Rejuvenated After Leaving

[ShadeParticipant 53]

Man it’s been a while since I revisited the site. I took advice and I wanted to see how it all measured up. Once I left her, about a month later she found a way to contact me somehow subliminally. I made an ad on Craigslist and she acted like she didn’t think it was me. I deleted her from Facebook and I only talk to her sister, (Who is actually a good effin chick she just has two kids).

This scenario sums my ex up right here. I was letting her use my car because hers was broken. I was driving me back home so she could take herself and her mom back to her place. I look at the new tires I got and noticed that the front driver one is still looking kinda flat. I misread the psi on it.

So I said, “Babe, this tire is looking crazy. If you go to the Bell-Tire near your place they give you free are you can put some in there…” Before I could explain the rest she hit me with, “You’re the man babe, you’re supposed to do that.”

I just shook my head. Like, WTF. YOU’RE using the car! What happens once you don’t have a man, will you ask a random guy to do it for you?

Ever since I moved on from her (which was tough) I have met a score of other women through my foot fetish. It’s like how I was before I met my ex. I was single and focusing on me but dealing with girls only on a casual level. In the next post I will explain what happened in our email battle and you will see how crazy it sounded.

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Shade wrote:

You’re the man

I love hearing that one.

Until you tell her “You’re the woman. Bend over.”
It’s just as preposterous.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AwakenedParticipant 35216]

Once women have their resident male slave in check, they like to keep him that way. Marriage/relations~~~s turns what once were at least somewhat independent women into lazy slobs always looking for “her” man to do it, and it is pretty much everything.

It’s amazing how these “adults” become as helpless as a child once they sucker a man in, and then they just “expect” it. The jokes on them when they’re then thrust back into the world after they get divorced/break up and are forced to start doing and providing for themselves.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[ShadeParticipant 53]

In the email she took the first shot at me. I said, “Yeah this is me, the guy you broke up with a month ago because you wanted to seek God more. Glad you finally found him.”

This was one “reason” for her breaking up with me. She wanted to “seek God more” and felt like she was investing too much time in her BF to do so.
She replies saying, “Just lonely actually, if every guy worked for every girl no one would be single. We didn’t work for each other sorry, should I have stuck around anyways? Wouldn’t make sense.”

This all was on a weekend. And because she isn’t very outgoing and people rarely like her, her weekends end up boring as f~~~. But when I replied to tha, I said no. We did work for each other you just weren’t working with me. She plays victim saying I made her feel unappreciated. She was saying that we just didn’t “mesh” right.

Ummm….we were “meshing” during the winter when it was snow on the ground. We “meshed” when you needed comfort and my help. Oh yeah, we meshed then.

She claimed that she wanted to feel some type of way and wasn’t getting it so what was the point in sticking around,<—-we’ll get back to that.

She said that she obviously felt bad because she lost a great person (as a friend) but she is happy I am living the good life now. She told me, if you got over me so quickly then maybe you weren’t in love as intensely as you thought. That’s a lie. But also, what do you expect? For me to be hung up on you forever? Pftt!

So then we got to the initiation of the break up. She tried very hard to make me break up with her first: saying we have to “take a break”, then claiming celibacy.” I wouldn’t fall for it because yeah, I did love her.
Until she finally broke down and exed me by email saying she wants to be friends. I left her then.
She claimed that I was twisting her words around, putting them to what I wanted to hear in my head. I told her, I am not twisting your words around and I don’t need to, your actions told me otherwise.

She asked me, “Well, if I would’ve done it in that way, in person, would that have made you any happier?”
I said no of course not. I’m breaking up with a person I love so no it wouldn’t be happy. I would’ve “respected” it more had you been like a woman about it and done it face to face. We probably would still be good friends.
But you did that and it’s like you never even cared.

So she finally apologized for it and admitted that she did it because she was scared, a punk.

Now with the “feel some kind of way thing”. My mom and her BF are going through something and she asked me for an input. She asked that if my ex ever said she couldn’t read me. I wasn’t showing the right affection. My mom agreed with my ex somewhat and I blasted her for it.

My mom said, “I think you and (her BF) think that just because you don’t: cheat, abuse, or call women out there name that’s it. That’s all you have to do.”

I said, no. Stop comparing me to him. Because I know how to treat my woman. Plus, it was nothing that girl didn’t have, except common sense. I made her feel: important, beautiful, sexy, like she mattered, confident, and secure. WTF else is there? I’m a human being and I cannot f~~~in read minds, man.
At the end of the day it is “her” fault. She just doesn’t know what she wants or just too damn self-centered.

But I got my closure. And I spoke back to her a little bit. But I’m over her. Looking back at it all she was a BS partner. She’ll never get a good guy because she’ll never change. I thought about re-adding her on FB but I’m close to just not speaking to her at all unless she reaches me.

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[Anonymous 54]

Dude! My ex has a slow leak in two tires. Little honda,i just hit it with my bicycle pump. Last week shes being a c~~~ about money bal bal.
I pointed out that if I refusded to do this one simple thing,shed be f~~~ed. And she knows it.
Shes being better now. But it wont last right! C~~~s.

[Anonymous 54]

Shade wrote:

In the email she took the first shot at me. I said, “Yeah this is me, the guy you broke up with a month ago because you wanted to seek God more. Glad you finally found him.”

This was one “reason” for her breaking up with me. She wanted to “seek God more” and felt like she was investing too much time in her BF to do so.
She replies saying, “Just lonely actually, if every guy worked for every girl no one would be single. We didn’t work for each other sorry, should I have stuck around anyways? Wouldn’t make sense.”

This all was on a weekend. And because she isn’t very outgoing and people rarely like her, her weekends end up boring as f~~~. But when I replied to tha, I said no. We did work for each other you just weren’t working with me. She plays victim saying I made her feel unappreciated. She was saying that we just didn’t “mesh” right.

Ummm….we were “meshing” during the winter when it was snow on the ground. We “meshed” when you needed comfort and my help. Oh yeah, we meshed then.

She claimed that she wanted to feel some type of way and wasn’t getting it so what was the point in sticking around,<—-we’ll get back to that.

She said that she obviously felt bad because she lost a great person (as a friend) but she is happy I am living the good life now. She told me, if you got over me so quickly then maybe you weren’t in love as intensely as you thought. That’s a lie. But also, what do you expect? For me to be hung up on you forever? Pftt!

So then we got to the initiation of the break up. She tried very hard to make me break up with her first: saying we have to “take a break”, then claiming celibacy.” I wouldn’t fall for it because yeah, I did love her.
Until she finally broke down and exed me by email saying she wants to be friends. I left her then.
She claimed that I was twisting her words around, putting them to what I wanted to hear in my head. I told her, I am not twisting your words around and I don’t need to, your actions told me otherwise.

She asked me, “Well, if I would’ve done it in that way, in person, would that have made you any happier?”
I said no of course not. I’m breaking up with a person I love so no it wouldn’t be happy. I would’ve “respected” it more had you been like a woman about it and done it face to face. We probably would still be good friends.
But you did that and it’s like you never even cared.

So she finally apologized for it and admitted that she did it because she was scared, a punk.

Now with the “feel some kind of way thing”. My mom and her BF are going through something and she asked me for an input. She asked that if my ex ever said she couldn’t read me. I wasn’t showing the right affection. My mom agreed with my ex somewhat and I blasted her for it.

My mom said, “I think you and (her BF) think that just because you don’t: cheat, abuse, or call women out there name that’s it. That’s all you have to do.”

I said, no. Stop comparing me to him. Because I know how to treat my woman. Plus, it was nothing that girl didn’t have, except common sense. I made her feel: important, beautiful, sexy, like she mattered, confident, and secure. WTF else is there? I’m a human being and I cannot f~~~in read minds, man.
At the end of the day it is “her” fault. She just doesn’t know what she wants or just too damn self-centered.

But I got my closure. And I spoke back to her a little bit. But I’m over her. Looking back at it all she was a BS partner. She’ll never get a good guy because she’ll never change. I thought about re-adding her on FB but I’m close to just not speaking to her at all unless she reaches me.

wow. Reading this twist my brain. Dont bother trying to make sense out of what comes out of a female brain. Because it simply wont make sense.
You can not think clearly if there is a woman in your life.

[ShadeParticipant 53]

But see that’s the thing. Since I was about 23 I’ve been savage but finding MGTOW has made it worse. I didn’t make time to decipher what she was thinking because the key words she used is all I needed to read. I knew it didn’t make sense because she doesn’t make sense in general, as a person.

I just wanted to mindf~~~ her a little bit. But it’s clear that she is not doing all that great in the social field. She works with my mom, and my mom said she clearly gained about 20lbs since the breakup and she’s lonely on weekends. When her weekends are bad she eats and drinks. She was very in shape when I dated her but now she might blow back up to a balloon.

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

This:

Anonymous wrote:

Dont bother trying to make sense out of what comes out of a female brain. Because it simply wont make sense.

Most of the time it’s combination of whatever comes to their minds and deliberate deception (blowing smoke). Smarter/experienced women mostly blow smoke, young and dumb – whatever comes to their minds.
But yeah – never bother making sense out of it, only look at the motives and agendas.
Once you learn to only see motives and agendas – all the babbling stops affecting you – it’s almost like you’re turning deaf, which makes you immune to manipulation. Women’s motives are super easy to understand – just like children’s. You just have to learn to ignore the stream of manure that comes out of their mouths. Women are much craftier than childen in disguising them.
Same applies to men also, by the way. But usually when men speak (salesmen and attorneys excluded) – they use language to communicate their motives, while women use language to obstruct their motives. That’s why they need to talk much more than men do – blowing smoke 24/7 is not that easy

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 54]

Shade wrote:

But see that’s the thing. Since I was about 23 I’ve been savage but finding MGTOW has made it worse. I didn’t make time to decipher what she was thinking because the key words she used is all I needed to read. I knew it didn’t make sense because she doesn’t make sense in general, as a person.

I just wanted to mindf~~~ her a little bit. But it’s clear that she is not doing all that great in the social field. She works with my mom, and my mom said she clearly gained about 20lbs since the breakup and she’s lonely on weekends. When her weekends are bad she eats and drinks. She was very in shape when I dated her but now she might blow back up to a balloon.

I look on fb(use it for work,family ,freinds over the planet)for old girl freinds. There all fat and ugly ! HAHAH

[AwakenedParticipant 35216]

Russky wrote:

You just have to learn to ignore the stream of manure that comes out of their mouths

Once you can internalize this nugget of TRUTH, and make it YOURS. Then you can begin applying the concept of “No F~~~s Given” to her, and most everything every other women says in your life. Most women are liars, and they will say and do anything to get what they want. It’s just another nugget of TRUTH.

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