requesting me to witness?

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Silver Fox wrote:

No No No No No!!!!
Don’t do it!!!!
DANGER DANGER DANGER!!!

Even knows what else! You could get fined or imprisoned for any of these things! At the very least you could get a restraining order from someone you don’t even know. Hell, you could even get the crazy female to try to kill you!
STAY AWAY!!!

THIS GOOD ADVICE IS WORTH REPEATING!!!!!

Good Samaritans don’t always escape death, injury, lawsuits, or trouble.

[redrumParticipant 78]

Trial428 – well … I don’t think this “Bent” guy is mgtow, there’s nothing in his email to indicate one way or the other. I’m on mgtow, but i’m not swearing off women, some of them are top notch. I think if you can find a woman who does not lie … well, that’s the gem. one in a million i think.

i think there’s value in community, and I personally would not exclude anyone based on the mgtow prism.

Ok if I wash that Red Pill down with some Red Rum?

[redrumParticipant 78]

well, you know, if i was in the same situation, I’d sure appreciate some help too.

all the guy is asking for is a witness, not a support. i don’t know anything about this bunch. I couldn’t be a support, cause I know nothing of the history. was there violence? I don’t know. Are the kids in the middle? Sounds like it.

I think that with all these liars around, there is a need for a truthful witness. An impartial, truthful, witness.

ya, i’m aware good samaritans get attacked by both sides.

Ok if I wash that Red Pill down with some Red Rum?

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

redrum wrote:

I think that with all these liars around, there is a need for a truthful witness. An impartial, truthful, witness.

Of course that’s how you and other men will see it… and I’m not arguing with that. I think it’s a perfectly rational, good thing to do, to have an impartial, truthful witness.

The problem is that’s not how a female, especially an angry female is going to interpret it.

Your best intentions won’t mean anything once she’s got it in her head that you’re the bad guy. In fact, just being an “impartial, truthful witness” will, in her mind, imply that she is not impartial or truthful. She will interpret it as an insult and a smear on her character. And there are untold numbers of lawyers who will take her side on that.

That’s why it’s dangerous.

P.S. There is an old saying: “No good deed goes unpunished.” There’s a very good reason why this saying has stuck around.

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[redrumParticipant 78]

Silver Fox – sounds like you know my ex.

i do think men have a different relationship with truth than women do.

Ok if I wash that Red Pill down with some Red Rum?

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

redrum wrote:

all the guy is asking for is a witness, not a support.

You are correct, Silver Fox in warning him, but he apparently does not understand that the woman will not see him as a witness. Long ago in my late teens, a wiser man told me never get involved in a domestic dispute because both sides may turn on YOU. There are retired police or other persons who the lawyer should have suggested be a witness. Why take the risk?

[redrumParticipant 78]

badger – no, that’s not correct. i understand perfectly that the woman may or may not understand that i’m a witness, and even if she does she may interpret that in a hostile way.

Ok if I wash that Red Pill down with some Red Rum?

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

Redrum, I certainly sympathize with your friend… and I would want witnesses too if I were in that situation. However, I can’t help but advise against you being the witness. It’s just too risky. Sure, maybe nothing will come of it but are you willing to put your freedom, finances, reputation, and even your life on the line just to do your friend a favor? It’s unlikely your friend realizes the gravity of what he’s asking you. Once a woman is angry and hostile, it’s not safe for any man to be around her… even if you are just there to “witness” something, and especially if you are going to be paid for it.

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[redrumParticipant 78]

silver fox, lots of good advice. you’ve definitely painted a bleak and unfortunately plausible worst case scenario.

a few years back as co-chair on the school parent council, i was presented evidence that the principal was using the school safe as his personal piggy bank. That bandit made off with $70,000. I was advised that exposing the principal would bring down a world of hurt on me. Looking back, the risk I took was that they would take it out on my daughter. they did not. I got dumped on, and I’m still being dumped on. On the bright side – i got rid of the principal, the superintendent, and the trustee – the whole chain of command. However, nobody went to jail unfortunately.

So, unfortunately, I am not blessed with a good sense of self preservation.

Ok if I wash that Red Pill down with some Red Rum?

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22582]

Maybe suggest a private detective. I would not wnat to personally get involved in such a thing. The whole point is to avoid drama, not jump into someone elses ongoing deal while its occurring.

How you gonna handle it if he points you out to her because he gets p~~~ed off by whats going on.

I understand he wants a neutral observer but you are not anyone elses relationship referee.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[bstoffParticipant 4905]

Why are the newest members the ones who ask the really provocative questions?
This is the sort of stuff you will find reposted in Salon or The Guardian.

[OldBillParticipant]

redrum wrote:

1. we stand together or we fall.

You can stand together with him in jail, knucklehead.

You show up, start recording with your cell, she starts screaming, and the cops are going to jug you both. Do you seriously think having a so-called neutral party there is going to calm matters?

If this guy’s wife is going to cause that much of a s~~~ show, he can move the handover to a police station. Talk the the many men who have been through precisely this kind of hell.

Write back to the moron who wrote you and tell him to move the custody handovers to the police station parking lot.

Don’t get involved in this s~~~. You have no official standing which will protect you.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[OldBillParticipant]

redrum wrote:

well, you know, if i was in the same situation, I’d sure appreciate some help too.

You’re either trolling or profoundly stupid.

The only help you can give this idiot is advice. Once again, tell him to move the custody handovers to a location where she can’t go crazy without consequences.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[redrumParticipant 78]

i went, i watched, i went home. no problem, no guns, no yelling or screaming. the guy is now off to denmark with his two 10 year old boys. the c~~~ sent her boys off for christmas on a trip to the other side of the world with nothing but the clothes on their backs. impressive. I’m going to guess (hope) she had christmas earlier this week.

i got a cup of jetfuel coffee (nice!) and an update on IOT sensor wireless mesh for monitoring water pipes in some big city in the states that I’ve driven through on the way to florida but can’t remember the name of, that’s about a couple of hours from the path of the solar eclipse this summer.

i think some people in mgtow are overly … cautious.

I hope you guys, should you ever get such a request, might not be so … cautious.

Ok if I wash that Red Pill down with some Red Rum?

[redrumParticipant 78]

… cautious (ie snivelling cowards).

Ok if I wash that Red Pill down with some Red Rum?

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