Running away

[WarratahParticipant 895]

Very often I read one of us suggesting a one-way ticket to somewhere distant and there to just start again.
Many times, when faced with the ‘slings and arrows of outrageous fortune’ it seems like a very sensible thing to do.
Has anyone on here ever done that?
Or is it more noble ‘to take arms against a sea of troubles and by opposing, defeat them?’
I must admit, I’m getting tired. My former wife is grinding me down slowly but surely and I can’t really see a future where I am now.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[SKiZMParticipant 52]

I am sort of a drifter, so I frequently move to another city, once things become complicated or messy. Just don’t bring your emotional baggage with you!

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[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Warratah wrote:

Very often I read one of us suggesting a one-way ticket to somewhere distant and there to just start again.
Many times, when faced with the ‘slings and arrows of outrageous fortune’ it seems like a very sensible thing to do.

I guess it all depends on how much you have where you are, and how easy it would be to find livelihood where you are going. I have a brother who has been to 112 countries. He lives in Cambodia right now, but he owns practically nothing and has a steady income from the Navy.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

I am working overseas and hording wealth in another country.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[AwakenedParticipant 35207]

Warratah wrote:

I must admit, I’m getting tired. My former wife is grinding me down slowly but surely and I can’t really see a future where I am now.

Nothing lasts forever. Very rarely are we accurate in picturing our futures, but if you have the means and desire to relocate and you can do this without decreasing your standard of living, then it’s worth considering. If you are doing it strictly to get away from HER, you might be allowing her to further upset and complicate YOUR life.
Hasn’t she done enough of this to you already ?

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Warratah wrote:

Many times, when faced with the ‘slings and arrows of outrageous fortune’ it seems like a very sensible thing to do.
Has anyone on here ever done that?
Or is it more noble ‘to take arms against a sea of troubles and by opposing, defeat them?’

Only two choices? Is there a way to stop the grinding where you are? If she’s your ex, then she should be moving on. Are there kids involved?

Order the good wine

[WarratahParticipant 895]

The grinding is on going and there are kids involved.
Where I live a couple have to be seperated for four years before divorce proceedings can start.
I am at year three.
As for her moving on, forget it. Her plan is my destruction, she makes no secret of that.
Its a small town. My work, my social life, my finances, my relationship with my children, every goddamnded facet of my life has her dirty fingerprints smeared all over them.
On-line spying, bad mouthing, you name it. It’s really very tiresome.
The joys of NPD/BPD …
Never stick your dick in crazy, fellas.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[Anonymous 42]

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You’re post sounds a little distressed, like you wanna buy an old leaky sail boat with a smoking engine and sail away just to get off the land.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Since you are one year away from starting the divorce process – good time now to start preparing for a change. Since your kids are in the picture – moving out of the country would not be suggested. Not sure where you live – but if you could move to a different state or province you’d put distance between you and the ex while still keeping proximate to your kids. Best of luck and keep up posted.

[Anonymous 42]

Warratah wrote:

On-line spying,

Face Book? Social media?

[WarratahParticipant 895]

Anonymous wrote:

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You’re post sounds a little distressed, like you wanna buy an old leaky sail boat with a smoking engine and sail away just to get off the land.

By God, the “old leaky sailboat” resonates with me … guess you’re also following my E-bay searches!

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[OldBillParticipant]

Only three years into that four year waiting period? Excellent! That means you’ve got a year to plan and prepare.

I’d be selling off possessions and really minimizing my “footprint”. I’d be looking into other places to live too. Not across town, but across the country and quite possibly out of the country. I’d definitely be looking at new jobs and new careers in that new place.

I’d be ready for that final signature on that final legal document. Once the pen lifted from the paper, I’d be gone. Any attempts to contact me by anyone in my old life would be through my lawyer. Cell, email, social media, gone, gone, gone.

You’ve been given a chance to disappear and begin anew. All you need to do is reach out your hand.

Start preparing for your new life, brother.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 42]

Warratah wrote:

By God, the “old leaky sailboat” resonates with me … guess you’re also following my E-bay searches!

I was bitten by that bug knowing how to circumnavigate! I felt like selling everything and just go! Get my feet off government controlled dry land and sail away until I puked eventually growing my sea legs. I solved it by taking a couple trans oceanic cruises with friends and once with family and extended family. I like being out on the high seas knowing where I am with my GPS and how far into nowhere that actually is! Falling overboard undetected is what I call totally f~~~ed!

[Dr. SableParticipant 1064]

First you need to stop running away from yourself. Run elsewhere when you know you are on solid ground within yourself or win
lotto.

Sounds simple, glib even but it is so.

Zero Tolerance

[joetechParticipant]

I hate to say it, but if she’s that crazy…you might consider just writing the kids off and disappearing afterward.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Four fricking years? Government torture.

Survive

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Warratah wrote:

Very often I read one of us suggesting a one-way ticket to somewhere distant and there to just start again.

I think this daily. Every f~~~ing day! New job, new city, new life. Could be part of just wanting a change at this point in my life, but not being married is a good start.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8286]

Sometimes I feel like moving to Alaska and getting a gig on a fishing boat. If I die in the sea, at least it’ll die as an adventurer. My job is annoying and this daily routine is making me lifeless.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Warratah wrote:

Where I live a couple have to be seperated for four years before divorce proceedings can start.

Sweet f~~~. That’s awful.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[joetechParticipant]

Si Si Senor.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

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