Remarriage. "Any man can make mistakes…

[StealthParticipant 5327]

…but only an idiot persists in his error.” – Cicero

I still get asked when I’m going to get remarried. As if this tuxedoed Bond character will return to wallow in some bitch’s vomit.

Here are recaps of two conversations I’ve had with two different married women:
You should get married and have kids.
No thanks. I don’t need kids, and already did the marriage thing.
Well at least find a woman who loves you.
Such beings do not exist. And they are all crazy.
You just find the crazy ones.
They are all crazy.
<name calling in a rage, followed by> Ok, I agree you are right. But that doesn’t mean you have to stop searching.
Yes, it does.
<name calling in a rage, followed by> Ok you are right.
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Second Conversation:
So sorry to hear about your divorce, but these things happen and hopefully you can learn a lesson from it and move forward.
Yes I have, and the lesson I have learned is to NEVER GET MARRIED.
Wait…no…I didn’t mean THAT lesson! I meant to fault you for your wife’s behavior. Surely there is some OTHER lesson?
………….

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

don’t try to have logical conversations with emotional beings. That’s one of the main reasons why women aren’t allowed to participate on mgtow.com forums.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[neverAgainParticipant 1662]

Either that woman is retarded or purposefully deceitful. The latter is more likely than the former.

All good things come to an end.

[StealthParticipant 5327]

Blue Skies wrote:

don’t try to have logical conversations with emotional beings. That’s one of the main reasons why women aren’t allowed to participate on mgtow.com forums.

Good advice, I gave this a star. But in both cases the woman initiated, and it ended quickly.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Stealth wrote:

BMW wrote:

don’t try to have logical conversations with emotional beings. That’s one of the main reasons why women aren’t allowed to participate on mgtow.com forums.

Good advice, I gave this a star. But in both cases the woman initiated, and it ended quickly.

If you do want to converse with women, or perhaps its a part of your job, cater to their feelings.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[StealthParticipant 5327]

Those women that spoke to you sounded like real c~~~s.

Possibly. These are two of the most common conversations I’ve had, and I would bet many of you have been approached with the same ideas from women.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[StealthParticipant 5327]

Blue Skies wrote:

Stealth wrote:

BMW wrote:

don’t try to have logical conversations with emotional beings. That’s one of the main reasons why women aren’t allowed to participate on mgtow.com forums.

Good advice, I gave this a star. But in both cases the woman initiated, and it ended quickly.

If you do want to converse with women, or perhaps its a part of your job, cater to their feelings.

Not going to cater to them, sorry. Especially when they stick their nose in my personal business.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

My standard response is: The best salesperson in the world is the woman who can convince a guy to go BACK down the isle. That usually ends the conversation.

A few times I’ve heard back “Yeah, I could say the same thing.” My comeback then was “First of all, I don’t f~~~ guys so that’s your problem not mine. And, since you are now agreeing with me, why are you bothering me?” And that was the end of those conversations.

Order the good wine

[ghostParticipant]

For me personally, it is not a question of need but of desire and want. I think marriage can work for me if I find the right woman. A comprehensive prenuptial agreement will be a requirement. I have never been married before but I am still relatively young (lower 30s).

I do not see myself dating her or pursuing a relationship prior to marriage as that route has never worked for me. It will most likely be done in traditional fashion, with religion playing a prominent role.

[StealthParticipant 5327]

ghost wrote:

For me personally, it is not a question of need but of desire and want. I think marriage can work for me if I find the right woman. A comprehensive prenuptial agreement will be a requirement. I have never been married before but I am still relatively young (lower 30s).

I do not see myself dating her or pursuing a relationship prior to marriage as that route has never worked for me. It will most likely be done in traditional fashion, with religion playing a prominent role.

Dude, If you like getting divorce raped, more power to you. My marriage/divorce rape was with a #10 virgin unicorn “in traditional fashion, with religion playing a prominent role.”

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[BoarParticipant]

ghost wrote:

I think marriage can work for me if I find the right woman.

What part of AWALT are you not getting?

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

ghost wrote:

I do not see myself dating her or pursuing a relationship prior to marriage as that route has never worked for me. It will most likely be done in traditional fashion, with religion playing a prominent role.

One piece of advice, and this goes for everyone: BEWARE THE VIRGIN!

I dated a girl in college for four years, and was close to asking her to marry me. Beautiful girl, families knew each other and got along well, she was pretty mellow in the drama department. The one problem: she was a virgin. The only guy she’d ever had sex with was me. I had only had sex with one other girl, so it wasn’t like I had a huge sexual past. But she just HAD to have sex with another guy to see what it was like. That was her big reason.

There’s way too much social programming going on telling women they deserve it all, and that you can’t hold her c~~~-count again her. The days of marrying a virgin are long gone, and if you do there’s a 100% chance that you won’t be her last.

Hypergamy floats. Beware the virgin.

Order the good wine

[ghostParticipant]

Boar wrote:

What part of AWALT are you not getting?

I accept their nature. I accept the concept of AWALT. I am not expecting her to be a “unicorn”.

Stealth wrote:

Dude, If you like getting divorce raped, more power to you. My marriage/divorce rape was with a #10 virgin unicorn “in traditional fashion, with religion playing a prominent role.”

The probability of divorce is why I will have a comprehensive prenuptial agreement. She will not walk away with anything more than what I will sign up for on day one.

[ghostParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

Hypergamy floats. Beware the virgin.

In my case, she will have to be a virgin and she will most likely be from another country. Her family background, including her mother and father, will be a big factor in my decision. I also expect her to bring similar if not more assets to the table.

[StealthParticipant 5327]

ghost wrote:

The probability of divorce is why I will have a comprehensive prenuptial agreement. She will not be walking away with anything more than what I would have already signed up for on day one.

These agreements have holes. Even if you’re super tight about it up front, let’s say policies change where these agreements are handled casually at the time your foreign NAWALT watches too much tv and then tries to kill you. Or you move to another state that interprets them differently. Or you accumulate assets that are technically not addressed in the prenup, as in Brad Pitt’s case. Just be aware of the risks, and be prepared to get surprised.
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It’s a lot like using a condom while f~~~ing someone who has AIDS.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[ghostParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

Just be aware of the risks, and be prepared to get surprised.

I understand. I am always open to surprises. That is part of life. I do not expect to rush this decision and will do plenty of research prior to signing up. I will also look at establishing trusts for my children in order to keep certain assets protected for them after they reach a certain age, level of education and/or work experience.

I plan to remain proactive and continue to adjust as things change. I will treat this no different than how I run my business.

[StealthParticipant 5327]

Gambit, I wish the best for you no matter the path you take.

In my case, and in the case of many others who have been betrayed by their wives and the system, going through it AGAIN is out of the question. I have learned my lesson.

“Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice . . .” you know the rest. It’s up to me, and my plantation days are over.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 13]

Gambit,

If you go down ANY marriage route in today’s society, you WILL BE DIVORCE RAPED.

It’s only a question of WHEN and the DEGREE.

NO prenup, no matter how seemingly water tight will help you. They are just another money spinner for lawyers and get torn up by the judge as he grins in your face.

No matter what women you pick, virgin or high miles c~~~, she WILL cheat and be disloyal.

A good virgin from another country will become Westernised and cheat to see what she’s been missing.

A HIVE will take her in and teach her well.

How to divorce and destroy you, get half or more of your assets, business and then go enjoy Chad c~~~.

If you have kids they are NOT your kids.

They are always HER kids.

WHATEVER safeguards you put in place, no matter how wealthy you are,

Her 911 call will end it for you.

You can not marry in this world any longer.

What part of ‘marriage contract’ are you not getting.

If you marry any woman you are DOOMED.

[Anonymous 13]

Gambit,

I’m sorry Bro,

You don’t stand a f~~~ing chance.

You know better.

[ghostParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

n my case, and in the case of many others who have been betrayed by their wives and the system, going through it AGAIN is out of the question. I have learned my lesson.

I respect your decision. I compare your decision with myself not wanting to date again and pursue a “relationship” with a woman. I am the kind of person who needs to experience something for himself or will have regrets later on in life. I do not want to have the regret that I never married or had kids. It might be my age talking given how my hormones still have a strong grip on me. My desire might change in a few years and I may still be single.

Stealth wrote:

Gambit, I wish the best for you no matter the path you take.

Thank you. I appreciate that, Stealth.

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