Reddit post on reasons not to get married

[Freeman98Participant 119]

Great post on Reddit MGTOW forum on reasons not to get married. A must read

Why I don’t want to get married? from MGTOW

[Anonymous 0]

Ironically, women and blue pulled men will never see it this way. Personally, it was one of those manpiphany moments when I realized that everything I had been taught was a lie. What the OP quoted is the truth of marriage. Women don’t want you to know that and if or when you find out they will find some reason to divorce rape you.

[SmeeParticipant 228]

Seeing it in black and white somehow doesn’t help.

The realisation that I already suspected all of it, but still went ahead and got married.

Am I really that stupid ?

Unfortunately, the answer is YES.

All you young blokes out there who read this will be thinking, it couldn’t happen to me – I KNOW YOU’RE THINKING THAT, I did.

The effective brainwashing that society does to you from birth is extremely difficult to overcome, but not impossible.

When you see the guy doing the act where he puts his hand in a crocodiles mouth, you’re thinking several things at once.
How stupid can he be, how brave is he to be so certain of his facts that he understands enough of the physics and biology of this creature he can do this with impunity, and I HOPE HE GETS BITTEN.

Whilst this may seem uncharitable, it is how we think as a species and an important point to ponder.

You see boys, it used to be that MEN watched other men get Bitten by marriage and laughed at what happened, our uncharitable nature.

For the first time in history, we are now being charitable and warning you of what is to come, no laughter, just empathy and compassion.

There will always be those who decide that they too can stick their hand in the crocodiles mouth, true risk takers – you make up your own mind about bravery and stupidity.

We are offering you the chance to show you’re god given intelligence – see what has happened repeatedly, learn the lesson and don’t make the mistake of putting your hand in a crocodiles mouth.

As someone tag line here basically states:-

A smart man learns from his mistakes.
A wise one learns from the mistakes of others.

Smee

Smee Again

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

I think this is a feminist bulls~~~ post. Look at the language — “I’m afraid of . . .”

Women are trying to paint men as “afraid” of marriage/strong women/etc. No, we’re just smart.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Lone Wolf83Participant 825]

When I was in school, I learned that prevention is the best treatment. If I don’t get married, I won’t go through a divorce.

If it has tits or tires, you know you're going to have problems.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Really great post… I have to let my 13-yr old read it and to reinforce my 19-yr old who is already red-pill.

I think a key point is that men should not give into their emotions regarding women. I’ve worked very hard for over half a year to wean myself off of feeling emotions… essentially desensitization training. Once you have no emotions of any kind towards women, they cannot exploit you.

Heck, my two girlfriends bring ME food. At this point, it is a net positive. If it goes negative and the sex diminished, then I won’t have an emotional conflict in letting them go, since I don’t have emotions anymore.

I don’t think most people can understand the amount of serenity and tranquility one can have without emotions. I would highly recommend it. I said before that I’ve trained myself to go from Asperger’s to sociopath, but because I got to that destination by a different route, I’m more of an ethical sociopath.

My version of a sociopath doesn’t mean I run around screwing other people over, acting without self-control, or aggressively. It means I’m tranquil and make decisions based on spreadsheets rather than emotions. Humorously, one of my girlfriends send me a link “before you make an emotional decision ask yourself these four questions” — ironic, because since I lack emotions now, I don’t make emotional decisions.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 0]

Ranger One wrote:

Once you have no emotions of any kind towards women, they cannot exploit you.

Sorry, but if they get pregnant, cry rape, or say you hit them, they sure can.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

to sum it up in one line.

the marriage contract is a terrible deal.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

I think this is a feminist bulls~~~ post. Look at the language — “I’m afraid of . . .”

Women are trying to paint men as “afraid” of marriage/strong women/etc. No, we’re just smart.

Starting every sentence with the same couple of words just adds emphasis. Speech writers do it all the time. That said, the “I’m afraid” should come off of the start of each paragraph because it makes it sound like it might not happen. IT WILL. The writer just described marriage to a T.

Reminds me of a Louis CK bit: Divorce is forever. Marriage is for how long you can hack it.

Order the good wine

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

All great points by the Reddit OP. I would add that since I have NEVER met a woman I could fully trust, that is the main reason I’ll never get married. I have also never had the thought of “This could be the one” either.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Excellent post! Thanks for sharing.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Freeman98Participant 119]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

I think this is a feminist bulls~~~ post. Look at the language — “I’m afraid of . . .”

Women are trying to paint men as “afraid” of marriage/strong women/etc. No, we’re just smart.

It’s not a bulls~~~ post. It’s on Reddit in the MGTOW forum. I don’t get where you think it’s bulls~~~. Sounds spot on to me

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

I see no need to consider the ball and chain .. life is in cruise control right now and I’m virtually motoring along Route 66 with my life; 85 mph with nothing in rear view mirror.. the engine is purring and these V rated tires could go oh so much faster if I ever desire. That’s a good feeling to under drive my tires.
If I get hungry I’ll stop at roadside cafe which flashing neon sign that blinks “Good Food” these greasy spoons sling the best tasting hash. If I get tired, I’ll stop at the “Rest Well” motel and watch some tv on the old set and maybe put a quarter into the vibrating bed. Why do I need marriage in my current life or future?
If I ever need companionship, which I currently don’t, I can always take a side trip through Vegas and catch a ‘show’. Would I even consider messing this up? Traveling along this highway is so much more enjoyable with a few hard earned coins in my pocket and no soon to be post wall co-pilot sitting next to me and nagging the entire trip.
Take heed and take care. We don’t know just how good we’ve got it until it’s gone. Just think of all the guys in this world who would change places with us in an instant .. and ride the south western highways free of that millstone called marriage. Stay free my friends, live good .. we’ve got it all!

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Sums it up nicely. I have a couple friends who are living that to a tee. Misery

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

I get it. “I’m afraid” may not sound very manly. But you’re F~~~ING STUPID if marriage doesn’t scare the s~~~ out of you. What man in his right mind wouldn’t be terrified of a life of slavery, which can only end in you losing everything?

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Marriage is just a raw deal. The system is rigged, the table is tilted and only a few men care. This would be the MRA of course. We MGTOWs just say it f~~~ it all together, and don’t even care to take a seat at this crooked ass table.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I’m not afraid to be afraid.

If that’s fear, I’m in. My shields are up and they are very very thick. NFG

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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