Shaming Men for Unwanted Attention

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  • #227288
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    FunInTheSun
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    Some women live in their own little prissy world and you have no right to be a part of it. They feel that the real world has to be molded in such a way to accommodate their world so they won’t be offended at any given moment.

    Take, for example, a woman’s complaint about being eyed by a “creepy man.” I think the word, “creepy” has been stretched over the years to include any kind of uncomfortable feeling a woman gets when she’s around a man she doesn’t like. If a man is staring directly at her, grabbing his crotch, licking his lips slowly, and squinting his eyes, I’d call that creepy behavior. Or if a man is sticking his smartphone under her skirt, that counts as creepy behavior as well. But if a man she finds unattractive smiles at her and says, “Hi,” what the hell is wrong with that?! Anyone who would complain about that is probably a prima donna or a narcissist.

    Personally, I’ve never cat called a woman or walked up to one and said, “Hey baby” and all that nonsense. I’m the kind of person who mainly avoids people unless I have something meaningful to say to them. Most guys that I know don’t try to do anything sexual around women who are strangers. Men are generally decent around women (here in the USA). Since we have this social dynamic that puts most of the burden of dating on men, women should have the understanding that some men are going to try to start a conversation with them and ask them for their phone numbers—and some of them won’t have attractive qualities. Since women want this social dynamic to continue—and won’t take any proactive measures to go after the men they really want instead of being passive—they shouldn’t complain too much about the occasional creep that they encounter. I’m not saying they don’t have legitimate complaints, I’m saying they complain TOO MUCH. It’s annoying for them to talk about a minor incident as if it was a catastrophe and expect the rest of us to stop what we’re doing and console them.

    Personally, if some unattractive woman was leering at me or trying to get my phone number, I’d only be mildly annoyed. I wouldn’t spend the day complaining about it to my friends and family members—not unless she was being deliberately rude or stalked me. There are polite ways to reject people. You can tell them you’re really busy and focused on school/work. If I lived in a society where I demanded that women make the first move, I wouldn’t be complaining about a land whale that’s trying to take me out on a date. I’d be grateful that someone’s trying to do something nice for me and then respectfully decline the offer.

    I understand that it’s human nature to desire the people with the most attractive features, but if you’re the kind of person who’s very attractive, you’re going to attract the best and the worst of crowd. So just accept it, and don’t demand that society legislates the natural order of humanity.

    [END OF RANT]

    "I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

    #227303
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    Blue Skies
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    feminist claim that they are raped by the eyes of men…..how is this possible???

    in addition, since when was complimenting a women considered harassment???

    MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

    #227308
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    Experienced
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    Some women live in their own little prissy world and you have no right to be a part of it. They feel that the real world has to be molded in such a way to accommodate their world so they won’t be offended at any given moment.

    Take, for example, a woman’s complaint about being eyed by a “creepy man.” I think the word, “creepy” has been stretched over the years to include any kind of uncomfortable feeling a woman gets when she’s around a man she doesn’t like. If a man is staring directly at her, grabbing his crotch, licking his lips slowly, and squinting his eyes, I’d call that creepy behavior. Or if a man is sticking his smartphone under her skirt, that counts as creepy behavior as well. But if a man she finds unattractive smiles at her and says, “Hi,” what the hell is wrong with that?! Anyone who would complain about that is probably a prima donna or a narcissist.

    Personally, I’ve never cat called a woman or walked up to one and said, “Hey baby” and all that nonsense. I’m the kind of person who mainly avoids people unless I have something meaningful to say to them. Most guys that I know don’t try to do anything sexual around women who are strangers. Men are generally decent around women (here in the USA). Since we have this social dynamic that puts most of the burden of dating on men, women should have the understanding that some men are going to try to start a conversation with them and ask them for their phone numbers—and some of them won’t have attractive qualities. Since women want this social dynamic to continue—and won’t take any proactive measures to go after the men they really want instead of being passive—they shouldn’t complain too much about the occasional creep that they encounter. I’m not saying they don’t have legitimate complaints, I’m saying they complain TOO MUCH. It’s annoying for them to talk about a minor incident as if it was a catastrophe and expect the rest of us to stop what we’re doing and console them.

    Personally, if some unattractive woman was leering at me or trying to get my phone number, I’d only be mildly annoyed. I wouldn’t spend the day complaining about it to my friends and family members—not unless she was being deliberately rude or stalked me. There are polite ways to reject people. You can tell them you’re really busy and focused on school/work. If I lived in a society where I demanded that women make the first move, I wouldn’t be complaining about a land whale that’s trying to take me out on a date. I’d be grateful that someone’s trying to do something nice for me and then respectfully decline the offer.

    I understand that it’s human nature to desire the people with the most attractive features, but if you’re the kind of person who’s very attractive, you’re going to attract the best and the worst of crowd. So just accept it, and don’t demand that society legislates the natural order of humanity.

    [END OF RANT]

    This is not a rant. It is a well thought out insight.

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

    #227309
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    Eric Lauder
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    I cannot relate with that, I never smiled to unknown women.
    The thing I like more is when a unknown woman smiles to me and I don’t answer with a smile: according people observing it my face become terribly serious. Women’s deluded face is priceless 😀 It doesn’t happen very often: last significant episode was last december in Spain. I don’t even do it purposely, more simply: sometimes it happens, automatically. I guess it happens when their smile is totally unexpected to me, when I’m thinking to something else.

    SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

    #227311
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    Mp357
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    “prima donna or a narcissist”= most women. I’ve even known fatties who claim some “creep” was looking at them, most of the time women are full of it. And the attractive ones cant be pleased either way, you are either a creep for looking at them or “gay” if you don’t even give them the time of day.

    #227314
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    Anonymous
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    Any excuse to paint them selves as victoms and men as BAD. I dont give a f~~~ if there creeped out or not.If bitches put there clevage on display,ima look at it all i want.If they have a problem with that,they shouldn’t put it on display. F~~~ them idiots.

    #227315
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    Bigboy83
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    Tell them to enjoy it, ain’t gonna last forever. Again, the jokes on them.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

    #227318
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    Eric Lauder
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    “prima donna or a narcissist”= most women. I’ve even known fatties who claim some “creep” was looking at them, most of the time women are full of it. And the attractive ones cant be pleased either way, you are either a creep for looking at them or “gay” if you don’t even give them the time of day.

    Then I guess I’m a “gay”. I don’t care if a woman is attractive: she have to gain my attention if she wants it, I’m not a 18 yo anymore.
    When I was 18-20 yo every time I was in the mood (almost always) I hitted on them in a serial way: “if it moves, hit on her”, like a drone, until I got a woman to f~~~, I just avoided both very ugly and very beautiful ones (the first for obiouvs reasons, the latter being too much likely to play games and waste my time) – it worked so.
    My actual partner gained my attention saying straight in my face that I’m “a devil” (in Italian sounds like a compliment in many contexts) and touching my arm – I really noticed her just only after that, and then I hitted on her.
    Same for the other few women I f~~~ed after the divorce: they have to gain my attention, otherwise I don’t care.
    I still have a lot of sex drive, but game have changed: so, if she isn’t going to gain my attention, I’m going to use porn and sex toys, not going bothering about her.
    That is power, and I like it.

    SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

    #227323
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    Mr. Spock
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    Always a double standard with women. If Chad, Armando, Tyler or Steve (CATS) compliments them, it’s their lucky day. If Frank the fat, balding janitor does it’s harassment.
    Women do have the right to decide who has sex with them but shouldn’t have the right to decide who drools over them. If some c~~~ doesn’t like unwelcome ogling then she needs to dress down and adjust to it.

    Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

    #227345
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    Keymaster
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    Keymaster

    This is not a rant. It is a well thought out insight.

    Yep.

    I think the word, “creepy” has been stretched over the years to include any kind of uncomfortable feeling a woman gets

    “Creep-shaming” is a reality, and it comes from women who have NO manners or creative ability to think of anything else to say. We know it’s bulls~~~, because exactly the same behavior from a dead Vampire Twilight F~~ would be totally hott!

    “OMG! A dead Vampire snuck into my room at night to watch me sleep! That’s totally hott!”

    So who’s creepy NOW.

    In this video “while I was away” a girlfriend tries to make her boyfriend jealous and says “some creepy guys tried to talk to me”. That’s how a woman thinks. It’s CREEPY to try and talk to her and buy her a drink.

    “CREEPY”, but it’s actually generous and kind.

    Using a personal example, I once looked up a woman’s address to send her flowers because she suffered a sudden personal loss and tragedy. When she received them and contacted, she said “At first I thought that was kind of stalkerish…. “.

    I will never send a woman flowers again – for any reason – ever.

    When a woman is in love with a man, and he buys a plane ticket across the ocean to come and visit her, he’s “the most romantic man in the world”. When she is NOT in love with him… POOF!!! He’s a “stalker”.

    In both situations, the man has not done anything different – or even wrong! He merely wants to be with her. So the line between complete “romantic” and total “stalker” is purely imagined in her head.

    This is why stupid romantic stunts for women are a total waste of time and effort.
    It’s not YOUR GESTURE which counts… it’s purely HER PERCEPTION of it.

    I creep-shame women all the time now.

    A woman I went to school with looked me up through a friend and texted me – after 28 years – and said “hey. where do you live?”. I said “Creepy. Who the f~~~ is this?”.

    She says “lol it’s xxxx from school”.
    No it’s not lol. It’s f~~~ing creepy. Get the f~~~ away from me you creep.

    It’s time to start creep-shaming women back.

    “So where do you work?”
    “So where do you live?”
    “Can you do me a favor”
    “Do you have a girlfriend?”
    “Why are you not married?”
    “Why are you not on facebook?”

    All creepy as f~~~. Not to mention their fascination with Twilight and 50ShadesOfGrey. That’s f~~~ing creepy as s~~~.

    There are polite ways to reject people.

    When my father first met my mother, he followed her in his car and offered her a ride. She said “no thank you”. Women don’t say “no thank you” and leave it at that. They all behave like they have “creepy stalkers”…. which is creepy in itself.

    If woman reacts like it’s “creepy” to speak (or pay attention) to her, then she has a very low opinion of herself.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #227354
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    The Long Walk
    The Long Walk
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    feminist claim that they are raped by the eyes of men…..how is this possible???

    I contend that my eyes are raped by ugly women.

    #227379
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    Won'tGetFooledAgain
    Won'tGetFooledAgain
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    Women love attention, but it has to be from the right type of man. It is only unwanted attention when it comes from the 80% of guys that are not Alpha.

    Women spend there 20s and 30s moaning about getting unwanted attention from men, and then once they hit the wall they moan that they no longer get any attention from men.

    The key word here is unwanted, they want attention but only on their terms and only from men that get their ginas tingling.

    For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

    #227388
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    Franky
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    in addition, since when was complimenting a women considered harassment???

    Meh, just stop giving them compliments for good.
    Problem solved.

    #227414
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    Nerevar
    Nerevar
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    feminist claim that they are raped by the eyes of men…..how is this possible???

    in addition, since when was complimenting a women considered harassment???

    Ah yes, the “male gaze”. Well if that existed, we’d see her as a hot 10/10, not as a beached whale!

    "One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

    #227417
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    K
    Hitman
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    they LOVE the attention and also love the powerful feeling that they can decide who’s “creepy ” and who’s not.
    they are ATTENTION WHORES, he was LOOKING at ME ..oh my god..
    they derive an imaginary sense of worth from this..
    fantasy that men are LOOKING at them ,because they NEED it.
    it reeks of desperation..desperate for attention that is..

    #227419
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    Survivor
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    I think there is room for the argument that if a woman is dressed sexily that she is raping and attacking the man. Because when a woman wants something, whether it be a guy’s phone number, money, a guy’s attention, for him to help her do something, or whatever, what do they do? They dress down. Short denim cut-offs, tight t-shirts that are low-cut with their boobs hanging out, etc. It’s a visual attack. Nasty feminazis would say: “I’m just being a woman; you don’t have to look at me; You can’t handle a real woman;I can’t help it if you’re attracted,” and all this garbage. And then they end up raped and dead like the chick back at UT Austin who was in the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong individual around. But that would be showing too much accountability and responsibility wouldn’t it? You know, I’m a Texas Ex and graduated from the 40-Acres in the 90’s. Back then there was this rape-awareness that was constantly, persistently hammered on. There was also a program where “nice guys” who were tall, trusted and “safe” would volunteer to walk females home to their apartment or dorm or parking lot from the library late at night. I often saw a bunch of women standing around in the library lobby, waiting for a “safe, nice guy” to walk them back. I was never a part of this program; too busy studying and getting out. Then one day some feminist student groups put an ad of all the men at UT in the Daily Texan one semester. How they got this, I don’t know. No one said a thing about privacy or anything. One particular issue one day was very thick. Had all the male students’ names in there. At the top it said: “All these men are potential rapists” Yes, even the nice guys names were there. Being safe and nice didn’t help them one bit. I was roommates with 3 guys in an apartment at that time. All 4 of us had our names in there. This was 1989. Needless to say if I was a student back there today I wouldn’t even speak to a female or be a part of any group with women in it. Like Keymaster said, Twilight and 50-Shades of gross are more violent than all the men listed as potential rapists.

    "Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

    #227439
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    Nerevar
    Nerevar
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    8040

    Had all the male students’ names in there. At the top it said: “All these men are potential rapists” Yes, even the nice guys names were there. Being safe and nice didn’t help them one bit. I was roommates with 3 guys in an apartment at that time. All 4 of us had our names in there.

    Damn, man… that’s horrible :\

    "One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

    #227443
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    RonC
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    A lot of gold there! Lol

    #227463
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    Zuberi Tau
    Zuberi Tau
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    10606

    What about men who receive unwanted attention from burger gulping land whales who can’t grasp the concept of deodorant?

    #227471
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    Nerevar
    Nerevar
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    8040

    What about men who receive unwanted attention from burger gulping land whales who can’t grasp the concept of deodorant?

    “He should be glad she deems him worthy of her obnoxious attention!”

    "One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

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