RedPillBoner

[RedPillBonerParticipant 541]

Hello everyone I am a new member and stumbled across MGTOW about a month ago and wish it was sooner. I am a 36 year old man that has devoted his life to taking care of other people and putting myself last. I can’t really remember when this all started but believe it was early in childhood die to the fact that my parents were drug users and worthless parents. I took care of my siblings, my parents and just continued from there.

I joined the military due to this and was gone at 18 years old. For years I felt the guilt of leaving as if it was somehow my responsibility to take care of my family, even as a child. I truly believe that mommy issues took hold early on because of this upbringing and caused my to have a different attitude about women in general.

I married pretty young at 21 years old to a woman that was still living with her parents even as she was a year older than I was. looking back that should have been the biggest red flag but I was so young and frankly loving the sex. Her parents are very religious and judgmental something that I am not nor will ever be. Needless to say that put large amounts of strain on the marriage early on but I always seemed to get “in line” and “go with the program”. I attended church, always visited her folks during holidays and pretty much always did what she wanted to do. She never worked except for an odd waitress job from time to time. She did finish college however with a worthless 4 year degree in psychology.

I don’t want to ramble too much but will continue this journal later. I just wanted to introduce myself and look forward to MGTOW support in moving forward with my life. Thanks,

RedPillBoner

[RedPillBonerParticipant 541]

I didn’t proof read and just typed away. My apologies.

[Anonymous 6]

Welcome aboard the ship. I am Venom. The beer is on ice, wings and pizza are on the table. This is Tower’s place so feel free to put your feet on the furniture.

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome aboard! we traded our sails for this kick ass diesel!

[Anonymous 6]

And my room in down the hall from yours, now if you hear any noises coming from there, it’s just the night cleaning maid.

[RedPillBonerParticipant 541]

Thanks guys for the warm welcome! So if I was to continue my story would it be best to continue on this thread or make a new one?

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Welcome to the site. Don’t worry about rambling, we love hearing from you new guys. I would say go ahead and continue your story on this thread. That way, those of us who subscribe to this thread will get email notifications when you have posted part 2.

[Anonymous 6]

Just make a new one. That way more people will see it. Try it tomorrow afternoon. I’ve noticed more people on here during that time. If you do it now, not that people are gonna comment on it. More comments equals more dialogue.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings RedPillBoner,

I thought I was reading my own story in much of your introduction:

“I married pretty young at 21 years old to a woman that was still living with her parents even as she was a year older than I was. Looking back that should have been the biggest red flag but I was so young and frankly loving the sex… pretty much always did what she wanted to do. She never worked except for an odd waitress job from time to time.”

Yup, me too.

Mine never lifted a finger to help, but provided lots of excuses. I can still hear the violins playing…
Boo f~~~ing who.

Sadly, I also helped her get training/ licenses for jobs and wrote her papers in college, but “she never applied herself.”

For a woman, school and/or a training program is just another place to get attention and accolades.

However, I disagree with you that a psychology degree is useless. Don’t let her off the hook that easy.

Psychology/ Counseling and Cognitive Therapy “is one of the few growth industries left in America.”

Note: That last bit is a common joke told by professional Psychologists while they are talking about their numerous frustrating clients who they often refer to as the “Nuts.”

Obama Care forced insurance companies to pay for an unlimited amount of counseling sessions for patients. Now insurance companies prefer counselors with minimal credentials and education. Councilors/ Psychologists who are inexperienced, unscrupulous, and inept go to the front of the line. The Ph.D.’s require too much pay and give the insurance companies a hard time when they use their crooked business practices.

“…my parents were ….. and worthless parents. I took care of my siblings…”

I got the same raw deal as a kid.

And I was the oldest of six.

You can probably understand why I’m so familiar with the world of “head shrinking.”

Here is something that reminds me of my old Blue Pill life:

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[RedPillBonerParticipant 541]

Thanks for the responses it feels good to have some support. I did the same Manipulated Man, put her through school a couple of times. With regards to the psychology degree, unless it is a masters degree you really can’t get into anything that pays half way decent. Either go the whole way or nothing at all in that field. I could be wrong though. The point is she had and still has zero ambition. The only reason she works now is because we are divorced and she has to. Completely worthless. Oh the f~~~er quote is totally me. Always trying to do the right thing and make everyone happy. I am done! Stick a fork in me. I am 36 years old and plan on living out the rest of my life for me! My children will always be a priority in my life because I love them so much but that’s as far as I will go with regards to large sacrifice. I have done enough for other people.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

My involvement with ACA helped me to live out the rest of my life for me and let go of the things I needed growing up which were not working in the present.

Here is the ACA web site:

http://www.adultchildren.org/

My folks are divorced and still alive.

Mom is as manipulative and crazy as ever. But as long as I avoid rescuing her and fixing her problems, we can have a few laughs together.

Dad was forced to stop drinking years ago because he got hepatitis. He never did any 12 step recovery work, so his behavior is f~~~ed up. As long as I don’t take any of his s~~~, we can enjoy hanging out and sometimes travel together.

Both of them have no savings because they are rescuing/ enabling the majority of siblings and grandchildren who are alcoholics/ drug addicts.

My middle brother is a Natural MGTOW for all of his life and he is doing the best out of all of us.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[darreljamesonParticipant 57]

My ex-wife was also living with her parents. You don’t know s~~~ about a woman til she moves in with you.

You don’t know s~~~ about a woman that lives with her parents…she pretends to be what she thinks they want. Just think: Daddy issues.

Never expect a woman to take care of herself or the home if she has not lived on her own. Period. and supported herself. Exclaf~~~ingmation point!

Before you say NAWALT, condemn those women publicly; it's like a signal flare to the good men you can't find. But. first...stop being THAT girl.

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