Round 1 in the Divorce Octagon –

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

I scored a nice knockdown followed by a solid kick to the Poon!

The Selfish One (S.O.) and I reached a temporary agreement on finances until we can schedule mediation.

I scored a major win in the first round.

S.O. makes good money, but has always believed I was placed on this planet to spend MY money on mrtg, utilities and the kids and her money was for HER needs (clothes, botox, nails and face ointments that don’t work).

S.O. is not the brightest bulb in the hallway, thank God.

I write her a check for “child support” and from it she pays for (as child support is defined) Housing, clothes and food, etc.

Well, S.O. didn’t understand in her pea sized female brain that I was not going to give her child support AND continue to pay all these things!

It was BEAUTIFUL. When it became apparent that I wasn’t paying the mrtg and utilities she threw a hissy and emailed the lawyers.

My female lawyer has grown to hate my wife. She detest her sense of entitlement.

The icing on the cake was when SO emailed the both our lawyers stating we needed to renegotiate because she feels “forced” to pay these things and she shouldn’t be told how to spend her child support money.

My attorney laughed her ass off.

I won round one, but I’m sure the next few rounds will be more painful for me, now that she sees her back is against the wall and she starts throwing haymakers.

We shall see… I’m sure I’ll be bloody and banged up (especially my 401(k), but I’ll make it out and I will never enter the marriage/divorce octagon again.

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Keep on keeping on. You may be surprised by how well it goes. If she makes too much of a fuss in court, the judge will even turn against her.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Hopefully she keeps being a c~~~ overtly. Never interrupt an enemy while they are making a mistake.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

If you attorney is laughing, it means her demands are on the fringes. You’re going through one divorce, they’ve litigated hundreds. She doesn’t laugh when the demands are reasonable. You call her the SO for a reason.

I have a friend that went through a divorce. She got more marital assets than he did, but he got more of the equity in their house when it sold as a “compensating payment”, so the overall payout was even between the two. When the house sold, his SO couldn’t understand why she wasn’t getting half of the equity. It was written in the agreement that she wouldn’t.

Logic doesn’t work in the mind of an illogical woman.

Order the good wine

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

That’s great, man! Keep up the good fight!

The idea of your female lawyer laughing at your S.O. is hilarious. What happened to gurl power?!? Lol!

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[OgreParticipant 5863]

As Dana White himself says, “Never let the judges decide.”

Keep backing her up and when you see the K.O. opportunity put all your muscle into it. I like that S.O. is irrational enough to think that she can directly email your attorney, and she thinks that her version of fair is even a factor.

You two made an agreement and the first chance she gets she tries to spin it. You were wise to leave her on the curb with the trash.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 7]

Well done and nicely played.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

I’m celebrating my win with a beer right now, but I’m not getting complacent.

I’m still at war and I need to be a combination of cunning, cold and relentless in this fight. I can safely say I have not one ounce of sympathy for this bitch. I can wage war against her and soon I hope to be spitting on her KO’d ass. Then I’ll just turn and walk away.

Once I get through this s~~~ I have some rebuilding ahead of me to replace the theft of my assets. But all will be well.

Thanks for all of your support.

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Keep fighting Combat Roll. I’m right there with you in a similar situation.

I recently went to mediation and the female lawyer/mediator threw her hands up and said there was no way she could successfully mediate my divorce because of the outrageous demands my STBxW made. She advised my lawyer and I to just walk out.

When she’s feeling backed into a corner, continue to play fair. By doing so, it will make her haymakers seem that much more unreasonable. However, if you have evidence of bad faith on her part, let it see the light of day.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

NoMore wrote:

Keep fighting Combat Roll. I’m right there with you in a similar situation.

I recently went to mediation and the female lawyer/mediator threw her hands up and said there was no way she could successfully mediate my divorce because of the outrageous demands my STBxW made. She advised my lawyer and I to just walk out.

When she’s feeling backed into a corner, continue to play fair. By doing so, it will make her haymakers seem that much more unreasonable. However, if you have evidence of bad faith on her part, let it see the light of day.

Thanks, NoMore

Best of luck to you in your battle as well. Sounds like your little peach is just as spoiled and entitled as mine.

MGTOW!

[Anonymous 12]

One skirmish you won.
having a Female lawyer who hates her guts might be a double edged sword… fights fiercely, but what about Logic?
This was a skirmish, not even a battle.
There might be a year or two of s~~~ ahead, so stockpile. Stockpile ammo against her now, and become frugal for yourself.

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Thanks CombatRoll! Our ex’s may be related. I’ve been paying the mortgage and bills on the house while I live with my brother. I plan on buying her out of the house. She thinks she’ll continue to get the same amount of money after she moves out. My lawyer and the female lawyer/mediator both rolled their eyes and commented on her living in fantasy land. I can’t wait for this divorce to be over for obvious reasons, but also so I can detail how terrible your spouse can behave.

Best of luck brother!

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[fixthem_flythemParticipant 89]

Removed wrote:

If she makes too much of a fuss in court, the judge will even turn against her.

This exactly. Intentionally frustrating the process is not looked upon very highly; especially for petty things. I am sort of hoping this will be my case as well: just hang on to reason and watch the judge slam the door. I had the opportunity to sit in court to get a feel for the judge having purview over my case. She doesn’t like petty from either gender. The interesting thing is that she wasn’t biased at the time, her decisions were pretty much a middle split.

Could have just been the day, though.

If it floats, flies, or fucks, it is cheaper to rent....

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