Seeing the ghost

[braininavatParticipant 95]

Over on the “introductions” forum IggyThunder gave a nice summary of how women’s online profiles change with their age. This was spot-on.

Women’s online profiles are even more revealing than they are intended to be once you take the time to learn the interpretative skills that MGTOW teaches. I’ve been spending the past year or so watching every Stardusk, Barbarossa, Sandman, and Spetsnaz video on Youtube (among others), and have been immersing myself in this new way of thinking about human relationships.

There is another video blogger, HHKcalgary (https://www.youtube.com/user/hhkcalgary/videos), who produced a video in which he talks about watching the same videos, and how they made the “ghost” that he had been wrestling with start to become visible.

This is the video:

I find this to be a powerful metaphor, and I have experienced this myself. I have seen the ghost of which I was formerly only dimly aware — a ghost that haunted me, but was invisible, and extraordinarily difficult to pin down. Having taken the trouble to master the MGTOW vocabulary, when I read online profiles now, every single line has a subtext now. The ghost is visible.

The kind of profiles described by IggyThunder, and which anyone can read by visiting online dating sites, give you every possible permutation of the rationalization hamster and show every possible red flag. If you ever had a NAWALT moment, and you weakened, just go read some dating profiles, and you will see that all women really are like that. Read between the lines and the ghost becomes palpably visible.

There is an advice book for women called The Script:

http://www.amazon.com/Script-Absolutely-Predictable-Things-Cheat/dp/1401308422/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1405989843&sr=1-1&keywords=the+script

The book purports to tell women the predictable “script” that men read from when men cheat. MGTOW gives men “The Script” for women, which tells you how to interpret the utterly predictable things that women say, but which you might not have realized if you didn’t connect the dots on your own, of if you haven’t encountered MGTOW.

Educate yourself. Knowledge is power. Knowledge of women is power over women, even if the only thing one learns is that you can’t win. Think it through. Take your time. It will make sense eventually.

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[TheBardParticipant 974]

Great video. It is true that women can dictate a relationship more and always date higher up in order to move up. It has been like that forever. a woman could move from being a peasant to a noble by simply marring although that would be near impossible for a man. Women say they were always oppressed through out history, but being able to marry to a higher class to make your family go from rags to riches seems more like an evolutionary advantage to me. Today it is no different. My friend recently went back to the community college in the area just to take some classes and for social interaction because he loves to be social. He invited some 18 year olds from from a class to this little spring break party he had and I had to tell him “dud you need to be careful. I know you want a girlfriend and you said these girls were cute but remember you are 26, have a car, job, and your own house. To an 18 year old right out of high school and in community college that is a huge advancement to any guy she will meet at school so you need to be very careful” He told me it would be fine, but I kept an eye on him through out the party to be safe. I was not about to let some 18 slut get knocked up by him and ruin his life.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Enjoyed that video! Thanks, Brain. Interesting how he connected the dots and how it all unraveled before him as he mapped it out – one step at a time.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

The two paragraphs directly under the video are uncanny. Had just responded to a MGTOW introduction from CAP with a thought on how women give themselves away on their online dating profiles and was talking about how 2 (or even 2000!) different guys, with different lives, in different cities (or parts of the world) can see EXACTLY the same “ghost” – describing their realization of it in EXACTLY the same way…… and it isn’t until they compare notes on women, how f~~~ing spooky it really is.

Mind = blown.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[braininavatParticipant 95]

Yes, spooky. Also cross-cultural, which tells you that it’s rooted in biology, and that evolutionary psychology is our best guide (so far) for understanding men, women, and how they relate to each other or fail to do so.

Almost any woman’s dating profile has enough red flags to enrage a bull in an arena. And, no doubt, the visual and verbal cues women give off in offline dating are similarly revealing, but since men respond so strongly to the visual presence of a woman in front of them, the red flags are probably less noticeable in person.

Nietzsche quoted a bit that he identified as an old Chinese saying: “Make your heart small.” This is good advice. Make your heart small, and the red flags will become more obvious.

[DocParticipant 112]

Almost any woman’s dating profile has enough red flags to enrage a bull in an arena.

I think women are terribly confused today and have no idea what the f~~~ they are doing who they are appealing to, or why, or how to go about it. I’m serious it’s a big problem. They are so clueless on how to be appealing, and even if you ask them, they think sex is all it takes to keep a man’s interest. Women in their 40’s don’t even know basic s~~~ they should have learned when they were 16 before they even went out on a first date, and I don’t really give a s~~~ that they say the same thing about us, but who’s doing the picking? Who is supposed to give them the commitment they pretend to want? We are, and the choices are ours. But when they act like they are choosing men, I want to point and laugh.

The walls they put up and not one mention of what they are prepared to do or bring. They should shut the f~~~ right up and not type anything on their profiles except how to meet and get a date IN PERSON right away. But they filter and pretend they are so good at knowing what the guy would be like in a marriage before the first drink! It’s absurd and I am embarrassed for them.

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