Relations~~~s no more!

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

Hi, very new to the site, but wanted to share my story of my last relations~~~ with you all.

I’m 40, and father (proud, loving father) to two boys from a previous relationship.

Now the LAST relationship I was in with (stupid me) with a tall, slim hottie 10 years younger than me.  But boy her beauty was only on the outside.  I met her 7 years ago at work.  The first three months were great, but then the madness loomed.  She’d check my phone.  She’d sift through my personal belongings if I even popped to the f~~~ing bathroom.  She’d hit herself if she so much as THOUGHT i was talking to another woman.  She’d hit me.  She once held a knife to her stomach and told me to tell her about every single woman I’d ever slept with and how I rated them.  It was awful, but when she was nice guys…she was real nice….we all think they can change right?

So anyway, to cut a long story short, we are on and off for a few years until the beginning of this year (2015).  Her phone goes off whilst we are in the car, and she asks me to tell her who it is as she’s driving.  F~~~ing ‘E-Harmony’.  I flipped.  She’d been messaging some rich guy for weeks.  I went ballistic.  I told her that all along, for years, she had been doing THE EXACT THINGS THAT SHE HAD ACCUSED ME OF DOING.  Needless to say, I haven’t spoken to her since, and luckily my boys didn’t see her much as they live with their mum.  Anyway, I went into a deep depression because, after 22 years since I first had sex, I’ve realised I can’t get it right.  Then I realised (my red pill moment) that I don’t have to get it right.  F~~~ ’em.  I’m going my own way now and I am lucky that I have my sons and my mates.  I will never, ever trust a woman again, and I’m actually happy about that.

If I can get a ride now and again that’s cool.  But I ain’t working for it.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I would have let her use that knife on herself ☺. Anyway just be careful if you recent red pill. You still have some storms coming so use this site for help with that. It took me about 8 months to ‘level off’ where I could operate normally.

Anyway, she’s gone, you’re free …… job done ….. use tail if needs be.

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

@iliveagain I certainly wished she had, if only to see the look on her face when she realised and that s~~~ can really really hurt!  Seeing women go bats~~~ crazy is a sight to behold.  I just laugh about it now, both her absurd behaviour and my stupidity.  I do realise I’m in for some long hard times but yep, the tail is an option haha!

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Exactly. You DON’T have to get it right. We, as men, do not have to get it right. There is nothing to get right in the first place.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

Damn right.  Thanks mate.

[experiencedParticipant]

You’re correct about the vulnerability of first sex after break up and my hat’s off to you for:

 after 22 years since I first had sex, I’ve realised I can’t get it right.  Then I realised (my red pill moment) that I don’t have to get it right.  F~~~ ’em.  I’m going my own way now and I am lucky that I have my sons and my mates.  I will never, ever trust a woman again, and I’m actually happy about that.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[DuroParticipant 29]

I find it fascinatingly ironic how many women will use the “you only see in others what you see in yourself” argument. Of course, it isn’t necessarily true in all instances (or probably even in most instances), but in this one it was certainly true. Your last partner saw in you exactly what she saw in herself, and it’s hilarious when the punchline comes (at least in retrospect). Kind of seems like this form of argumentation is just an excuse for them to do as they please, but I guess we already knew that.

Funny as well that she would trust you to check her phone to tell her who is messaging her. I would think someone with the disrespect to go through another’s phone would at least have the sense to guard their own phone from others (again, going with the seeing in others what you see in yourself theme that girls love to use). That’s her problem now.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Duro wrote:

“you only see in others what you see in yourself”

Oh I LOVE hearing that one.

So if you’re hip to her manipulations… it means YOU are a manipulator too?

Not only is it bulls~~~, but that’s how she deflects every criticism back to YOU.

I can’t believe you mentioned this. Do ALL women speak from exactly the same script? How is it possible that YOU and I can be separated by years, geography, and very different lives…. but the women we date all say exactly the same s~~~. They all practice their lines from the universal female manipulation playbook. And that’s all it is.

“You only see in others what you see in yourself”

The human female – even though equipped with the ability to reason – is the most un-self-aware creature on the face of the Earth. They don’t even understand their own attraction mechanisms. When you notice that women respond better to being treated like crap…it doesn’t mean YOU love to be treated like crap. Men know and observe this in women, but not even 0.001% of that s~~~ applies to him.

MGTOW read through those bulls~~~ lines like a hot knife through butter.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

It’s pretty much a rule of a thumb – when a woman accuses you of something out of jealousy – chances are she’s already doing that exact thing

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[experiencedParticipant]

I find it fascinatingly ironic how many women will use the “you only see in others what you see in yourself” argument

Duro hit the nail on the head.

Another is how many women will act like whores and when called on it say, “don’t judge lest ye be judged” which one is supposed to apply to oneself, not as an open license to do whatever they want.   When they do that it reminds me of the sad fact that the devil’s most likely got the Bible memorized for just this reason, to misuse it.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RoCrow99Participant 60]

The look on her face though when I told her what was on her phone was ‘ohhhh fucckkkkk’.  She actually looked scared.  The most upsetting AND most liberating moment for years, all in the same milli-second.  I actually hope her next victim is a cheat and a real bastard.  It’ll make her choke on humble pie.  To the dogs with her.

[megatoad69Participant 449]

“You only see in others what you see in yourself”

 

My ex talked about that more than once, perhaps she was infected by the fembola virus too?!

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[hankmoodyforuParticipant 16]

Funny as well that she would trust you to check her phone to tell her who is messaging her. I would think someone with the disrespect to go through another’s phone would at least have the sense to guard their own phone from others .

 

I know right! All that time accussing him and snooping through his phone an she the one messing around. I been through that mess before dealing with this woman years ago going through my things looking for s~~~ to catch me. I jusst joined this website and im glad I found it! I lost my phone around her and she helped me looked for my phone. Guess what she had my phone the whole time and still denied having it. Later that day question me about some weird numbers in my phone. She snooped through my emails and popped up at my job and my place that s~~~ annoyed me. Get this s~~~ she calls me tell me she not feeling wells gonna go to sleep early around 6pm at her mom house. I said ok. Later that night I figure I be a good guy took her some medicine to her mom house and behold her car isn’t there. So I called her no answer. Texted her ask where she at I am here at your mom bought you some medicine. No response back. So im driving back home an my cellphone rings different number an some dude ask for a different name told him he got the wrong number. Then he called back ask for the wrong name again told him he got the wrong number and hung up. Then he called back again and this time asked for me. Be hold it was her ex boyfriend called me to tell me she aint with him and out of town he don’t know where she at. I cut him off told him look I don’t know what you talking about I didn’t say nothing told her about you and why the f~~~ are you calling me telling me this s~~~ instead of her im no fool I know she right there with you other than that she would have called me her self but to be so disrespectful to have you call me like this s~~~ is a f~~~ing game f~~~ her. I just had to vent that off s~~~ still p~~~es me off an that was 4 years ago. I never told anyone that was to embrassed to tell anyone that I got played like that. Rest assure I don’t trust no woman now. I have learn and studied women ways an can tell if they are lying. Most of the time women give anyway the answer right to your face but we don’t listen.

your tears of regret cannot turn back the hands of time!

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

experienced wrote:

Another is how many women will act like whores and when called on it say, “don’t judge lest ye be judged” which one is supposed to apply to oneself, not as an open license to do whatever they want.

I LOVE when idiotic women use that phrase to justify their horrendous behavior, or of a celebrity they love.

Woman: “DON’T JUDGE THEM/ME!  That’s wrong and horrible of you to do!”

Me: “Are you judging me for judging you?  How horrible of you to do!”

[JinParticipant 77]

RoCrow99 wrote:

I will never, ever trust a woman again,

I wouldn’t go as far to say that, but be more in tuned with your red pill. Greatness will follow.

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it"

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