Red pill rage, round 2

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Though I had thought I had reached a kind of peaceful state regarding my journey, and people in general, I have degraded back to full on rage.

People, especially the blue pill simps and also in general anyone expressing any stupidity, have prompted me to return to full on rage again. Not sure if a standard phase or just that I am so sick and disgusted with work, regular society, etc.

I am angry most days, most of the time, and stress is getting to me. Want to smack a lot of people most of the time, and have truly slipped into a ‘f the world’ mentality, similar to that of our member, Carnage.

I don’t enjoy this and want to get past it to acceptance, some semblance of peace and the occasional happy spot again… am I losing it or is this part of the regular progression?

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Is the “rage” benefiting you in some way Gerald?
Just take that into consideration.
Sometimes the anger is just reinforcement of your original decision to disengage.
For me, having to deal with the stupidity, laziness, ignorance, idiocy, of most people is a trigger as well. However I just try to discern who is it really affecting, me or them, and whether I will allow the outside snapperheads any headspace for any length of time.
Mostly I can leave the fecal matter of “society” that I encounter, outside of my door once I get “home”.

I have a silly little ceremony that I unconsciously do when I get to my door.
I wipe my shoes off at my door symbolically scraping the “world” off my feet, each and every time I enter my sanctuary.

Maybe something like that will help you through the day?

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Some stuff that helps me.

“It is plain to see that a life which includes deep resentment leads only to futility and unhappiness. To the precise extent that we permit these, do we squander the hours that might have been worth while… we had to be free of anger, the dubious luxury of normal men, but for us, it is poison.” pg. 66 of The Big Book of Alcoholic Anonymous.

Let them off the hook! <- just repeat that in your mind, every time the frustration and rage comes. Better yet, let yourself off the hook since the resentment is eating at us, not them. God save me from being angry.

Speak when you’re angry and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret – Lawrence Peters (1919-1988) Taken from Dec 12 of Beyond Belief: Agnostic Musings for the 12 Step Life. Brains work overtime when we are emotional, so lets take advantage of our heightened awareness for more useful purposes. Redirect the useful anger.

The haste and anger of acting out on things Im ‘upset’ about has put me back DECADES in my life. There is nothing unnatural or bad about feeling rage and anger. ACTING ON THEM is where the problems arise.

Lately I have been reminding myself of the 3 filter rule. Before I open my mouth or act:
1. Is it true?
2. Does it need to be said?
3. Does it need to be said by me?

Often, atleast one of those is NO so Im supposed to shut up. LOL. Easier said than done.

I also keep a keen eye on the acronym HALT. (hungry, angry, lonely, tired) Often the issue isnt the way that bitch parked in the loading zone again, nor the sales drought affecting my finances… its simply that I didnt eat breakfast, or that Im overworked, or that I need to cool down my temper…

ALWAYS WATCH OUT FOR FEAR TOO. Im constantly in FEAR that I wont get what I want or what I think I deserve. FEAR, arising in a 100 different forms… its very linked to anger.

Be well Gerald and may you find soothing ease of mind today, and methods for staying in that goldilocks zone. When it comes to pining for a woman and female affection/comfort. I know what you mean. Unfortunately its bound to create very bad things. Its really too bad but at least we have TOOLS we can use to stay focused and serene.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

Yes, I think it is a normal part of the journey. I was sooo red-pilled and angry all the time after divorce.

It was like a fire that would burn down to embers but something would reignite it again.

You do have to be proactive. Find ways to develop a NFG attitude. Find humor in the stupidity instead of getting mad about it. Start focusing on yourself, self improvement and doing stuff you enjoy. Look for good stuff in your life instead of only seeing bad.

Ultimately it is an attitude change that comes from within.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Finding out about “The Red Pill” is much like losing a loved one or some other facet of grief. The problem is the sudden change. First, psychology tells us we go through “stages” of healing/enduring. The first is always shock & denial. Second comes anger/rage,…. and this is the toughest part. A lot of ppl turn to drugs & Alcohol to help them cope, but the safest way to accomplish transition is through sheer self-will. (Kudos to ppl who have found this to be the ONLY way).
IF you ever get through the anger/rage phase, then comes the bargaining,depression,lonliness phase in which as your self-will takes charge,your doubts of success arise. “AM I EVER GOING TO BE HAPPY AGAIN??” This phase can make ppl relapse back to the anger phase.
At this poiint most ppl quit whatever it is they are trying to conquer and wind up back where they came from or stuck in some phase they never quite got past.
THE BEST PART IS……
When/if you ever get over these two hurdles; you begin to mend and rebuild. Life gets better with each day. You realize that what you believed in was valid. There is HOPE. With this re-assurance you begin to build what it is you had in mind. The “reconstruction” period is positive,it builds good for your life and makes no time for things unwanted. You actually feel happy, and you have reached part by conquering everything that was in the path to your ultimate success. Now the path is clear; and it is all YOURS. Noone can take it way from you unless you yield to those things that ARE unacceptable in YOUR new life.
Once you acheive this;it gets easier and easier to shrug off all that which is unpleasant/negative in your life.
Hence: SELF_ACTUALIZATION.
…….. and I can honestly tell you: It IS the GREATEST Feeling in the World!!
There are a few here who have what I have posted above,(besides myself),I won’t “name” names.

Here is something that helps:
DON’T EVER GIVE UP !
NEVER…….
EVER…..
EVER!………….
Those that want to see you fail,…. WANT you to give up.
NEVER, EVER EVER GIVE UP !!
never!……
ever…….EVER!

if YOU GIVE UP;….. you FAIL
AND YOU LOSE

THEY/IT….. WINS!

It’s a zero-sum game… and the winner takes all!
NEVER GIVE UP
EVER !

“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.”
– Arnold Schwarzenegger

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

It is always difficult to deal with stupidity. Especially stupidity that believes itself right and is always in your face.

[HermitParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

It is always difficult to deal with stupidity. Especially stupidity that believes itself right and is always in your face.

Stupidity is very irritating. I often have to remind myself to just walk away and ignore the stupid ones. Makes life so much easier when you do not engage.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

Gerald wrote:

Though I had thought I had reached a kind of peaceful state regarding my journey, and people in general, I have degraded back to full on rage.
People, especially the blue pill simps and also in general anyone expressing any stupidity, have prompted me to return to full on rage again. Not sure if a standard phase or just that I am so sick and disgusted with work, regular society, etc.
I am angry most days, most of the time, and stress is getting to me. Want to smack a lot of people most of the time, and have truly slipped into a ‘f the world’ mentality, similar to that of our member, Carnage.
I don’t enjoy this and want to get past it to acceptance, some semblance of peace and the occasional happy spot again… am I losing it or is this part of the regular progression?

Emotions can sometimes be difficult to control, but even when you’re unexpectedly triggered, it is still up to you to get control of your emotions. We all sometimes let things get to us, but I try to quickly recognize that I’m allowing others to control me through my emotions and I don’t like to be controlled by anyone, especially stupid people.

I’m constantly working on myself, but I’ve learned that it’s so much better to keep my mouth shut and not respond to the idiots. It drives them crazy when they can’t get a rise out of me. I’ve separated myself from everyone mentally and emotionally and built a NFG wall around me. Most of the time, when I remember to control myself, I just smile, shake my head and walk away. Other times, I’ll just stand there silently and that makes the dumb fukkers uncomfortable.

Give them no control over you. Be in control of your emotions. Be happy. No matter what comes at me through the day whether at work, on the road, at the store…..I keep telling myself that later on, I’ll be going home alone to the solitude of my sanctuary and I’m going to be happy and forget about all the stupid people out there.

They can’t touch me. I am armored with NFG. Yeah, once in a while I forget to not give a fukk, but then I get my mind right and put my NFG shields back up and they can’t get through. It’s a wonderful feeling to be able to smile and continue being happy when someone is trying to get under my skin.

They are insects and worms and I am a god.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5065]

The three worst places for people for me: Factories, Gym’s, and Pubs/Clubs.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Gerald wrote:

Though I had thought I had reached a kind of peaceful state regarding my journey, and people in general, I have degraded back to full on rage.
People, especially the blue pill simps and also in general anyone expressing any stupidity, have prompted me to return to full on rage again. Not sure if a standard phase or just that I am so sick and disgusted with work, regular society, etc.
I am angry most days, most of the time, and stress is getting to me. Want to smack a lot of people most of the time, and have truly slipped into a ‘f the world’ mentality, similar to that of our member, Carnage.
I don’t enjoy this and want to get past it to acceptance, some semblance of peace and the occasional happy spot again… am I losing it or is this part of the regular progression?

Well people have emotions, and they fluctuate. Maybe take a look at the times when you’ve felt this way and see if you can find some things that may contribute to your mood. Not getting exercise, having some stressful events going on, not having normal outlets for getting energy out, too much sugar, not enough fats and protein, or b vitamins which affect emotions and depression, not enough daylight, this kind of stuff. You may find some common things that affect mood swings in you.

Just remember don’t make quick and major decisions when you know you are feeling this way. Our best decisions do not come when we are basing them on emotion.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[MonkParticipant 16975]

I try to see them as nothing (which is what they are, but when you have their stupidity rammed in your face at every moment, it ain’t easy).

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I live with the one who set my red pill rage free. To her I’m a loving sweet man. Nobody needs to know what you’re experiencing/seeing.

This is just another wave of awareness, do what you need to let it pass and find your best version of you.

Nothing else matters.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Peace and Contentment comes and goes….

Red Pill Rage comes and goes…..

IMHO, the Best that we can do is to try and make the periods of Peace and Contentment Last Longer in between the bouts of Red Pill Rage….Maybe, with enough TIME we can learn to minimize the Rage, but I’m not sure if it ever completely goes away????

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

Hermit wrote:

Faust For Science wrote:

It is always difficult to deal with stupidity. Especially stupidity that believes itself right and is always in your face.

Stupidity is very irritating. I often have to remind myself to just walk away and ignore the stupid ones. Makes life so much easier when you do not engage.

I agree. That is no point into talking to idiots whom would not understand the dynamics of what one states. Especially the educated idiots that mistake book knowledge for the wisdom that life experiences brings.

[ironheartParticipant 942]

Gerald wrote:

Though I had thought I had reached a kind of peaceful state regarding my journey, and people in general, I have degraded back to full on rage.

People, especially the blue pill simps and also in general anyone expressing any stupidity, have prompted me to return to full on rage again. Not sure if a standard phase or just that I am so sick and disgusted with work, regular society, etc.
I am angry most days, most of the time, and stress is getting to me. Want to smack a lot of people most of the time, and have truly slipped into a ‘f the world’ mentality, similar to that of our member, Carnage.

I don’t enjoy this and want to get past it to acceptance, some semblance of peace and the occasional happy spot again… am I losing it or is this part of the regular progression?

I feel it as well. It can sit for months with no re-occurrence. Then I have to deal with some stupid, moronic, left-wing (90 of the time a woman femtard) and it comes back like a flash-flood. It is not a comfortable feeling, and in my case there is no escape from it.

Simps are everywhere. Where there was once a few, they are now in every shop, mall, workplace, school, and even restaurants. Always white-knighting over s~~~ that any normal man would know is a child’s logic. Always a victim statement. Always a man and the evil patriarchy to blame. Always a dump-truck full of woman-splaining feces.

Just know that our world with these kinds of people are separating. It is a slow and painful process. They are the intolerant ones. They are children. They should not be allowed to vote or be heard, just like with children.

Make a plan to escape it. Start looking for other places in the world not ruled by stupid. They exist, just not in your immediate life circle.

Then when the time comes — move on. 😐

"Women have become so full of hatred that they are blind to reason and humanity. That which they practice will be the end of humanity, long before any war that men may fight.." "Women are predators by nature. Why else do you think they are so quick to gang up and go after a man they hate for showing any sign of weakness?"

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Gerald wrote:

Though I had thought I had reached a kind of peaceful state regarding my journey, and people in general, I have degraded back to full on rage.
People, especially the blue pill simps and also in general anyone expressing any stupidity, have prompted me to return to full on rage again. Not sure if a standard phase or just that I am so sick and disgusted with work, regular society, etc.
I am angry most days, most of the time, and stress is getting to me. Want to smack a lot of people most of the time, and have truly slipped into a ‘f the world’ mentality, similar to that of our member, Carnage.
I don’t enjoy this and want to get past it to acceptance, some semblance of peace and the occasional happy spot again… am I losing it or is this part of the regular progression?

I get that you dont always feel this intense about it. I would say when you do, first thing is if you can remove yourself from them/the situation, do so. Lots of times we are dealing with others that just do not deserve your responses, it’s probably a futile effort. Just recognize it/they aren’t worth the time, or the situation just isn’t important, and separate from the drama. Unnecessary drama and bullshiite cluttering up our lives, taking up our precious time. Don’t waste a second on trivial crap if you can avoid doing so.

Maybe sometimes you can’t get out/away from whatever. Consider it a test of your patience and character. Don’t try to escalate, try to end it and then get out/away.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Escape from the bitch without paying too high a price is the best you can hope for in our current culture. It should make you angry. Means your normal.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Gerald wrote:

I don’t enjoy this and want to get past it to acceptance,

Fu​ck acceptance. Nothing about it is acceptable.

Don’t accept it. Instead, stop giving any fu​cks about it.

Once you no longer expect anything of the world, whatever the world expects of you is irrelevant.

[bladeParticipant]

Take a day for yourself and go where there is no people and have a break in nature . No phone or electronics .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Grumpy wrote:

I wipe my shoes off at my door symbolically scraping the “world” off my feet, each and every time I enter my sanctuary.

Gerald, even Jesus got enraged. Jesus said when you meet fvcktards, leave ’em and kick the dust of your feet. I am amazed how red-pilled Jesus was. Guy was King MGTOW – that was his WHOLE philosophy. And everytime some girl came about him, he was like, chick stop being a damn whore and leave me alone. Go and sin no more.

Steward Wilde says to take the negative person in your fist, open your hand, and blow! *Poof* they will be gone. Same type of ritual. It seems to work for me. Casting such spells does make me nervous, actually.

Colin Combover in a Coma wrote:

The three worst places for people for me: Factories, Gym’s, and Pubs/Clubs.

And Sam’s Club. Gotta meditate before entering Sam’s Club. The People of Walmart all got Sam’s Club memberships now, because they figured out Sam’s gives it all back to you in rewards. They need to raise the membership fee to $1000. I’ll pay it, just to be away from those fvcktards.

By the way, if you’re in a rage right now, do NOT research pizzagate.

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