Regrets Anyone

[Anonymous 12]

bstoff wrote:

I’ve made unwise decisions but I never regret them.
The choices I make and the things that happen as a result, help to shape who I am.
I am happy with who I am.
The choices I make in the future are shaped by what I’ve learned from past mistakes.

I reverse the process, but come to the same conclusion…

Am i happy, do i accept who i am today?

Ermmm… Yea, kind of. Could be a s~~~ton worse.
Okay, we´re good, no regrets, keep up the good work.

[Anonymous 42]

F~~~ regrets! They’re just the low on any swing! The lower I go the harder I try to swing even higher!

My point is that it can be FUN!

I’ve been feeling pretty f~~~ing low lately (15 years) but I’m due for an UPSWING!

F~~~ THIS! I WANT MY UPSWING!

[AutoliteParticipant]

The bottom line is that it takes most of your life just to learn what you did wrong and what you should have done different. IMO that’s the case for almost all of us.

To paraphrase Henry Ford:

“You want to hire the best people for the job, the ones who’ve got it all figured out. The problem being that the ones who’ve actually got it all figured out are just too old to work”…

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I wouldn’t really say I have a lot of regrets, but I have things I’d have done better and/or differently if I could go back in time 20 years. Its not like my past is riddled with dumb decisions or anything, its just some past plans didn’t work out as I had hoped at the time, so its more just a matter of I’d have spent less time chasing after some goals and just gotten to where I am now earlier. Overall though when I look at how my life is going compared to the train wreck that seems to be the average millennial, I think I’m doing pretty damn well.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I regret getting married and having a child. If I could do it over I would not do it again.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[BernieParticipant 254]

Hello awakened, Yes I regret the lost of my wife of 30 years. She succumbed to non Hodgkin lymphoma. Little did I know at that time my second wife would be my biggest regret.
When you marry a traditional women in the early 70’s and build a life and family and raise some beautiful children. I’m very proud of. After the original shock of the lost and grief is dealt with. I thought it was safe to put my feet back in the water of dating and met my second wife.
Unfortunately i wasn’t prepared for the women of the 21 century. Anyway long story short I got taken for 1/3 of my retirement for 5 years of marriage. Which was mostly built with my first wife and was looking forward to retirement with .
What i would like to say to the younger men is don’t by into killing yourself for the golden age of retirement. Enjoy life and do things while your healthy. If your a working man like i was (off shore oil production) it takes it toll on your body. Now that i’m 64 there is a lot of things i dreamed of doing but can’t physically do anymore. In the same respect I’m healthy enough to pursue those things i can do physically and mentally at this point in my life.
As far as my red pill rage I’ll save that for another time as i didn’t know that term at the time of my divorce. Wow, I sure did experience it . I learned about MGTOW last summer . Saw a couple of men with shirts and started looking into it online. Then i realized i had a lot in common with the experiences of other mgtow men and their stories.

Anyway Thanks and have a good evening

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

bstoff wrote:

I’ve made unwise decisions but I never regret them.

The choices I make and the things that happen as a result, help to shape who I am.

I am happy with who I am.
The choices I make in the future are shaped by what I’ve learned from past mistakes.

I used to think of it this way……….Not anymore.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 43]

Bernie, sucks to lose a unicorn the hard way. we all thought we had a unicorn at the time. Until they weren’t our unicorn.

You saw men in public with mgtow shirts? wow. That took some b~~~~. MGTOW is kind of an underground thing.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

PistolPete wrote:

The young are impervious to regrets–because they can’t see the long term results. Only with age are we bestowed with wisdom enough to appreciate long term consequences and hence regrets.

WISE WORDS, If I may adjust a few words ?

The young are impervious to regrets because they have not experienced the long term negative results of poor choices. Only with age are we bestowed with wisdom and hindsight to reflect upon the irrevocable consequences of our decisions.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Black MaskParticipant 1572]

Yeah, I regret wasting time and money. I feel like a late bloomer.

"Man honesty is misogyny." - Patrice O'Neal

[BernieParticipant 254]

Thanks 57, Well I’m for one glad they expressed themselves.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Nice thread, Awakened!.

A slice of humble pie.

The regrets I have is stealing $14 from my parents when I was a kid/stealing another kids toy gun/stealing a battery and light globe from a shop (around 10 years old)/downloading games & movies when I was younger. When I think about it, it was a C~~~ act. I feel terrible. Even to this day. My parents worked so hard to bring me up in a healthy environment. Downloading pirated stuff from the internet is just like saying a big “f~~~ you” to those programmers/actors etc. No more. That was long ago.

On the other hand, I am so grateful for not getting married/never dating/never getting drunk/never doing drugs.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[Anonymous 42]

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

The regrets I have is stealing $14 from my parents when I was a kid/stealing another kids toy gun/stealing a battery and light globe from a shop (around 10 years old)

Wow, Mike, I have the same kind of regrets, it bothers me to this day, when I was 10yrs old, I called my aunt a Jesus Freak!

It’s the little things that I could never imagine would come back to haunt me!

Dishonesty and being deceitful are the two things that really came back to haunt me.

Some people never learn!

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Anonymous wrote:

t’s the little things that I could never imagine would come back to haunt me!

Exactly brother, exactly!

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

I can honestly say i have very little that I regret. I’ve never gotten married or lost a sizeable chunk of my lifetime earnings in a divorce. I’ve never gotten anyone pregnant. I’ve worked hard and established myself in a decent career. I’ve made sacrifices to get here of course, and taken risks…but so far things have worked out very well for me. I still have half a lifetime worth of cool s~~~ to do ahead of me…and now I can pretty much do all the things i wanted to do when i was younger, but couldn’t.

I think young men (well, all men really) today are hurting, and struggling…but going your own way is the absolute best possible decision you could ever make. You can’t afford NOT to go your own anymore. The risks are too great, and the consequences are too severe. The only way to live a life without regret is MGTOW.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

The problem here is that given the knowledge I had, I actually did all right.
Regrets?
Not really.
I gave up to some career opportunities, to stay with my family: it was the right thing to do, given the knowledge I had at that time. I wouldn’t gave up, given my actual knowledge, but it’s normal, different (more and better) knowledge would led to different decisions.
The closer thing to a “regret” is that a night aged 20 I was too drunk to understand that a model was trying to hit on me. That isn’t a real regret: it would had been some nights of sex and boasting “the great conquest” with friends, nothing more.

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[KeymasterKeymaster]

Awakened wrote:

Regrets anyone ??

I go back and forth on this frequently, but don’t really have any. Even the severe fcuk ups. Captain Kirk once said “we all have our scars….. but I NEED my scars!!”. It really stuck.

My brother has 2 kids and is married. One day, I imagine he will say “where the hell did the last 20 years go?”.

Like “Lou”. Who left this message for men.

My brother LIVES for routine.
I can’t stand it.

Which one is better off? Who can say, really. But when I hear a man say “where the hell did the last 20 years go?” …. I know where the last 20 years went. I couldn’t have filled the time more. So I hope that’s enough to have no regrets. Otherwise, I’m gonna be pretty deflated one day too.

A smart man once said….

Don’t berate yourself too much.
Your choices are half chance. Just like everyone else’s.

That really stuck too.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 5]

Like Romulus and many others, Blue or Red Pill, I regret marrying the c~~~ and then hanging around out of some false sense of loyalty and duty.
But MGTOW did something miraculous. I stopped regretting breaking up with the true love unicorn of my life before I married the c~~~. Yes, the one I had full blown Oneitis with.
MGTOW made me stop day dreaming and fantasizing about the utopian life I would have had with her. I don’t think a month went by that I didn’t wish I was with her instead. My unicorn divorced the man she married and I always rationalized that he didn’t treat her right or wasn’t in love with her as much as I was.
MGTOW allowed me to look back with 20/20 and I remember how turbulent and testy she was. I always thought she was just irrational and overly emotional but I’ve learnt a name for her constantly challenging behavior,,,s~~~ testing! She was full of s~~~ testing.
Looking through Red Pill lenses, I think she would have been a bigger c~~~ than the c~~~ I married.

I don’t regret marrying or hooking up with any woman now, especially in a post birth control/ social media world because any association with women is now dangerous, even Blue Pill men are starting to understand that now.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Anonymous wrote:

Like Romulus and many others, Blue or Red Pill, I regret marrying the c~~~ and then hanging around out of some false sense of loyalty and duty.
But MGTOW did something miraculous. I stopped regretting breaking up with the true love unicorn of my life before I married the c~~~. Yes, the one I had full blown Oneitis with.
MGTOW made me stop day dreaming and fantasizing about the utopian life I would have had with her. I don’t think a month went by that I didn’t wish I was with her instead. My unicorn divorced the man she married and I always rationalized that he didn’t treat her right or wasn’t in love with her as much as I was.
MGTOW allowed me to look back with 20/20 and I remember how turbulent and testy she was. I always thought she was just irrational and overly emotional but I’ve learnt a name for her constantly challenging behavior,,,s~~~ testing! She was full of s~~~ testing.

I don’t regret marrying or hooking up with any woman now, especially in a post birth control/ social media world because any association with women is now dangerous, even Blue Pill men are starting to understand that now.

Since this is a thread for confessions.
Different story here, I gave up to a relationship with a girl from Cojuangco family. It could be a marriage, I could have a larger boat today, the first time she was a tourist, then she returned to my country other two times just to meet me.
I don’t care: I wasn’t really interested in her, and I was told that the future was bright and that there were a lot of opportunities, so I thought that I could become quite rich using just only my strenght.
I still did it right, given the knowledge I had at the time.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

The only people who claim to have no regrets are liars, fools, and perfect people. I think you’re like the rest of us.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

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