Redonkulas turns ridiculous

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Now I know Terrance Popp has a lot of fans here and I do like some of this videos, the best being where he “does” the math and demonstrates how bad a deal Traditional Marriage really is.

But here, he is being the very definition of a furious fool or a “busy idiot”. He goes over a long list manipulative tactics that he says can be used to “string her along” for years in order to put off a marriage. Working hard to achieve nothing or even hurt your own interests.

The dumbest one of all is letting her move in. What he neglects to mention is that moving a woman in is far easier than moving her out. In fact, most of the time it will be you moving out and losing some of your possessions. He doesn’t even mention how “Common Law Marriage” could easily snare some men in this situation.

I think he is forgetting the basics of MGTOW, as I see it.

First, by suggesting moving in as a viable option, he is forgetting the power of “no”. When you move her in, the best you can do is to preserve a small portion of this power, but at great expense. Too often the odds are in favor of you losing the power of “no.”

No thoughtful MGTOW ever gives up on the power of “no”. If you never move her in, you can dump her at will. And women often keep this in mind and at some level almost always understand the implications.

Why do you think women want to move in or marry in the first place ? For a sense of “security”. Or, in English, to keep you from having the power to stop any nonsense she has planned dead in its tracks. It gives her “security” by giving her power over you.

Second, why all the drama ? Let us cut out the crap, this kind of dishonest and manipulative “drama” was used in Soap Operas for a reason. Women love drama, and here you are, working your ass off to create a bunch of drama in your life. To hell with that ! If you want stupid, petty drama in your life, you don’t need to do anything- just move a woman into your home ! You’ll be up to your neck in drama.

What happens when a man plays a woman’s game ? Don’t kind yourself, “relations~~~” pop psychology head games and s~~~ tests are what they are raised to do. Take a look at the supermarket or on the web. There have been magazines and websites dedicated to teaching her this for as long as both have been around.

If you do all the things he has suggested, you will be a acting like a dramatic mangina, wasting your time and money on pretend fake wedding ring shopping and moving her into your home and entangling her into your life. This is a sign of weakness, and women smell that like a shark smells blood in the water.

Sucker !

What is the point ? What do you get out of this ?

The bad:

You move a step closer to getting married.
You make it harder to “dump the bitch now (DTBN)” if you need to.
You risk eroding, greatly endangering or totally losing the power of “no.”
You are instigating the drama now. Hope you don’t miss self-respect too much.
Acting like a mangina is just practice for becoming a mangina.

The good:

You might get laid. If you think it “will” get you laid, keep dreaming your Blue Pill dreams !

Women are not some rare commodity, but this is acting like it is. If something is as common as lead, then only a fool treats it like gold. If you want to get laid, your chances are better if you retain the power to say no and maintain your own autonomy.

If she cuts you off, you can dump her then and move on. No arguing, no having to move, no having to worry about having your possessions destroyed, lost or seized. No palimony or other costs.

It is less work to just pump and dump or go monk than it is to treat her pussy like it is the only one on Earth. We all know, there is plenty out there.

Some Tradcons will whine that I am being “unfair” to women and “using” them. This is a myth I will be glad to dig a grave for. Here is why that is completely wrong:

1: MGTOWs like me won’t lie. She won’t be “wasting her time” unless she chooses to.
2: She is not “entitled” to anything from me. I am not “entitled” to anything from her. Equality pure and simple.
3: What if she “gets bored”, falls “in love” with someone else, a “better man” comes along or whatever ? It doesn’t matter because she can leave me and move along whenever she wants. No moving out, logistics, court or any impedance because she retains that power.

See what happens when real “empowerment” and real “equality” are offered ? Streams of crocodile tears and screams of “oppression” !

MGTOW is KISS (Keep It Simple, Stupid !)

She doesn’t like it when you say marriage is off the table ? DTBN !
She doesn’t like it when you refuse to let her move in ? DTBN !
She doesn’t like it when you retain control over your life ? DTBN !
She wants you to give up the power of “no” and trust Family Court ? DTBN !

No ring, no kids, no playing house, no way.

Sovereignty and Dignity.

I will keep mine, thank you.

Frank V.

PS: The truly classy women in my life have thanked me for letting them move on when they wanted to. I’m not Buffalo Bill. Sorry for all the edits, bad connection.

[HitmanParticipant]

Once you allow her to move in you lost your sovereignty.
No.
Do not do it.
Big mistake.
You will regret it.
Say goodbye to freedom.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

IMO he’s just trying to appeal to a wider audience. It’s entertainment and not only his original thoughts on the issue. Try producing a weekly video only about how you think and you’ll run out of ideas sooner or later. Give him a break

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Allowing a woman to move in is a bad mistake.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

The word “No” is simple (and honest) rather than games/tactics to “string along” a woman.
If she asks to get married/move in/have a child/pay her bills, simply say “No”.
It is then HER CHOICE to continue the relationship, or to move on.
If she continues to ask, remind her “I said No. No means No”.
If she doesn’t like it, remind her that she can end the relationship any time she likes.
You are in control of your life choices, not her.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Russky wrote:

IMO he’s just trying to appeal to a wider audience. It’s entertainment and not only his original thoughts on the issue. Try producing a weekly video only about how you think and you’ll run out of ideas sooner or later. Give him a break

True, and I can appreciate that. I see your point.

But I don’t appreciate giving bad advice and spreading such a bad idea. He really should know better than this.

Would I run out of ideas at some point, I am sure I would. I will even admit my videos would not be as good as most of his in terms of quality and entertainment value.

But suggesting Blue Pill head games and giving mangina lessons is not an option. Teaching men to treat common lead like rare gold is out of the question.

Frank V.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

the best option is going monk, followed by using prostitutes once in a while.

lets face it, what do you get out of 15 minutes a week in a moist hole that you cant get every day out of a fleshlight?

An ego boost? F~~~ that, be reasonable, waisting your miney and your life for 15 minutes of vaginal friction a week IF YOU PLAY ALL YOUR CARDS RIGHT AND THE SUN AND THE PLANETS ARE IN PERFECT ALIGNEMENT????

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

There’s nobody I follow 100% including this guy. He’s trying to create shocking and controversial content. Stuff that will p~~~ed off women and create buzz. He wants clicks and views, subscribers, etc. If you’re going to YouTube videos for life advice, you should stop.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

It’s in men’s nature to be competitive and bring down other men for what they do.
That’s what Popp’s haters are doing – plain and simple.
You all need to rise above the hate and embrace his talent in the field.
We can’t have 100 TFMs spitting truth on youtube. Someone have to be Terrence Popp and try to reach the wider audience. Anyone who’s hating on them – succumbing to a cruel male nature to put down other men to get ahead. So predictable and annoying. Check your f~~~ing selves. Popp is a guy to celebrate, not dismiss. One thing I envy women for – is in-group bias. I wish we could have a comradery like that. But no – if someone’s out of line just a little bit – there you go – men will be happy to eat their own kin for nothing. F~~~ing shame if you asked me.
Despicable!
He’s not 100% MGTOW so he’s a traitor. Boo-hoo!
Listen to yourselves idiots!
/rant

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

I’ve never cared for this guy, but to each their own.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Terrence Popp has entertaining videos but letting a trollop move into my house is where I draw the line.
You are walking barefoot into hell if you let a trollop move into your home!

[OrlandoParticipant 833]

I don’t agree 100% with anyone. I think that is a good thing. I’ve found Popp’s videos to be helpful, and I wish him well.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Why would you want to string someone along anyway? Usually it takes a few weeks or maybe months for the shine to come off a new relationship but once it does, things are just going to get progressively worse, not better, no matter what you do.

If you can stave off a legal commitment until you get to the turning point, you’ll have enjoyed the best times that relationship has to offer and then it’s time to move on.

You’ll know it when you get there and once you get there, the only reason to stick around past your one post-mortem f~~~ would be fear. Move on. There’s nothing to string them along for.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Popp’s being influenced by his female audience.

[Author]

Posts