Settlements (what price freedom?)

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

I see a lot of stories on here about men that lost half of their money and children and much more and wonder how you kept half of the money. I lost everything, several times. I have a college education and above average IQ – obviously slow on the uptake but I finally wised up. The red pill may be hard to swallow but definitely worth it.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Some years ago, I was talking with a newly divorced acquaintance. He told me what it cost: It was a huge amount. Basically he lost everything. I was shocked and said so.

His answer was: “It was worth it.”

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

With 2 divorces survived, it all comes down to the way you see “reality”.
Furniture disappears, it can be replaced.
Support paid out, well if she had stayed you would have paid it all out to her anyway.
The biggest gain from settlements, is simply that you don’t have to deal with her satanic ways any longer.
Why live with someone who hates you, the man?
Why not live with yourself, and do what pleases you?
Remember this-
We are born with nothing, and we return to dust bringing nothing.
A sobering and very sane thought.
Seems we are here in this “REALITY’, possibly a projection of our own minds, this earth the ultimate survival game.
MGTOWs, play well and carry on.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25019]

I was married twice, first wife ripped me off for two thirds of the value of the house and double alimony (it was a six year marriage so I paid double for the six years). Why? My divorce attorney advised me to give it all to her if she signed a “non modifieabel” clause.. She was such a train wreck that my attorney was worried she’d come back and get more out of a judge at some point.

My second divorce after 4 years of marriage was simple. The custody fight I had to launch to gain 50/50 custody of my son lasted 13 years and cost me $300,000.00.

Despite winning my son, who is 18, never calls and wants nothing to do with me.

If I had to do it over again I would have walked away and paid the child support, about $200,000.00 and lived a happy life going my own way instead of a 50% single stay at home dad to someone who has no feelings toward me. We can argue that he was taught to him by his mother and our misandrist society but I put the blame on him. He wasn’t raised this way, we we’re very close growing up.

Just my experience, N=1.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

Feel it deep my friend and yeah, children pay the price.
Sadly with 4 children, sometimes, I wish I had none.
But this is Anger personified, I feel sorry for them more.
Mommy was such a card, such a dignified creature, wait, not a f$cking chance, a rib, second class all the way.
Take care.

[HitmanParticipant]

freedom is priceless , the crime is having to pay for it at all..but everything has a cost ..men have died for freedom , their own and others,..whatever the price , freedom is worth it ..live free or die !

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

I was married twice, first wife ripped me off for two thirds of the value of the house and double alimony (it was a six year marriage so I paid double for the six years). Why? My divorce attorney advised me to give it all to her if she signed a “non modifieabel” clause.. She was such a train wreck that my attorney was worried she’d come back and get more out of a judge at some point.
My second divorce after 4 years of marriage was simple. The custody fight I had to launch to gain 50/50 custody of my son lasted 13 years and cost me $300,000.00.
Despite winning my son, who is 18, never calls and wants nothing to do with me.
If I had to do it over again I would have walked away and paid the child support, about $200,000.00 and lived a happy life going my own way instead of a 50% single stay at home dad to someone who has no feelings toward me. We can argue that he was taught to him by his mother and our misandrist society but I put the blame on him. He wasn’t raised this way, we we’re very close growing up.
Just my experience, N=1.

Just curious to know after going through the hell blaze in the first marriage,what triggers you to walk into that blaze again? Im just always curious to know the thought process at this time because I see men do it over and over again. (Billy Joel)

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

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