Say Goodbye To Traditional Dating

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Since I have been single over the past few months I have spent time with a few different girls. Some of them I’ve gone out on a date with, some of them I hooked up with in the first few minutes of meeting them. I can tell you right now that I am done with the traditional way of doing things.

Anytime that I took a girl out on a proper date it never ended good. One bitch in particular I took out to dinner and dropped around $70 on her. She was very eager to hang out with me. She told me how much she liked me which I thought was true, but after that one date I never saw her again. The other girl was the one I posted about last week. Which also included a dinner and drinks date I took her out on and although I had sex with her, it only lasted the weekend and I never saw her again.

Before these girls there were the random hook ups. Two of them were girls I started hooking up with in the first few minutes of meeting them. I never talked to them either but both of those nights they went home with me. One of them I went out to breakfast with the next morning and we split the bill. Then I never saw her again.

What’s the conclusion? I can’t speak for every guy, but I do believe that guys want to treat women good. We truly want to be gentlemen and take women out on dates, buy things for them and take care of them. However this is not what women want. Women do not respond to that even though they say that’s what they want, or my favorite quote by them “That’s how it works”. Guys are expected to do this stuff. Everytime that I have done this so far it has never worked. It has always ended with a text I send not getting a response and never seeing the girl again.

Something that I realize I have been doing is portraying the badboy persona when first meeting the girl. This is when she’s most attracted to me. But soon as I do the traditional dating thing, the girl gets turned off and I never see her again. I’m sure guys have experienced this. I know every single one of my friends have had this experience as well. The only thing I never did was convince the girl to go on a date with me. I never had to. I always knew the girl liked me and it was usually HER idea to go out and expected me to pay for everything. But when I spent any money on them that’s when everything goes downhill. So from here on out i’m done doing that. Me and a few of my good friends could tell you firsthand this does not work and it never will. Save your money and let some other f~~~boy take her out on a date and get no pussy from her. IT DOES NOT WORK! WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO BE TREATED GOOD!

[Anonymous 42]

Bro, sifting through modern women is like sifting through ashes in hopes of finding some char, and wishing it was wood….

[NEVERGELParticipant 166]

This post is so spot on. Thanks Joey for posting this! I experienced this myself yesterday. I’ve been talking to this girl since last Thursday. We were having fun and she said I owed her lunch for getting her number. Soon as I agreed to take her out to lunch, she flakes out and ignores me. I mean she didn’t even acknowledge my text for time/place to meet. So on the morning of our lunch date, I texted her again telling her I canceled our lunch date. I refuse to waste money on anybody who doesn’t want to be with me.

I live the life I love and I love the life I live.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

it’s better to stop wasting your money and invest on assets that appreciate. a.k.a. don’t invest in pussy

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I hate to say this, but you’re an idiot, and you better stop it

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Jim01Participant 6678]

joey_fingaz wrote:

Since I have been single over the past few months I have spent time with a few different girls. Some of them I’ve gone out on a date with, some of them I hooked up with in the first few minutes of meeting them. I can tell you right now that I am done with the traditional way of doing things.

Anytime that I took a girl out on a proper date it never ended good. One bitch in particular I took out to dinner and dropped around $70 on her. She was very eager to hang out with me. She told me how much she liked me which I thought was true, but after that one date I never saw her again. The other girl was the one I posted about last week. Which also included a dinner and drinks date I took her out on and although I had sex with her, it only lasted the weekend and I never saw her again.

Before these girls there were the random hook ups. Two of them were girls I started hooking up with in the first few minutes of meeting them. I never talked to them either but both of those nights they went home with me. One of them I went out to breakfast with the next morning and we split the bill. Then I never saw her again.

What’s the conclusion? I can’t speak for every guy, but I do believe that guys want to treat women good. We truly want to be gentlemen and take women out on dates, buy things for them and take care of them. However this is not what women want. Women do not respond to that even though they say that’s what they want, or my favorite quote by them “That’s how it works”. Guys are expected to do this stuff. Everytime that I have done this so far it has never worked. It has always ended with a text I send not getting a response and never seeing the girl again.

Something that I realize I have been doing is portraying the badboy persona when first meeting the girl. This is when she’s most attracted to me. But soon as I do the traditional dating thing, the girl gets turned off and I never see her again. I’m sure guys have experienced this. I know every single one of my friends have had this experience as well. The only thing I never did was convince the girl to go on a date with me. I never had to. I always knew the girl liked me and it was usually HER idea to go out and expected me to pay for everything. But when I spent any money on them that’s when everything goes downhill. So from here on out i’m done doing that. Me and a few of my good friends could tell you firsthand this does not work and it never will. Save your money and let some other f~~~boy take her out on a date and get no pussy from her. IT DOES NOT WORK! WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO BE TREATED GOOD!

you sound to me like you don’t want to be MGTOW

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

It is difficult but it is the best thing to go cold turkey with females.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Nothing good comes of dating. Not even sex … because that is the chain they trap you with.

DO NOT DATE A FEMALE.

Pay, rub one out, fleshlite or whatever … but don’t date.

[UntamedParticipant]

F~~~ the dating, what a terrible waste of time! That’s bluepilled deluded stuff! Pay 70 bucks for a couple of hours listening to a t~~~ go on about anything while she shakes those t~~~ at you is such a monumental bore!

joey_fingaz wrote:

I can’t speak for every guy, but I do believe that guys want to treat women good. We truly want to be gentlemen and take women out on dates, buy things for them and take care of them.

WHAT?! F~~~ that s~~~! Why in the hell would you want to buy some t~~~ anything nice at all?! So that she can turn around and throw it in your face?!
Gentleman?! That’s mangina argument!
F~~~ traditional dating!
Pay a Lady up front and she’ll show ya what for!
Diss the f~~~ing hoes!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

They all want bad boys until they hit the wall. Then they have no more SMV so they look for a nice guy – same ones they blew off before.

[Anonymous 2]

I actually agree with the gentlemen argument. We want to treat women well because that is in our NATURE. But we must recognize when women abuse our NATURE and be goddamn selective with them. I’m 34 and I have a 19 year old “girlfriend” and I like to bring her along to someplace nice. I don’t even mind picking up the tab from time to time. She’s an appropriate SMV match and more Red Pill then most of my male friends. My point is that she DESERVES it, by treating me RIGHT and by not being a massive c~~~ all the time. She has no say over my wallet, we go someplace nice when I say we do, or else she’d be paying.

I can’t equate the sex I have with the kind of sex you get from a mindless whore. I just can’t. But yes: f~~~ traditional dating. Let women prove they are WORTH IT first. I will never buy a woman dinner as a first date, I will buy groceries and sample her cuisine instead.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

F~~~ traditional dating. Makes my blood boil knowing that most girls think the man should pay. With all the feminism going on you would think that they would always offer to at least pay half. It’s a major slap in the face these days.

So basically, feminism works just fine until it’s time to do something for themselves, then it’s up to the man to take care of them.

#MANOUT

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

I use to date not anymore its a wasted.of.money and time.plus thoses c~~~ expect you to pay for everything plus its not a 100%thing she will give you vagina

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Blue Skies wrote:

it’s better to stop wasting your money and invest on assets that appreciate. a.k.a. don’t invest in pussy

I concur. I’ve noticed that when you chase women you can lose a lot of money, but when you chase money you don’t lose any women. Strange how that works out…

Anyway, one night stands work out great for me. Women like to be treated like s~~~, so treat them like s~~~ and then leave. Modern women have nothing to offer you in life other than pussy and a headache. best not to bother.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[HammerheadParticipant 362]

Dating is for deluded fools who waste their money on the tease, the potential or implied promise of getting sex from a woman. Desire is not negotiable – – she either wants you or she doesn’t. Pay for performance, not possibility. The reward you give someone for their behavior gets you more of the same. Simple operant conditioning: bad behavior = no reward; good behavior = reward. I have no idea why this is so difficult for some men to understand, but maybe I’ve never had enough spare money to waste it on women who just want “stuff” from me.

[AttonParticipant]

Dating women is like giving out a subprime mortgage of 1,000,000 Dollars. You will never get your money or your time back and substantively good will ever come out of it. You are better of going to Las Vegas and gambling everything you have.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Jim01 wrote:

you sound to me like you don’t want to be MGTOW

Being MGTOW or not has nothing to do with sexual attraction. I’m always going to want to have sex with women.

[UntamedParticipant]

joey_fingaz wrote:

Being MGTOW or not has nothing to do with sexual attraction. I’m always going to want to have sex with women.

The sex is not the issue here. Your post talks about Dating. Spending money on these hoes expecting to “get lucky”. It’s like the lottery: you lose a lot and once in a blue moon you win, but it ain’t the jackpot in this case, it’s a rose-shaped s~~~.
There are more ways than one to get sex but groveling, false compliments and posturing isn’t my idea of fun. Let the hoes pay for their own fun and I’ll pay for mine.

I do agree about one thing in your post.

joey_fingaz wrote:

Save your money and let some other f~~~boy take her out on a date

I’ll add: Pay a Lady and go your own way.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

The sex is not the issue here. Your post talks about Dating. Spending money on these hoes expecting to “get lucky”. It’s like the lottery: you lose a lot and once in a blue moon you win, but it ain’t the jackpot in this case, it’s a rose-shaped s~~~.
There are more ways than one to get sex but groveling, false compliments and posturing isn’t my idea of fun. Let the hoes pay for their own fun and I’ll pay for mine.

You know what it is? The one time in particular I actually really did like the girl (before I found MGTOW) and it was the first actual date I went on after my break up. In my mind at that time, even though I know that taking girls out and paying doesn’t work, I thought this girl really likes me so it doesn’t matter. When I met her she gave me her number without me even asking for it and she really wanted to see me. It seemed like a done deal. Little did I know taking a girl out on a date is like saying “hi i’m a pussy and even though you want to have sex with me you shouldn’t do it cause i’m a huge vagina that will pay for you to like me”. I didn’t think it would matter at the time but it does. As far as the other girl, if I could go back I would have just invited her over rather then go out for drinks. So no matter what the circumstance is, it never works and I swear on my life I will never do it again.

[bomwaParticipant 488]

Here’s a possible explanation for not hearing from them again.

A woman may play several men at once. She wants male attention, so when the man she most wants doesn’t give her attention she looks elsewhere. Once these women got their fix of male attention from you, they moved on to some other guy in their contact list. Or maybe their boyfriend came back to town.

I had a girlfriend who would get her ‘ex’ to come around whenever I didn’t give her attention. I cringe at how retarded I was. She was a terrible woman. I have no idea why I was so f~~~ing stupid.

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