Self-Actualized Contentment

[MusclecarGolferParticipant 636]

Greetings,
I’m 38, never been married, no kids, and never been in a relationship. I was loner in school and quickly got used to an independent lifestyle running on my own social schedule. I tried to date a couple of times in late 20s and early 30s – nothing came to fruition. Afterwards, I went back to my familiar loner social schedule and realized that I was not only completely comfortable, but content. I’m able to (even more) clearly see all the extra drama and BS that the newly-castrated men in relationships (willingly) subscribe to, along with the total BS-bubbles that women live in. I have structured my life in such an organized, efficient, and optimal-yield-for-my-time-invested manner that the mere thought of compromising it makes my eye twitch. I have a well-paying career, excellent health, a sufficient home, a nice car collection, financial contentment, and a potential early-retirement. Ain’t no way in Heaven, Hell, or high water that any she-devil is gonna eff that up.

I realize that I am exceedingly-fortunate not to have incurred the evisceration that many here have experienced – reading the severity in your summaries makes me nauseous. Hats off to you who are moving forward after dealing with all that garbage – sounds akin to being dragged along a gravel road, naked, at 55 mph, by your meat and two veg. Ugh.

[Anonymous 54]

Nice goin MG!!!

[Anonymous 43]

As someone who was dragged down a gravel road by the jimmies, I welcome you and your wise choice to stay single.

I was still sorta happily married at age 38, but the problems were just starting. Now at age 47, I wish I had the $650 a month I pay in CS, and the money I bleed paying off the divorce lawyer credit card bills.

[HitmanParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I wish I had the $650 a month I pay in CS, and the money I bleed paying off the divorce lawyer credit card bills.

me too !!!
Welcome brother-man.
enjoy !

[Anonymous 25]

welcome

we’re getting so many new members these days I’m going to have to set up a beer tent to hand out the beers

[Anonymous 13]

Welcome.

You’re all set up.
Don’t let some c~~~ take it all away from you.
That is what they’re programmed to do.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I’m glad you found us.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Welcome aboard! Looking forward to reading more of your posts.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome. Man, I’m jealous. I wish that I would have had the sense to start out my life like yours. You are a great addition to MGTOWN.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome MG! You have made fantastic choices in your life and it will just keep getting better.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[UKChapParticipant 296]

Welcome Brother

Life's a bitch, then you're supposed to marry one and then die- sod that for a game of soldiers!

[KadafiParticipant 67]

Being a couple of years younger than you and having experienced married life for a few years I can tell you that you are best out of it.

Once you are married your outgoings will spiral out of control and hardly any of it will be on yourself . Spend your money on your house, car, holidays and just enjoy life

[MusclecarGolferParticipant 636]

Thanks for the warm reception. It’s a nice change to (finally) not be perceived as an outcast – not that it ever bothered me. Those pussified man-boys, as well as the gaggles of harpies, can all go take a long walk off a short cliff; and can write me once they reach the bottom. The camaraderie with this chosen lifestyle, and the shared-recognition of the perils that await men nowadays, are reassuring, and invigorating.

A response to your crying woman: “If you’re going to cry me a river, don’t forget to build me a boat.”

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Welcome Duke. I’m a few years younger than you and I’m fortunate to not have married or started a family. I read the forums every day and every day I am reassured I made the correct choice to go my own way. Good to see another man going his own way.

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

I look back at high school and see the social pecking order was totally flipped. The popular guys are struggling blue pills with high debt. no life and see their high school years as the best of their life. The braniacs are not struggling but they don’t have freedom, they work all day and play house all night. The loners and the rebels, if they stayed out of jail, are on top.

Let the good times roll

[MusclecarGolferParticipant 636]

BlakeGuy:

That’s a fascinating observation. I just attended my 20-year HS reunion (for kicks & grins, along with looking at the puss – who’s holding up and who has hit the wall), and of the few fellas that I actually knew back then (didn’t bother keeping in touch though), they all fell into the other two categories. There was one dude who was single, but he seemed to be a potential white knight or mangina, so he didn’t count.

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