Seems I've encountered some NAWALTs

[TwistParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I am a Man. Hath not a Man eyes? Hath not a Man hands, organs, dimensions, senses, affections, passions? Fed with the same food, hurt with the same weapons, subject to the same diseases, healed by the same means, warmed and cooled by the same winter and summer, as a Woman is? If you prick us, do we not bleed? If you tickle us, do we not laugh? If you poison us, do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?

Thanks Trik,

Nobody has gotten me to read Shakespeare in years.

[Anonymous 0]

I’m going to keep saying this as long as there are younger men on this site that might be fooled:
NAWALT will exist when I see:
A battalion of all female combat trained soldiers in the front line giving as good as they get.
Women campaigning for there to be a 50-50 split between male and female nurses.
Equal treatment of men in divorce courts.
Women being prosecuted for false rape allegations, phony dv allegations, and intentionally provoking a man to hit her.

If I see these things, I will say that, JUST MAYBE, there has been a change of attitude. But that still does not take into account the female, time honoured practice of bait and switch. Do not be fooled.

[HitmanParticipant]

my friend on the west coast endured psychological TORTURE from his now ex wife.
she berated him and really did a number on him..
he recently dated and banged a few ladies who were GUSHING praises on him.
he realized his EX was the PROBLEM, not him.
he told me how the one he is seeing now is ;
on time
polite
answers texts
does not bother him with too many calls
…….he was SO impressed.
THEN i remembered keymaster’s wisdom,
i let him know she is doing the MINIMUM REQUIRED.
and he realized how f~~~ed things are when as men,
THAT’S enough to impress the hell out of us.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

I know several women at work who are very polite and friendly. Many of them are divorced too.

Funny how they treat their husbands worse than colleagues or even complete strangers.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[TwistParticipant]

xlrsnbrg wrote:

Funny how they treat their husbands worse than colleagues or even complete strangers.

Yes, marriage certainly brings out the best in women. Nothing like a good divorce to make them feel strong and empowered.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Twist wrote:

If they pretend to be unaware that you have done something, that relieves them of the requirement to acknowledge it and show gratitude.

All of this not spoken about nearly enough.

One day I saw this little fragment of a gesture and it changed my entire outlook – permanently.

—

Of course, manual door locks don’t exist anymore and it’s not even the point, a realistic “deal breaker” or grounds for dumping her. But look at his reaction. Like it was the most AWESOME thing she could have possibly done. Grateful and thrilled for any little scrap of decency as simple as flicking a switch.

He cares about lending the kid his car – which he would never usually do – so that HE “makes a good impression”.

Twist wrote:

Nobody has gotten me to read Shakespeare in years.

Smiled.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TwistParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

this little fragment of a gesture

Some gems on here today. I saw Chazz Palminteri do that play in the late 80’s. A one-man play where he did something like 40 (?) characters. In a little off-Broadway theatre. The kind of performance that makes you appreciate theatre. I was concerned they would ruin it with the movie, but nope. The door lock scene is so pure – the smallest gestures sometimes…

The small gestures – takes me back to decades of dealing with xW. If once, then a thousand times, I would plead “can’t you just be nice?”. Not once could she say “OK”. It was alway met with rage “You be nice too”. Its like giving a f~~~ing inch would absolutely kill them.

Fascinating creatures.

Like the hippos.

[TriviumParticipant 1029]

Just because you can’t see the radiation at Fukushima doesn’t mean it isn’t there.

"Listen to all, Follow none"

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

Don’t be f~~~ing stupid..C~~~s are nice when It benefits them. Your
Red pill skills are WEAK! Go Watch Spetsnaz, Turd flinging Monkey, BarBar etc. Hypergamy is a FACT of nature. You might get lucky and come out in the end with your life in tact when buying into a woman. You also might win the lottery. The odds are similar And the stakes indelibly higher. DO NOT BE FOOLED BY WOMEN young Padawans

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

PuniShredder wrote:

C~~~s are nice when It benefits them

I agree,any nice gesture should not be trusted because you have no idea why. What if the women in that scooter you’re talking about was told be a family member/friend the night before of how awful of a person she is and she uses you to do something nice for to make her feel good about herself. Any actions a women possess are only gear inward,some may do a favor because they know they want 3 from you at some point. Dont fall for it.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 6]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Yes, yes, I know NAWALT eventually becomes AWALT, and maybe it’s just because they’re Canadian (even though they live in Gyno Central) or because I’m a friend of a friend (well, in two of the stories I’m about to tell you) but I seem to have encountered a few women who are actually pretty decent human beings. Why am I sharing these stories? *shrug* Just because I feel like it, I guess, and maybe you guys can help me see any warning signs that may be coming.

Story #1: I was waiting in line to buy a drink behind this landwhale in a scooter who was having a hard time grabbing a bottle of iced tea, and (politely, I might surprisingly add) asked me to grab it for her, and my first thought was ‘Get it yourself, you fatass’ but then I was like ‘I’m never gonna be able to meet up with my buddy in time if I don’t’, so just to speed things up I grabbed it for her. She thanked me and bought my drink for me. I thought “Well, now there’s something I don’t see everyday.”

Story 2: I was helping out a buddy of mine move his friend’s new bed into her room. Again, I didn’t really feel like doing so, but just so we could leave, because I was hungry, I helped him. After that was done we headed to a Wendy’s and she bought us both dinner (probably off her bf’s money but hey, free food is free food).

Story 3: Another friend of a friend. He and I were hanging out and she called him and wanted to hang out, so he had to drive over from where we were to a coffee shop a few major streets down, and when she finally showed up, offered to buy us a drink, and I got another free drink out of it, this time not having to do anything. I know, probably just being nice because he’s her close friend and I’m his buddy, don’t want to appear rude, etc. but still, I ain’t complaining.

So, what do you guys think? Is #3 (or even #2, #1 is a stranger I doubt I’ll ever see again) just doing this in the hopes I’ll become another beta orbiter, or utility? If so, they’re in for a disappointment. Is there something there you guys see that I don’t? Was I just super lucky? Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Look man, the major warning sign is that you have considered this at all, if you continue to believe NAWALT, and act upon it…here is my advice, perhaps prophecy, things will end very badly for you. Do not, ever, I mean EVER, think NAWALT, give your face a slap, and tell the mangina, that’s rearing its ugly head in you, that he can never come back.

Endnote: If you’re going to come on MGTOW, where many of us are highly seasoned and have been out the Matrix for many many years, you need to come with something more than a slut buying you Wendy’s and another a drink to say NAWALT. You’re in for a rude awakening man.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

PuniShredder wrote:

Don’t be f~~~ing stupid..C~~~s are nice when It benefits them. Your
Red pill skills are WEAK! Go Watch Spetsnaz, Turd flinging Monkey, BarBar etc. Hypergamy is a FACT of nature. You might get lucky and come out in the end with your life in tact when buying into a woman. You also might win the lottery. The odds are similar And the stakes indelibly higher. DO NOT BE FOOLED BY WOMEN young Padawans

I know my skills are weak, why do you think I’m here? Just for s~~~s and giggles? Nope, not even close. Ever since I became MGTOW, which was only a year ago, if that, I’ve wanted to learn all I can so I’ll be able to stay away from all that BS forever. Maybe making this thread was a mistake, maybe wanting to believe that sometimes people are just nice was a mistake. Look, if there’s one thing I know for a fact, it’s that I’ll never stand a chance with any woman, so you guys don’t have to worry about me deluding myself into wanting a girlfriend. That’s not me fishing for sympathy, it’s just what it is. I guess in a moment of weakness (I don’t think I’ve fully digested the red pill so there are bound to be more instances of this while I learn all I can and get more experience) I wanted to believe that there were actually nice women out there. Clearly I was wrong. But this is why I posted this thread, so I could get thoughts from those with more experience, to tell me how it is so I don’t make the same mistake again.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

I wanted to believe that there were actually nice women out there.

Hey brother, I have tried thinking of it that way when I first heard AWALT here. Then I started thinking of every woman I have ever met and known.

I even invested many years looking for the “nice” girl or “good” girl, for that intimate romantic love that I have been brain washed with all my life.

I did it all from “fighting” for her honor (White Knight) to being “in touch” with my feelings (Blue Pill Simp-Chump). I have traversed both sides of the female spectrum, the one’s that act “nice” all the way to the one’s that act “cool”.

In the end with each one, I was left with this inside myself…

I used to overthink it with what’s their intent, what’s the motive and all that.

Now I just recognize it for what it is, hypergamy. Sure, I will treat people the way they act and treat me. If they are “nice”, I will return the gesture in kind, and so on.

As for why they are nice, it goes into speculation for me at that point. Past experiences usually have always ended with they wanted something I had or could give or do.

Seldom was it a 2 way street on that. What I realized? Even if they are “sweet”, “nice” etc, I am still being taken for a ride and being used when I am not getting anything positive out of the exchange.

If there is no benefit to me then what’s the point? This IS so helpful for me in regards to my red pills.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

It says a lot about women in general that when a small few refrain from being selfish horrible c~~~s they are extolled as glorious rare NAWALT unicorns.

[SandalsParticipant 4254]

These are not “gestures”.

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

I was waiting in line to buy a drink behind this landwhale in a scooter who was having a hard time grabbing a bottle of iced tea, and (politely, I might surprisingly add) asked me to grab it for her, and my first thought was ‘Get it yourself, you fatass’ but then I was like ‘I’m never gonna be able to meet up with my buddy in time if I don’t’, so just to speed things up I grabbed it for her. She thanked me and bought my drink for me. I thought “Well, now there’s something I don’t see everyday.”

She didn’t “buy” your drink for you. She paid for her drink twice. If you didn’t get it for her, she wouldn’t have been able to purchase hers. She paid you for a service, for which she rightly rewarded you because you provided her more value then she you, because her selfish handicap is expensive and she knows it. She bought your drink, but you literally SAVED her unhealthy body from DEHYDRATION, which is dangerous for someone with diabetes due to obesity.

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Story 2: I was helping out a buddy of mine move his friend’s new bed into her room. Again, I didn’t really feel like doing so, but just so we could leave, because I was hungry, I helped him. After that was done we headed to a Wendy’s and she bought us both dinner (probably off her bf’s money but hey, free food is free food).

You need to develop a better sense of economic equability. First of all, don’t ever lift heavy s~~~ for women – who are you superman? What if you ruptured a disk??? Sheesh. If you must move a chick’s bed (in which she’s going to f~~~ someone other than you) charge her $50 minimum, and get the cash up front. If she scoffs, say no. What do you care?

So she owed you $50, put your back in jeopardy (do you lift heavy objects for a living?), and she bought you plastic food with father’s money, and you think she’s wonderful? My goodness, what the heck? Not to be a dick, but you must adjust your sense of proportion, or your are going to be really screwed.

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

when she finally showed up, offered to buy us a drink, and I got another free drink out of it, this time not having to do anything.

What is it with free drinks? “Finally” showed up? So she was late. You waited for her. She paid for wasting your time, and your time is FAR more valuable than your money. She also used her father’s money to purchase your respect for HER, not her FATHER – the man who busted his ass to earn the money. Believe me, if it were HER money, she would NOT be paying, 100%.

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Why am I sharing these stories? *shrug* Just because I feel like it, I guess, and maybe you guys can help me see any warning signs that may be coming.

Hey man… you asked for it. Don’t shoot the messenger.

[AttonParticipant]

Women are perfectly fine as long as they don’t have power over you.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Anonymous wrote:

I have noticed women being more polite.
Its cause hillery got her ass kicked.

…Uh… wut?

[Anonymous 6]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Kempercat wrote:

Don’t be f~~~ing stupid..C~~~s are nice when It benefits them. Your
Red pill skills are WEAK! Go Watch Spetsnaz, Turd flinging Monkey, BarBar etc. Hypergamy is a FACT of nature. You might get lucky and come out in the end with your life in tact when buying into a woman. You also might win the lottery. The odds are similar And the stakes indelibly higher. DO NOT BE FOOLED BY WOMEN young Padawans

I know my skills are weak, why do you think I’m here? Just for s~~~s and giggles? Nope, not even close. Ever since I became MGTOW, which was only a year ago, if that, I’ve wanted to learn all I can so I’ll be able to stay away from all that BS forever. Maybe making this thread was a mistake, maybe wanting to believe that sometimes people are just nice was a mistake. Look, if there’s one thing I know for a fact, it’s that I’ll never stand a chance with any woman, so you guys don’t have to worry about me deluding myself into wanting a girlfriend. That’s not me fishing for sympathy, it’s just what it is. I guess in a moment of weakness (I don’t think I’ve fully digested the red pill so there are bound to be more instances of this while I learn all I can and get more experience) I wanted to believe that there were actually nice women out there. Clearly I was wrong. But this is why I posted this thread, so I could get thoughts from those with more experience, to tell me how it is so I don’t make the same mistake again.

Look Buddy, you were right to make this thread, this is tough love man, a lot of guys here telling you from their great wealth and experience what will happen if you think NAWALT. Take this knowledge very seriously, and heed our warning, you do not want to go through what many of us have to give us this knowledge to begin with…just listen and learn, and you’ll bang lots of chicks, but not give a s~~~ about them, and never go through s~~~ty periods of your laugh..and keep all your own cash, I could go on forever, just read and heed bro…read..and..heed.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Don’t go too lightly with AWALT/NAWALT. A single action, or even years of dating wouldn’t necessarily expose her true nature.

Sadly to find a true one in a million/billion (?) you have to see how she acts when she has the power to take resources or assets from you. The NAWALT hunt is too high stakes to ever risk playing again, but I’d venture to say that none that you ran into fit the bill.

You might meet “nice” women occasionally, but you only see the veneer concealing the way they treat people who they already have any power over.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[TwistParticipant]

Ogre wrote:

You might meet “nice” women occasionally, but you only see the veneer concealing the way they treat people who they already have any power over.

I equate modern women to personality disorders. It is frequently stated that a personality disorder is often only seen through the lens of an intimate relationship. Casual/friendships do not spark the intimacy fears that lead to classic push/pull psychosis and splitting.

“You can’t have a personality disorder on a deserted island” cause there is nobody to riff off..

So whether it is deliberate baiting behavior, or dormant/repressed disorder markers, meeting a “nice” NAWALT probably means jack s~~~.

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