So, I am new to all this MGTOW, only realised this existed about a week ago, been watching sandman youtube stuff all week.
So, here is my story of something that happened just a short time ago.
I have been separated for nearly 4 years now, (not divorced yet…..that’s another long story) and have dated on an off ever since.
This last “Woman” that i dated seemed nice and well put together. She was the body size i liked (5 foot 2″, 118 lbs, small)
we went on a few coffee dates, and out to lunch a couple of times, she does not drive, and has asked me to pick her up to do some running around, and i really do not mind that, as i like to drive, ( i have a 2013 Mini Cooper) we would hit it off nicely, i found it kind of odd though that she never invited me into her home for a drink. but when you think about it, most woman are cautious about letting men into there homes, thats a big step for them. Or so i thought. so, the time comes we are at my place, we start fooling around, you know the norm. kissing an copping a feel,, etc etc. we make it to the bed room, and you all know what comes next. I do my damnedest and manage to get her off (man it was hard…..) and then think ok, my turn.. i finish roll over soaked to the bone… she then sits up, an says thats all? I am like huh?? you got off didn’t you, shes like yeah but only once. she says “you aren’t a man if you can’t get me off at lest 5 times.. now i am no 20 year old anymore, even in my 20’s i was not that energetic!! i told her nope, not gona happen. and she starts losing it, about all i was after was my own pleasure!! what the hell woman, i spent nearly 2 hours trying to get you off, must have lost 30 pounds in sweat alone, and i am sure i tore some muscles in my bloody back! n ow don’t get me wrong here, I did enjoy myself. but s~~~.. if your going to cuss me out for your lack of orgasums, all of which you can easily help yourself to achieve during sex. Don’t expect me to stick around.. too bad we were at my place, because i wanted to RUN like hell, and get the hell out of there. but like a lame duck i sat there an took her abuse. finally i convinced her to get dressed and for us to leave telling her i had a rather important appointment to get to later, and need to come home an shower an such. so as i pull into her driveway, she all of a sudden says “OH S~~~,, he is home.” i am like,, WHAT? who is home? … her Husband.. she jumps out of the car, and tells me to get out of there as fast as possible.. i do leave,, but not as fast as i could have. i pulled down the street, FUMING over the fact she is married, and never said a word. there was no ring on her hand or nothing, not even a tan line,.. so i sat to myself thinking about what i am going to do, i know i am never going to see this person, but,, being who i am, i can not let this slide, i feel sorry for the poor bastard, i am sure he doesn’t know what’s going on. and as i am thinking, i see him come out of his house an get into the car and start to drive away, he goes to the local gas bar, i pull up behind him. he sees me and comes over to say hi, that he saw me through the window, i introduced myself, and then told him we should go for a Coffee.
we do, and i tell him everything, at first he does not believe me, until i show him some texts on my phone, and.. some pictures i took of us during our “session”. he then says to me why.. why would i tell him this, i explained i did not know she was married, and i can not stand being put into a situation where i would be the bad guy for screwing someone’s wife, and knowing she is now married, i will never ever contact her again. we part ways he goes home and so do i. later that night she calls me up screaming he ass off on how much of an ass hole i am how i ruined her marriage etc etc. can you believe this? i ruined her marriage?
the next day He calls me to let me know what happened, i had given him my phone number, and he told me that he had called the police and had her removed from his home, because after he confronted her about the affair she lost it, and smashed a lamp over his head, blaming him for it. because he was always at work. he makes around 250k a year, 60-70 hours a week, thank god no kids.
for years since my breakup with my wife, and gotten back into dating, i can not help but think are all the woman out there f~~~ing nuts these days? and this is not the worst thing that’s happened to me, one date, 5 minutes into meeting her, he first questions were, how much you make, what do you drive, how much is in your bank account and how big is your penis.. ,, little to say, i stood up and left her with the bill and walked out of the restaurant.
Anonymous 4 years, 8 months ago.
