The man’s name is W. Bradford Wilcox. The article is here: http://thefederalist.com/2016/05/19/the-divorce-revolution-has-bred-an-army-of-woman-haters/#disqus_thread
You can see his picture there and it just screams beta simp. His doughy face, makes me think he’s had it up to his eyebrows with exercise. He might have an excuse though, working those extra 400 hours might have its pitfalls. To think this beta Pillsbury doughboy actually believes he will outlive me is astonishing and delusional.
So from the title we are apparently woman haters. While it might be true for a lot of people new to MGTOW, I realize I don’t hate anymore. They are no longer part of the equation. Some of our members have the red pill rage but it is part of the process.
First he tries a weak attempt at making fun of Turd Flinging Monkey (TFM) who encourages others to avoid relationships with women. As much as I think the name is juvenile, TFM actually destroyed the praeger points on marriage. In the article, he basically states, TFM isn’t alone! No s~~~! We’re living in the information age and now we can all network, trade stories and notice significant patterns. In a weak manner, he calls this a “Peter Pan” syndrome. Let’s see, I pay my own bills, have my own career, own property but I don’t want to grow up? Am I missing something? This is nothing more than a poor attempt to shame men into committing to marriage. How about no. I am not ashamed to take care of my own needs. I am not ashamed to say no to a single mother, her baggage of f~~~ trophies and whatever psychological issues that comes with it.
Fact is, people who embrace the MGTOW/MGHOW lifestyle are the most intelligence, rational thinking people on this earth. Instead of letting feelings/love/duty/man-up/real-man propaganda bulls~~~ cloud your judgement, we look at marriage for what it really is, a business transaction. We look at it as a business transaction because if/when it ends, it will be handled like a business transaction with absolutely no feelings involved whatsoever.
He also states, “Social scientists estimate that about 42 percent of first marriages end in divorce and about 66 percent of divorces are initiated by women. This means that a lot of men are divorced unwillingly, sometimes for good reasons and sometimes for not-so-good reasons. It’s this experience of divorce, or the expectation of divorce, that leaves many men reluctant to tie the knot.”
Finally the real reason for MGTOW movement surfaces. Again, look at this as a business deal/transaction. Would you invest in a business that has a first time failure rate of 46%, and if it fails you have to continue to pay your partner a significant amount until they find another partner? Please pitch that idea to a lender, or an investor and tell me the results.
Last he states, “One tragic consequence of what we might call the Maxim Masculinity view of love and marriage is that fewer men will seek to cultivate the virtues that make them good lovers and husbands, to their detriment and the detriment of the women in their lives. Another tragic consequence is that more men will end up uncared for, unhappy, and unhealthy in later life—that is, if they make it into late life: unmarried men live almost 10 years less than stably married men. (Needless to say, findings like these suggest that, for most men, marriage bears little resemblance to slavery.) The biggest tragedy of all is that many of these men will end up having sons who end up just as disconnected from women, marriage, and family life as their MGTOW fathers. Thanks, divorce revolution.”
First off I can only hope fewer men will seek marriage and the majority of females end up alone. In the western world, they are undeserving of a good man. Make no mistake, it won’t be to the detriment of men, it will only be to the detriment of women. I’ve been alone going on four years (yes I’ve had girlfriends here and there, but no live-in) and I cook my own meals, wash my own clothes, and clean up my own mess. I do not need a woman for any of that. What about sex? Well that’s the beautiful thing about being a man, I can please myself better than any woman can on her best day. As far as this nonsense data that married men live longer, I find it down right laughable. I know for me it is not true. I workout 6 days a week, three of that is cardio driven the other three is strength-training driven. I do not have high blood pressure, my body fat is 7% and best of all no high cholesterol. I do not feel the need to drink alcohol heavily because I don’t have the stress of your average married man. The reason I state this is because I am not special. Every single man on this forum can do the exact same. You owe it to yourself to keep your body and your mind sharp.
In conclusion, no we don’t want to get married because someone on tv or the internet says it’s a good idea. Quite frankly, it’s not worth it. My free time belongs to me, I do not have to make anyone, except myself happy. My money belongs to me, I do not have to worry about going in debt, or providing for a grown child that does not understand basic economics. Last, I will not, under any circumstances take in a single mother, or the spawn of some thug dick so I can be used as a resource.
What are your thoughts guys?
If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.
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