Science that is FRONT PAGE NEWS…to me, my holy grail

[QcummerParticipant 652]

In 2013, an MRI brain scan study was conducted on new couples.

It showed a phenomena of crazy brain activity in both man and woman.

They both thought of each other constantly, f~~~ed like rabbits, etc…

I’m sure you know the feeling. Some refer to it like, “the first 2 weeks are the best”.

This is one verifiable form of ‘love’. It lasts 3 weeks, and IT NEVER RETURNS AGAIN.

This is good for survival of the species..just enough time for the menstrual cycle to make a new human…then time to get back to work. If people stayed in this state, nothing would get done, so it has its function.

Personally, I was so so so damn sensitive to this ‘crazy in love’ or ‘mad in love’ feeling; it was like a high from the best drug. Then I noticed something was missing, I thought something was wrong with me. I kept ‘chasing the dragon’ for a few months, and would then always have to leave. I don’t know how anyone else feels since I have only my brain’s experience, but it was such a predictable high and ultra unexplainable low that the pain of going through it again (without explanation) was worse than the pain of going without.

It took 5 years for me to come across this information and it was the HOLY F~~~ING GRAIL. I imagine every man and woman experiencing the same thing, but being less sensitive to it…hence dragging out relationships for over a year before it’s clear that the initial insanity of being ‘mad in love’ ain’t coming back.

If you don’t know the true, visible, plain as day science of this phenomenon, NOW YOU DO.

I’ve never shared this information online before b/c I felt there was no audience that would appreciate it. I think you fellas just might.

So what you think now?

fyi..I don’t care to go dig out the source for this study. ya’ll are welcome to dig it up. peace.

[RoyDalParticipant]

The whole point is to propagate the species. Once that is done (or not done) the chemical imbalances change in the other direction and we seek new breeding partners. It’s worked so far. It keeps hopeful males chasing nubile females even in obvious dead end situations like meet market bars.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[QcummerParticipant 652]

exactly…it has done its job so far. I wanted to make clear of how it’s a verifiable mindf~~~, and not knowing that it occurs will most likely lead to disappointment.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

I would like to read the study; do you have the citation for it?

[QcummerParticipant 652]

dammit, now I just started looking and found a ton of other cool information.  this particular one…it had a video, and was published in 2013..I remember where I was sitting when I saw it. I’ll post it here when I get to it, there’s so many more I need to bookmark.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Biologically speaking, yes, there are a ton of hormones that go in to overdrive when the initial mutual attraction has been established.   The addiction or craving you describe is likely the high from the “pair bonding” hormone oxytocin.  Here is a link to some information on the subject (yes it’s Wiki but the information here is valid – google “oxytocin pair bonding” to verify).

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin

Actual “love” is a conscious choice and is something more psycho-centric in my opinion.  Unfortunately, way too many people in our society are too self-absorbed and ego-centric to be a truly giving person.  The only way actual “love” is sustained is when two people understand this concept and make the conscious decision to give in this capacity to one another.  It is a different kind of bond that is much more complex and runs deeper than the initial hormonal rush.  Indeed if you are addicted to the oxytocin rush, then you will be forever “chasing the dragon”.  It’s easy to get hooked on that “feeling”.

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[MendokusaiParticipant 256]

That is what they say,being “in love” so to speak releases the same chemicals in the brain as Heroin,to me luckily I have never been shown love nor really felt it just as I’ve never tried Heroin so I consider my self fortunate on both counts.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

First true love is much more powerful than any drugs out there, and I tried them all.
The s~~~ is no joke.
But only the first one. Any consecutive doesn’t compare.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[EntropyParticipant 902]

This science extends to everything, you know.

Every thought/feeling/inspiration you will ever have is the direct result of chemicals reacting in your brain.  No more, no less.  Take this knowledge, and RUN with it… Stop feeling guilt, remorse, rejection… even empathy and compassion can be dangerous.

If that sounds sociopathic to you, I would argue its the most optimistic way to see your life.  Optimism is neither naive, nor blind to the facts, nor in denial of grim reality. An optimist believes in the optimal usage of all options available… enter MGTOW.

To me, MGTOW means that you can take the knowledge that your future is constantly at war with your own brain and use it to your advantage.  Next time you have a “feeling”… it will pass.  Be in control of your own chemistry.

Other things I like to remember: Everything that you see and hear comes from someone else who is pursuing their own self interest.  Listen to EVERY word you hear as if it is a boldfaced lie until YOU verify it isn’t.  Entropy isn’t just a suggestion, its the law.

 

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

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