Sexual energy a driving force for success

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

I personally believe that the power of sexual energy can be one of the most motivating things a man can have. When my first “girlfriend” broke up with me as a teenager, I vowed to become rich and successful so that I could drive past her house in an Aston Martin and have her see me then. I figured when the bitch sees me, she’ll realize the mistake she made and come crawling back. Sure, it was delusional and unhealthy thinking looking back at it, but one thing for certain is that I believed it would work. So I quickly got to work on a clothing line and hustled day and night trying to get it done. I had a website created, shirts designed and printed, the whole 9 yards. I never got tired or lazy because she was still out there somewhere, and I wanted to see the look on her face when I made it.

Ultimately I shut down my business because of some immature reasons. I sometimes look back today and wonder if I would’ve eventually made tons of money with it like I set out to, or if it would’ve fizzled out like my passion for it did. I guess I’ll never know. The point I’m trying to make is that I set out to do something, and I did it with a fierce and ferocious desire. I admit that a large percentage of my motivation came from the sexual energy I had for her, and also the revenge factor.

So with that out of the way, I wanted to talk about the future. Ever since becoming MGTOW, there has been a void in my life in terms of direction and desire. I love being MGTOW, and I am MGTOW for life. Hypothetically speaking, even if I wanted to go back to normal, I could never. How could I knowing what I now know? The problem though is that as long as I’m MGTOW, I have absolutely zero reason to impress females. There is zero desire to get revenge on them since I don’t care about them or even want them anymore. Therefore, there is zero sexual energy to motivate me to do great things.

What I want to know is how can I find that passion and energy that I once had? Where can I find it? Females don’t give it to me anymore, so where can I find a similar burning motivation, similar to that of which I had when I was a teen? I am kind of drifting through life right now and could use some advice from some MGTOW brothers. Thanks.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I know exactly what you mean and I’ve also been through this.

Would you rather have the drive re sex or feeding a village of orphans somewhere.

Giving someone on the edge a chance to live again.

Holding a persons hand while they pass away with you in their hearts.

There are many many things that give far better drive.

For me it’s helping the San Bushmen in Namibia Africa. It is one of the best things I’m doing with my drive and it far out performs sexual motives.

 

[clint englandParticipant 341]

Buddy, me and you are peas in a pod! I too have reached the same conclusions. I look forward to the forthcoming replies with baited breath!

Sex energy drive is a very real thing!.   Porn isn’t the way ahead for me as i’ve really wasted no end of ‘creative energy’.  How do we harness it and direct it would be a good question for me too……

 

Nice post!

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

ILiveAgain wrote:

There are many many things that give far better drive.

I’m pushing myself for my graduate degree.  I have the desire to counsel veterans.  Something I can relate to, and believe that others can get well and stand on their own feet.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[FrankOneParticipant 1417]

Find something you enjoy and just DO IT.  Your moniker is boxing4life, maybe you should be a trainer or run a gym?  Don’t worry so much about how much money you’re making as whether you enjoy it.  And don’t let anyone shame you.  If you aren’t saddled with having to pay for a wife and kids, you can afford a change.  Or look at going to trade school, learning how to do web pages, etc — whatever floats your boat.

I socked away enough money to last a lifetime in my 20’s by living frugally and NOT shacking up with or marrying a woe-man.  My passion is learning new things and I work for the challenge of problem solving.  I’m in my mid 40’s now.

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I want a man who’s kind and understanding. Is that too much to ask of a millionaire?
Zsa Zsa Gabor

 

[TheGouliatParticipant 20]

That is the Typical Prison Problem:  You live your life in Prison. You Learned the Way of Life in Prison, not knowing of the life outside. You get used to it.

 

Now, you get Released from Prison to a new world. It works diffreent. the same Motivations that were appropriate in Prison, are harmful outside of it. You now have to Learn “Yourself”.

 

Before, you were Motivated by “How another one see me” now you have to get Motivated on “how i see Myself” .  thats the Challenge you have to figure out.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Napoleon Hill wrote most favorably about using sexual energy to succeed in his book Think and Grow Rich. Keep in mind the book was written long before sex was an acceptable topic in polite society.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

I’m pushing myself for my graduate degree. I have the desire to counsel veterans. Something I can relate to, and believe that others can get well and stand on their own feet.

 

I can definitely see where you are going with this battle. You’ve managed to point me in the right direction once already.  Suffice to say, I think you are on the right road brother…

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

For me, the found focus stemmed from liberation.  It was actually the lack of feeling as though I had to impress or appease the opposite sex that empowered me. In doing such, oddly enough, I find that I am approached now more than ever.

In the end, I found that I lost my ex, went into homelessness, soon after lost my only brother, then pretty much left the U.S. to go work in a third-world country to find work. I was bent, but not broken.   Little more than a year later I have an amazing job that paid for me to move to an amazing place and live/ work here. I’ve also enrolled in school begin a journey fulfilling a promise to myself to acquire a doctorates in this lifetime. S~~~, in the last two weeks I’ve learned to read sheet music and play rudimentary piano.

I say all that to show that sometimes you have to lose everything.  Lose your significant other, then your family, yourself, and finally, lose your mind in order to find yourself. But once found, never forsaken.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Mustaine-RulesParticipant 3]

in response to doing great things . Bro nowhere in mgt. does it say you can’t do great things for yourself or for people u may love like family and s~~~. The problem I see in society is that males seem to be more and more only motivated by pussy. Let me get a little deeper with it. Its this hyper sexual culture we live in. We are constantly bombarded with images of the beautiful female body and sometimes I wonder if humans and especially females were genetically engineered through foods milk and proteins to become more beautiful. Back in the 80’s it was like 1 out of 10 chicks were hot. Today its like 7 out of 10 chicks are better than average to hot. Chicks are both cashing in with their sexuality and using it as power albeit stripping , porn , hooters, modeling or nude modeling but at least those things although easy and devoid of hard work at least they are drawing a mans wallet promising him love which is the ultimate gyro sex power hustle!  This sexual power is unimaginably powerful! It has rendered men into sheep into c~~~ blockers and would do things they wouldn’t normally do to obtain this sex drug. We see it all the time from slick willy clinton to Tiger Woods.  But keep in mind this it isn’t just pussy for the lust sake like f~~~ing 2 hot bitches and having them suck your c~~~ until you give them both hot facials. Thats the lust drug! Our attraction to females is 3 fold pattern. 1. The lust drug as i just explained which is huge in todays porn culture. 2. The love drug. The love drug is comprised of the chemical oxytocin thats why the first 6 months of falling in love is amazing (puppy love) stage . Because we are getting the oxytocin reward and the reward also of the lust drug which comprises the chemicals oxytocin, dopamine , adrenaline and endorphins hence why we chase this high with such vigor! 3. Is the yin and yang theory that we somehow crave a level of feminine energy in our lives to feel complete. Now my assessment of mgtow is that if you don’t understand chemically why we chase women in the first place u won’t be able to thwart the massive power of these female energies. My contention is that its like any other drug chemically only stronger because its biologically natural. To me personally mgt. isn’t about being celibate or not having a relationship etc. To me mgt. is about having soveirgnty and control understanding and moots all being 10 STEPS ahead and smarter than ur female counter parts . When u have the knowledge and sovereignty then u can apply it to work FOR YOU instead of blindly rushing into things and having it go against you . When you have it work for you you are able to protect yourself from all gyro centric horses~~~! For example u only give these women exactly what they deserve and thats companionship , c~~~, and laughs. Never ever ever tell them there truth about everything only fools and manginess would ever do such a thing. If you boned 100 bitches in ur life u tell her u only boned 4. You got a big bank account or IRA you tell her you got just a little savings . Tell her up front after a couple serious f~~~ sessions u don’t believe in marriage if she walks well at least you got the honey hole and frosted her selfish f~~~in face. never get married and never pay more than once Remember this mgtows its all chemical highs very little of todays love has a spiritual component. Don’t get married and don’t ever have kids. Seriously u want your kid growing up in todays s~~~ ass world the earth is half dead for f~~~ sake. Now go fire your peter north size load on a feminazi’s glasses!

[USMC_315Participant 6]

When I started to work out and build muscle, that’s what my goal was, to have the most sexually appealing body around. When I got into the gym that’s all that was in my mind, “I’m going to look sexy, the bitches are going to be all over this”. What happened, I gained about 15-20 lbs of muscle in a few short months. It was obviously combined with sups and other reasons, but my point is that I wouldn’t have had that same drive or success had I not wanted to impress the ladies

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

I started skydiving years ago to keep a slut’s attention.

She is long gone: But I’m still jumping, and occasionally banging hotter, younger & tighter than her due to my Last Action Hero skills.

Ultimately, its been a great return on my initial investment.

 

 

SKY-0

[John DoeParticipant 743]

Or you can just start dumping things inside and out (metaphorically speaking).  Instead of looking for a passion look for why you want to have a passion to begin with.  And if this puts you in a depress stupor, find out why and get rid of that too.   The quest for happiness is probably the biggest trap I and most people I know have/are/will stumble into.

Find something that makes you real happy?  Get rid of it.

Find something that makes you real sad?  Get rid of it.

Bored and looking for direction?  Get rid of that too.

And if you find satisfaction:  Get rid of that too.

If sanity was such a great thing, then men would not spend their waking hours trying to devise schemes of how to avoid it.

 

[DurdenParticipant 1051]

You have to find a cause that you are passionate about and have the vision to see your dreams reach toward them. Make them happen.Being a MGTOW there really no excuse to not make it happen as you have more free time.

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

[BDParticipant 1146]

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

What I want to know is how can I find that passion and energy that I once had? Where can I find it? Females don’t give it to me anymore, so where can I find a similar burning motivation, similar to that of which I had when I was a teen? I

I was in the same boat brother, I changed my life and everything in my life revolves around emergency response, I haver to keep my body conditioned to perform when called upon and it is fulfilling.

My favourite video about finding your path.

Mustaine-Rules wrote:

We are constantly bombarded with images of the beautiful female body

I simply do not watch cable television, advertising and consumerism/materialism depresses me.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[BDParticipant 1146]

What you put into your mind you will get out of it. Feed your mind quality material. Exercise helps your mind.

http://www.helpguide.org/articles/exercise-fitness/emotional-benefits-of-exercise.htm

When I am short on motivation, I google “motivational speeches”.

I download and convert these speeches to mp3 and sometimes play them when my energy runs low at the gym.

Here are two of my favorites;

It worked for me, hopefully it helps someone else on here, good luck.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[AuburnMindParticipant 1]

Speaking of this, it brings to mind a teaching that is often called Sexual Transmutation most notably Napoleon Hill mentioned this teaching in his books. Basically its the idea that if men do not use their vital energy in pursuing women they should rather direct it towards other areas of their life and harness the innate power that is present within them and not be drained daily by sexual urges in order to achieve success.

Become a testosterone driven monster.

[SisyphusParticipant 4]

TheGouliat wrote:

That is the Typical Prison Problem: You live your life in Prison. You Learned the Way of Life in Prison, not knowing of the life outside. You get used to it. Now, you get Released from Prison to a new world. It works diffreent. the same Motivations that were appropriate in Prison, are harmful outside of it. You now have to Learn “Yourself”. Before, you were Motivated by “How another one see me” now you have to get Motivated on “how i see Myself” . thats the Challenge you have to figure out.

I’d like to switch the metaphor up and call it a cage, as we really are birds who only have to figure out the lock mechanism and then can fly away doing whatever the f~~~ we want. The only problem is what you already state; after being free, there is always the fear factor that causes us to seek another cage and wanting to be imprisoned again. In order to avoid this, we have to go and find something to do that we love and that we can be proud about.

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