fight.." "Women are predators by nature. Why else do you think they are so quick to gang up and go after a man they hate for showing any sign of weakness?"

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