Self Respect / creating contentment for MGTOW

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Somet thoughts on this applicable to my own life… Imho it is good for a MGHOW to fully respect himself. All that is definitely/fully in a mans control is himself – his own life. Be in FULL command of your own life and future.

In this flawed gynocetric society many of us here have been through difficult experiences with women, GFs, wives – many of whom were narcs and messed up in the head by feminism to at least some degree. Women, media. and a flawed governmental/economic ‘system’ have attempted to control, to programme us, to condition us, take our resources, and shame men into complying with their unreasonable demands. We broke free from the nonsense of the gynocentric matrix or found our way here after losses, wounds and scars – but we are all HERE as free ‘in spirit’ MGTOW. Live your life the way you want.

In general women / and a flawed society has shown a lack of respect to us and men in general. The truth is a man, his abilities and attributes should be respected. However, as a MGHOW I am NOT dependent on the respect of society or women – what matters imho is that a MGHOW respects himself, his male intelligence and his ability to lead his OWN life/his ability to learn how to do so if needs be.

Being MGTOW involves being ones real self – not being a blue pill slave – and learning to flourish or be content. And being secure and fearless NFG in being true to oneself without guilt or regret.

Many of us fell for a female who turned out to be a bitch or a woman messed up in the head in by feminism or excessive greed/materialism, we made honest mistakes by buying into that dream, and learned hard lessons. Imho it is vital and correct to forgive oneself for any percieved past wrongdoings, honest mistakes, or misplaced guilt if applicable – and to learn from experiences and move on with life. Be honest with ones self, correct ones self if needs be, be your real self, have a positive self image of it, and live your OWN MGTOW life whatever you imagine that to be.

Sometimes we describe the past experiences. On this website we highlight the flaws of modern day women and the system, help/educate men, and to heal and express ourselves if needed. While being red pilled aware of these things – there is also benefit in having internal peace with those things that are in the past or are not in our control so those things do not continue to detrimentally disturb ones mind on an ongoing basis for years to come.

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[bladeParticipant]

The bubble you create around your inner self . I like to keep my bubble as positive and happy as can be .

People search for love and exceptence . Yet all that time under our noses . Its WITH IN . To view threw our own eyes and not the eyes and limits of society .

Every day the sun comes up is a new day .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Knight of the ApocalypseParticipant 326]

Classic Stoicism gentlemen.

Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions.

The things in our control are by nature free, unrestrained, unhindered; but those not in our control are weak, slavish, restrained, belonging to others. Remember, then, that if you suppose that things which are slavish by nature are also free, and that what belongs to others is your own, then you will be hindered. You will lament, you will be disturbed, and you will find fault both with gods and men. But if you suppose that only to be your own which is your own, and what belongs to others such as it really is, then no one will ever compel you or restrain you. Further, you will find fault with no one or accuse no one. You will do nothing against your will. No one will hurt you, you will have no enemies, and you not be harmed.

Aiming therefore at such great things, remember that you must not allow yourself to be carried, even with a slight tendency, towards the attainment of lesser things. Instead, you must entirely quit some things and for the present postpone the rest. But if you would both have these great things, along with power and riches, then you will not gain even the latter, because you aim at the former too: but you will absolutely fail of the former, by which alone happiness and freedom are achieved.

Work, therefore to be able to say to every harsh appearance, “You are but an appearance, and not absolutely the thing you appear to be.” And then examine it by those rules which you have, and first, and chiefly, by this: whether it concerns the things which are in our own control, or those which are not; and, if it concerns anything not in our control, be prepared to say that it is nothing to you.
–Epictetus

"Just ignore everything women say and nothing will annoy you ever again." - Cu Chulainn

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Set some type of GOALS for YOURSELF

PLAN how you will ACHIEVE them

EVALUATE your progress towards them periodically, and don’t be afraid to change/alter them as sometimes in Life our Interest, Desires, and Plans change as does MANY things out of our control, so being ADAPTABLE is key.

INSTEAD of SPENDIND your Time, Energy, Efforts, and Resources on ALL THAT STUFF IN THE MATRIX whether it be politics, sports, current events, women, relationships, work drama, other people’s problems, etc. etc. etc., and letting all that CRAP take up Space in YOUR HEAD

BEGIN to INVEST your Time, Energy, Efforts, and Resources on Obtaining YOUR GOALS

Focus on Thyself

People come and go, and this includes family

NOBODY ELSE will Appreciate/Respect You more then YOURSELF

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 38]

Christopher wrote:

Being MGTOW involves being ones real self – not being a blue pill slave – and learning to flourish or be content. And being secure and fearless NFG in being true to oneself without guilt or regret.

Great point. I remember reading in one of Rollo Tomassi’s books, and in other places, that “being yourself” is the worst advice ever. Worst because it won’t usually get you laid.

Being MGTOW overrides that. We don’t need to pretend any more. We are who we are and give zero f~~~s about pretending to be someone else like every other blue pilled c~~~ on earth. Courage, honour and integrity. True, we may hide certain aspects of ourselves while operating in the matrix, but in general we live lives entirely true to ourselves.

And that’s what makes us men. Real men on my opinion.

[Anonymous 38]

Awakened wrote:

Set some type of GOALS for YOURSELF
PLAN how you will ACHIEVE them
EVALUATE your progress towards them periodically, and don’t be afraid to change/alter them as sometimes in Life our Interest, Desires, and Plans change as does MANY things out of our control, so being ADAPTABLE is key.
INSTEAD of SPENDIND your Time, Energy, Efforts, and Resources on ALL THAT STUFF IN THE MATRIX whether it be politics, sports, current events, women, relationships, work drama, other people’s problems, etc. etc. etc., and letting all that CRAP take up Space in YOUR HEAD
BEGIN to INVEST your Time, Energy, Efforts, and Resources on Obtaining YOUR GOALS
Focus on Thyself
People come and go, and this includes family
NOBODY ELSE will Appreciate/Respect You more then YOURSELF

Yes. Take emotion out of it. Treat it like a game of chess. Logic and strategy wins the game.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Or you can just not give a f~~~.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

Knight of The Apocalypse Wrote:
Classic Stoicism gentlemen.

In the word’s of Jesus

“it is as you say”

I like being succinct so instead of typing the serenity prayer
I will just agree with you using two words..

Jesus used five words to agree and the general public called it a confession and martyred him.

My two words are:

“Epictetus Discourses”

Freedom can be measured on a sliding scale
with different levels of liberty taken by
each of us and Dependant on three things.

1. The level of sacrifice and suffering we are willing to endure to obtain our goals..

(Will you fight and die for your beliefs? a harder Question is “Will you sacrifice your only son for those principals”)

Who would ask you to sacrifice your child? The Government is asking every time they start a new war to push the cause of 1000 years of peace forward and into the future when the people of the world are ready for it now..

2.Our willingness to love and respect each other even if we disagree..(being forgiving and merciful to those who
trespass against us)..

3.Teaching the truth to our children not preaching our beliefs..

An education is not learning “WHAT” to think.
(The indoctrinated who parrot the beliefs of others and cannot think for themselves).

An education is learning “HOW” to think.
(the problem solvers who find creative solutions to life’s obstacles and stumbling blocks).

Only the educated are free.
The self-sufficient have the highest
level of freedom.

I look at my time spent at this site as service to those who find value in my words and the words
taught to me by my father. It is not free time of life to me but it is free to you guys..

To make things simple for me to understand My father taught me succinct one word definitions.
Worship defined using one word would be a simple thanks.
I could never thank my father enough for what he taught me. (Therefor I worship him)

Thank My father not Me if you find any value in these words..

Love and respect to all without prejudice..

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Carnage wrote:

Or you can just not give a f~~~.

Not giving a f~~~ has become cliche.

Though that’s how I feel also.
I totally agree with you, Carnage.

There are t-shirts, hats and other gear on the market now, to communicate to everyone how you DGAF, but idiots are going to all of the trouble to broadcast that to everyone in order to appear indifferent and “cool”, thereby gaining the approval of those you supposedly don’t give a f~~~ about.

Remember that douche that was on here last year posting DGAF or whatever on every forum post in here?
That dude gave a f~~~, but pretended he didn’t in order to get the approval (stars) of his peers.
I’m pretty sure he has continued lurking here under another name because I’ve seen douche-ey posts and comments from
new members.
He had a problem with attention and approval-seeking, while bragging about his wealth, his “game” and possessions.

Don’t be that guy.

Go ahead and not give a f~~~, but keep it to yourself.

[Anonymous 18]

@awakened, wise points sir. Much appreciated some cold splash on sleepy eyes. Reminds me of why I am here. To learn.

[Anonymous 0]

Awakened wrote:

INSTEAD of SPENDIND your Time, Energy, Efforts, and Resources on ALL THAT STUFF IN THE MATRIX whether it be politics, sports, current events, women, relationships, work drama, other people’s problems, etc. etc. etc., and letting all that CRAP take up Space in YOUR HEAD
BEGIN to INVEST your Time, Energy, Efforts, and Resources on Obtaining YOUR GOALS
Focus on Thyself
People come and go, and this includes family
NOBODY ELSE will Appreciate/Respect You more then YOURSELF

Well said.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Wise words gentleman – cheers.

blade wrote:

The bubble you create around your inner self . I like to keep my bubble as positive and happy as can be . People search for love and exceptence . Yet all that time under our noses . Its WITH IN . To view threw our own eyes and not the eyes and limits of society . Every day the sun comes up is a new day .

Knight of the Apocalypse wrote:

Classic Stoicism gentlemen.

Awakened wrote:

INSTEAD of SPENDIND your Time, Energy, Efforts, and Resources on ALL THAT STUFF IN THE MATRIX whether it be politics, sports, current events, women, relationships, work drama, other people’s problems, etc. etc. etc., and letting all that CRAP take up Space in YOUR HEADBEGIN to INVEST your Time, Energy, Efforts, and Resources on Obtaining YOUR GOALSFocus on Thyself

Anonymous wrote:

True, we may hide certain aspects of ourselves while operating in the matrix, but in general we live lives entirely true to ourselves.And that’s what makes us men

Carnage wrote:

Or you can just not give a f~~~.

Anyone got any more useful vidoes on this topic ? Cheers.

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