Say yes to Adultery to get out?

[MotivParticipant 441]

Marriage has ended and ‘no’ adultery has been committed but if I was to agree to take it as a reason to get the divorce approved by the courts so it dosnt go on for years how is it a bad thing for me?
I would need to say I committed adultery but not name a women as there isnt one to name on it.
Am I over looking anything that will be bad for me? she will pick up the cost of divorce if I take the reason for the breakdown but all the reasons listed on UK law for divorce dont come any where near why I left,
Like no box saying wife nagged.
It was a big mistake
The women turned out to be a nightmare
I took to many red pills
Wife used sex as a bargaining tool etc etc

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[FrankOneParticipant 1417]

Adultery used to be the major reason cited in the UK; now it’s ‘unreasonable behavior’; i.e. Nagatha Christie wouldn’t shut her trap. Sex as a bargaining tool? Sounds like fun. No sex for me, you pay all the bills? Deal on.

Incidentally, in the 2010’s, only ONE in ten UK divorces were due to adultery where the man cheated. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2426514/The-end-adulterer-Unreasonable-behaviour-likely-cited-divorce-cases.html

My favorite numbers in the link above: the relative number of marriages ending for a man’s ‘unreasonable behavior’ (38%) vs a woman’s (5%). I wonder if that’s because the genders have different ideas of what constitutes ‘unreasonable’, haha.

Seriously, if she’s paying for it, why not just have her say you were ‘unreasonable’ in expecting sex without paying for it like a whore or that you were ‘unreasonable’ for expecting shared contributions by both spouses in a marriage 2.0? The expectation of shared contributions will most often be TRUE and UNREASONABLE, right? I think defending against ‘unreasonable’ in court would be fun! Then the statistics will simply show 38.00001% unreasonable men and 4.99999% unreasonable women.

[MotivParticipant 441]

Haha cheers for the laugh bro, unreasonable behavior in that i wanted sex more than once a year it will have to go down as then lol, also unreasonable behavior that I refused to wash dishes

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[HitmanParticipant]

you need a lawyer ..if she refused to have sex , for i believe 6 months while you were married , its called ” constructive abandonment ” here in the u.s. for me i wouldn’t care what the reason is if she pays for it ! hell , are you really gonna get married again ? ..i thought not ! ..even if you LOST YOUR MIND and re-married , would the future ‘mrs.” look into your paperwork for why you divorced ? doubtful.. good luck brother !

[OldBillParticipant]

Motiv wrote:

Marriage has ended and ‘no’ adultery has been committed but if I was to agree to take it as a reason to get the divorce approved by the courts so it dosnt go on for years how is it a bad thing for me?

You’re going to make a false statement in court because it’s convenient?

You’re going to lie about your own behavior and morals because it’s convenient?

You’re going to give your future ex-wife a perpetual “out” for her role in the failure of your marriage? You’re going to let her go through life being able to claim legally that is was all your fault because you committed adultery? Even thought that’s a lie? Just because she promises to pay the legal fees?

You going to do all this because it’s convenient?

Either your marriage is so hellish that you’ll consider doing anything and everything to end it or you need to sit down and do some serious thinking. Please consult a solicitor. Learn about your options. You can end this without agreeing to lie about yourself.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[NioZenParticipant 856]

Unreasonable behaviour is the leading reason for divorce in the UK. The reasons don’t have to be too severe to satisfy the requirement. I would get legal advice, you can probably get this for free from a potential solicitor as part of gaining your ‘custom’. It would be a very bad idea to create a problem which may leave the courts with a very dim view of your actions. You’ve got the advantage at the moment, don’t give that away and don’t give her ammunition.

https://www.family-lawfirm.co.uk/how-we-help/divorce/grounds-for-divorce

Knowledge is your friend, devote some time to digging into this issue more, and cover your tracks (i.e, delete web history, make sure emails are secure, keep mouth shut – don’t be tempted to throw any of this in her face in an argument just to get the upper hand, that is a very stupid move).

From this moment on you should consider yourself to be deep behind enemy lines – secure your intel and protect your b~~~~, women turn very very nasty when you reject them, don’t believe a f~~~ing word she says about any amicable arrangement (she already wants you to take the blame if I understand you correctly? Wake up, Einstein!)

Good luck bro, we’ll be right here.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[MotivParticipant 441]

What I have failed to add but is in my other posts is the fact we now live apart, I all ready had an adultery on my first marriage its no big deal but I did need that paper work for the second round so the wife knew about it and it wont be happening again.
Believe me old bill the only person I wouldnt be ling to is the courts!
Its a simple case of crappy behaver on her part, one can only try for so long , well me anyway I end up bored after 7 yrs.
Thanks for the words of support and links.

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Divorce the Female,

Once all the paperwork in finalized, bang bitches left and right, (use protection) and enjoy life.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[NioZenParticipant 856]

Motiv wrote:

What I have failed to add but is in my other posts is the fact we now live apart……

I think that would do it tbh. This might be of some use: http://www.terry.co.uk/forum/list.php?2 , but you need a qualified legal opinion.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[MotivParticipant 441]

Ended with her up fronting all the costs for the divorce and also running all the paper work past me before she sent it in.

Win Win on my part, Im free got my own place with everything I need, I can cook what I like to eat go out and bang birds when I want, spend my cash on what I want, see my child when it suits me.

Im so much happier its hard to believe it went so smooth but alot of this was due to you guys here at mgtow.com being here to support and listen to me just moan even.

So I want to thank KeyMaster and the rest of the team for this site and to all the mgtow that helped me get my head straight when i was in a stressful time. You saved me from making what would of been crazy mistakes.(lots of them)

I would also like to say to all other men that may be going through divorce or break ups whatever your fears or concerns dont worry about opening up here.
Men sharing their experiences here on mgtow.com is a life saver.
Thank You Motiv.

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[OldBillParticipant]

I’m happy to read about your divorce being finalized, Motiv. I hope you didn’t have to sully your reputation too much to make it happen.

Congratulations again and here’s to your new life.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[MotivParticipant 441]

Thank you Oldbill, It got put down as per (no emotional support) I had a good chuckle at her but left it at that when she showed me what she was sending in, but its better than adultery, It didnt cost me any pound notes so I let it go,
If the divorce system was any court at all they might of laughed like i did and sent it back saying how stupid that sounds but no it passed as grounds.

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[MotivParticipant 441]

NioZen wrote:

Unreasonable behaviour is the leading reason for divorce in the UK.
Knowledge is your friend, devote some time to digging into this issue more,

This was the advice I needed and i did just that. It saved my ass, she played many tricks to try and trip me up but I understood it from a critical view point and just stayed polite. She was like this

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[Anonymous 5]

Motiv wrote:

She was like this

Great video!

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