Saving my girlfriend's son!

[BiG_WeaselParticipant 116]

Ok, my particular flavor of MGTOW is splitting rent/bills 50/50 with my GF.  I’ve told her up front that I’m not getting married, and she *says* she is cool with that, but who knows.  She’s got a nearly 16 year old son, whose dad is a total lazy, piece of s~~~.  The guy was dishonorably discharged right before making sergeant because he used drugs.  He knocked up another woman after he divorced my GF years ago, and the kid landed on his lap to raise (kids mom is an equal piece of s~~~).  He also lives in his mom’s basement in his late 30s, and claims to be bi-polar so he can draw disability.  Smokes around his kids, and my GFs son comes home smelling of it all the time.

So, I’m working on her son.  I’m exposing him to MGTOW philosophy, showing him Terrance Popp vids (that he thinks are funny), and making comments/asking questions to see how its going with him.  He sees his dad is POS, and I refuse to take more responsibility for this kid than simply being a good example.  I don’t do a lot of activities with him, but we do play games (video, board, and tabletop miniatures) and such together.  Anyone else ever been in this boat, where you feel you need to save an up-and-coming man from the perils of becoming a mangina, white knight or other such mongoloid piece of s~~~ (following in his dad’s footsteps)?

[RoyDalParticipant]

Good plan! Leading from the front always works with troopers — or at least those who can be lead to the light. Keep it up!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[kizellParticipant 368]

I think you are wasting your time.   He still has 2 years under his mother’s roof.  Why not just wait until he is an adult?

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Im with stealth on this,its not your son not your problem. She laid with the POS father so its their problem. I do agree with being a compass in the right direction and leisure gaming,but that’s where the buck should stop. Ive seen boy’s flip on the step dad when the biological one comes around,remember the mother chose him to breed and you to lead? Eject! Biology is stronger than your thinking.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

my dad died when i was a kid so i feel for boys who grow up without fathers.  i know how much it sucks.  it’s a noble thing you’re doing, even though it isn’t your responsibility.  I would just be worried about a court being able to pin him on you but, at 16, I doubt that will be an issue.  he is pretty much a man now and I see nothing wrong with men helping men.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

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