Shallow Compliments

[MenckenParticipant 693]

Last week we had job interviews at college being so close to graduation. With all the sales, I went to a clothing store. I bought cord pants, belt, collar shirt, and a casual leather jacket. I walk into school the next day past the front desk which is staffed by young women. I have been walking by this desk for 2 years and was never noticed. Now that I have nice clothes, they greet me, smile, and are as friendly as could be. I saw that as a micro-aggression and became triggered.

I mention this to my tradcon father who tells me that they are likely high quality women being that they go to college. Women don’t like guys who dress like slobs. Slightly offended, I asked if I normally dress like a slob? They said no. The reason they noticed me now is because they are attracted to wealth. Nice clothes and confident strides signify wealth, maybe even status.

What if I was only nice to young attractive girls? Would that be considered shallow? F~~~ off. I am currently trying to move to the middle of no where with my next job.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[Anonymous 42]

That’s a poster child for hypergamy! I’ve lived it time and time again going from knock around street cloths to tailored suits! Like hitting a light switch! It’s so obvious it’s sickening!

[Anonymous 54]

When they say…oh you look nice! Run. Yes they judge you by your clothes, your car, everything that tells them what your worth.

Sugar and Spice my ass!

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Totally different walk into a store in a nice suit u get mobbed by service staff nice smiles etc. walk in street gear and security is following you around….

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[KeymasterKeymaster]

Mencken wrote:

Nice clothes and confident strides signify wealth, maybe even status.

It’s only PERCEIVED status.

Some years ago, I was in the car with your basic gold digger and we were at a red light in the middle lane. Three white cars in front of us, and from the back, aside from the ornament, you could barely tell them apart. A Bentley. Lexus. Honda.

I asked her “which one makes more money?”.
She enjoyed this quiz, smiled, and pointed to the Bentley with no hesitation.

“Very good! Now which one HAS more money?”.

That question irritated the s~~~ out of her and ruined her afternoon. A $30,000 millionaire can still have “nice clothes” and it is not a reliable indicator of “wealth” or status…. and conversely, he could be wearing dirty white tennis shoes that women HATE, and she will disqualify and walk right past him.

Women are complete s~~~ at spotting true value(s) in men.

Mencken wrote:

Women don’t like guys who dress like slobs.

Who cares.

Clothes are like someones “personality”. It’s a surface mask , can too easily be put on (like clothes) and it washes off like makeup. Turn on your TV and you will see personalities, famous personalties and even split personalities. But CHARACTER is what you have when you turn your television OFF. Very few people will make efforts to know your character. Women are too preoccupied with your clothes and “personality” to ever give a f~~~ about that. They will even decide to spread their legs (or not) based on what SHOES you’re wearing.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Thats why I wear old work clothes most of the time – keeps my SMV low.

I laugh when I’m working at one of my sites and chicks just walk past with out even a glance,just as you should ladies,just as you should.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[MenckenParticipant 693]

Akhilleus wrote:

Totally different walk into a store in a nice suit u get mobbed by service staff nice smiles etc. walk in street gear and security is following you around….

Though I find women to be more shallow, other men can be this way too.

I walked in a local fly fishing shop once. I picked up an 800$ sage fly rod to feel the action. The store owner watched me like a hawk and told me to put the rod down. Another guy comes into the shop with matching accessorized clothing of major fly fishing brands. This guy is immediately greeted, catered too, and encouraged to feel the same rod that I was told to put down. I left and patronized the “greedy big box stores” instead. The local fly shop went out of business.

Very few people will get to know your character. Truer words couldn’t be spoken. MGTOW seem to see the world for what it really is. I would hypothesis that mgtow are less likely to be that way and likely appreciate other men more since they no longer see them as competition for female validation.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

Women are complete s~~~ at spotting true value(s) in men.

Which is why they are most interested in men they perceive other women as wanting or already having. They know on a genetic level they are crap at judging men, so they try to take a shortcut by pursuing men they think other women have already put the effort into vetting. From a genetic standpoint this makes sense because while it might mean their offspring won’t have any genetic advantages from a superior coupling, it guarantees their offspring won’t be at any genetic disadvantage.

This is why women so commonly complain: “All the Good Men™ are already taken.” They don’t understand that they only think of them as “good men” specifically because they are “taken”. They don’t know a thing about any of those men apart from the fact that another woman has him, but that alone is enough to qualify him as a “good man” in their eyes.

A good demonstration of this behavior is to go to a bar with a wedding band on. You will notice a significant increase in positive attention from the women present.

Mencken wrote:

I walked in a local fly fishing shop once. I picked up an 800$ sage fly rod to feel the action. The store owner watched me like a hawk and told me to put the rod down. Another guy comes into the shop with matching accessorized clothing of major fly fishing brands. This guy is immediately greeted, catered too, and encouraged to feel the same rod that I was told to put down. I left and patronized the “greedy big box stores” instead. The local fly shop went out of business.

One of these days I’ll write up my experience when I walked into a Ferrari dealership to check out the FF under the mistaken impression they aren’t a bunch of pretentious, overblown, arrogant douchebags.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Mencken wrote:

Last week we had job interviews at college being so close to graduation. With all the sales, I went to a clothing store. I bought cord pants, belt, collar shirt, and a casual leather jacket. I walk into school the next day past the front desk which is staffed by young women. I have been walking by this desk for 2 years and was never noticed. Now that I have nice clothes, they greet me, smile, and are as friendly as could be. I saw that as a micro-aggression and became triggered.

I mention this to my tradcon father who tells me that they are likely high quality women being that they go to college. Women don’t like guys who dress like slobs. Slightly offended, I asked if I normally dress like a slob? They said no. The reason they noticed me now is because they are attracted to wealth. Nice clothes and confident strides signify wealth, maybe even status.

What if I was only nice to young attractive girls? Would that be considered shallow? F~~~ off. I am currently trying to move to the middle of no where with my next job.

It is exactly that. When you are down on your luck broke as much as you may try to walk shoulders back confidently etc your body language give sit a way that you are suffering hard times.

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[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Akhilleus wrote:

Totally different walk into a store in a nice suit u get mobbed by service staff nice smiles etc. walk in street gear and security is following you around….

Happened to me many times. Sometimes the security guy was so obviously sticking to me like glue he was missing people I could clearly see were shoplifters. The ironic thing is, that at this tme I was actually pretty wealthy and always had at least $500 on me at all times so I could buy and sell goods and services at a profit in a flash market.

Keymaster wrote:

Clothes are like someones “personality”. It’s a surface mask , can too easily be put on (like clothes) and it washes off like makeup. Turn on your TV and you will see personalities, famous personalties and even split personalities. But CHARACTER is what you have when you turn your television OFF. Very few people will make efforts to know your character. Women are too preoccupied with your clothes and “personality” to ever give a f~~~ about that. They will even decide to spread their legs (or not) based on what SHOES you’re wearing.

Again, seen it myself. What they don’t realise is that the Car can be on lease, and the clothes the one good set the guy has in his wardrobe. And that was probably brought on credit so technically he doesn’t even actually “own” it yet.

Always lived within my means as started out dirt poor. Was once in an office where everyone looked sucessful, new cars, clothes, holidays etc. to boast about. I had wallmart clothes and a clunker in the Lot. My female co-worker was waxing lyrical about her holiday cottage or whatever, and I said “it’s ok for you, you can afford it, I’m only on 15K”.

The S~~~ hit the Fan!! Turns out I was on more money than most of my co-workers as I had negotiated based on my skill set. She went apes~~~! “What! you’re on 15K? I only get 13K!”

I was one of the better paid employees on the floor but the women ignored me as they thought I was dirt poor. Unlike them, my money was mine to keep. It wasn’t already owed to the credit card companies.

If the broads really are so impressed by outward shows of wealth then they deserve to get screwed over by Flash Chad when his credit runs out and he starts living on their credit instead.

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