Self reflection

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

So, here’s the story. I do not know if my ex-wife was bad luck, or it was just timing. Her birthday is on the 13th of the month. Our wedding suite was 13 on the 13th floor in AC, NJ. Since I started dating her, it was like my body was shutting down. Severe back pains, migraines, and in the ER more than a dozen times. Since the divorce, pain under control if at all. No ER visits, body in excellent shape. Back to 14% body fat and finances stable.

Could it be that my body was trying to warn me of trouble? She didn’t cook nor stay in my room, so no poisoning.

I just do not understand the complete 180 in my health.

[DiogenesParticipant 373]

Stress, and high levels of it when you were with her, it sounds like to me.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Diogenes wrote:

Stress, and high levels of it when you were with her, it sounds like to me.

Perhaps. The stress to keep one upping myself and play what will make her happy today was a toll.

I am a simple person. I want people around me to be happy. Seems it was never enough. As long as I have a roof over my head, good financial and medical health and can feed myself with healthy food, I am good. I do not need material things (do cigars and scotch count?). Seems people around me are indifferent to my outlook.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

ForeverDone wrote:

I am a simple person. I want people around me to be happy. Seems it was never enough. As long as I have a roof over my head, good financial and medical health and can feed myself with healthy food, I am good. I do not need material things (do cigars and scotch count?). Seems people around me are indifferent to my outlook.

Simplicity is the ticket to freedom, brother….a cigar, icy cool scotch and a comfortable chair next to a roaring fire in the winter. Nothing but the warm blanket of air surrounding you and the crackling of wood.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[DiogenesParticipant 373]

ForeverDone, like MGTOW_Mike wrote, simplicity is the ticket to freedom. And I might add…to serenity as well.

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

Listen to your body sir and listen to what God is telling you through this experience.

Thank you for sharing, there must be research on this.

A proverb says a bad wife rots a man from his bones on out.

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

ForeverDone wrote:

I am a simple person. I want people around me to be happy. Seems it was never enough. As long as I have a roof over my head, good financial and medical health and can feed myself with healthy food, I am good. I do not need material things (do cigars and scotch count?). Seems people around me are indifferent to my outlook.

A statement that women will never understand. It is beyond a womans mental faculties to find contentment in this life.

Women are cursed creatures, who always believe they are “one trinket away” from unyielding happiness.

Enjoy the Big things, (food, water, fire, shelter). Forget the small s~~~, it’ll drive you nuts.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Well well my ex was also a 13th.

I also felt weakened by her, she turned me into a coward, to a degree I wasn’t able to get close to the edge of a building… I love high places… wtf?

My colesterol and creatinine level droped to normal after divorce, I was the one who cooked and always did exercise, but was stressed like s~~~.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 18]

You were the 13th guy she f~~~ed.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

I had a similar experience with my ex. I thought I was happy but it wasn’t until being single now that I notice how much healthier(physically and mentally) I am. Not to mention my finances are a lot better and I spend money doing things that I love to do.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

All that Matters is that She is GONE !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 43]

she hooked up with the first of 13 orbiters and chads 13 minutes after you cut her loose

[HermitParticipant 1121]

You body will react to mental strain in terrible ways. What happened to you was no coincidence.

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

she hooked up with the first of 13 orbiters and chads 13 minutes after you cut her loose

Possibly. I wish her well and hope she can find happiness. I hold no ill will against her. Her mother on the other hand, I hope she gets tit and pussy cancer.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Hermit wrote:

You body will react to mental strain in terrible ways. What happened to you was no coincidence.

I felt I was being forced to sign that marriage sentence and that all I have would be given to her in the event of a divorce. It was driving me mad. Prior to marriage, she played her part well.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Awakened wrote:

All that Matters is that She is GONE !!

Amen.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Carnage wrote:

Well well my ex was also a 13th.

I also felt weakened by her, she turned me into a coward, to a degree I wasn’t able to get close to the edge of a building… I love high places… wtf?

My colesterol and creatinine level droped to normal after divorce, I was the one who cooked and always did exercise, but was stressed like s~~~.

I wonder if stress from marriage is why men die sooner…

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

I am a simple person. I want people around me to be happy. Seems it was never enough. As long as I have a roof over my head, good financial and medical health and can feed myself with healthy food, I am good. I do not need material things (do cigars and scotch count?). Seems people around me are indifferent to my outlook.

Simplicity is the ticket to freedom, brother….a cigar, icy cool scotch and a comfortable chair next to a roaring fire in the winter. Nothing but the warm blanket of air surrounding you and the crackling of wood.

Sounds like heaven. 🙂

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

You were the 13th guy she f~~~ed.

Up until 39 she was quite attractive; at least to me. She looked like a younger Marissa Mayer, just bigger t~~~ and less money. lol. S~~~ hit the fan at 40.

I have a feeling more than 13 guys have been in her holes. I still remember she asked for an open marriage. That still burns me. I never felt so disrespected in my life. I filed that week for divorce.. I knew the marriage was over. It was a sham. While none of my VARs or GPS can prove that she cheated, I can see it.

Modern women… You just cannot trust them.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

My ex wasn’t born on the 13th, but pretty sure she was the inspiration for the screenwriter(s) of Friday the 13th.

ZING!

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