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Hi guys, haven’t written anything in quite a while, but you can be certain I’ve been lurking regularly.
I’m mostly over the red pill rage, but still there are some things that get to me. One of them will be written in this thread.
As you may or may not know, my journey with MGTOW began with my mother divorcing my father and consequential issues stemming from it – mainly my mothers and sisters despicable behaviour (in conjunction to third party women) after which I started seeking some answers and stumbled upon MGTOW. Currently I am working as a programmer and despite still having a couple of years to go to 30 I’m in the top 10-15% of money earned in my country. I have my ambitions and goals I set out to achieve.
Enough of who I am, the story:
My mother started divorcing my father around 3-4 years ago, I do not bother to remember the exact date. The reason stated by her was “supposed” betrayal. I’m writing supposed in quotations, because there was zero evidence and when I inquired to hear the statement from the person in question (the one passing on the information about betrayal), my mother set a condition of “listen and believe”. To which I, being a logical, sceptical person with a strong sense of justice, could never in my life agree to. Before divorce my parents were already living for 10 years “apart but together”, meaning my father was working in another city and only coming back for the weekends (economically forced – way higher pay than possible in our city), to my mother (government hospital work, set in place) who was becoming more and more of a c~~~ with each passing day and who treated him like a repulsive ATM machine. Have to say here, that lack of a father those 4-5 days a week for such a long time plus him himself allowing to become a tool of my mothers proxy violence resulted in huge distancing from my father, like – “do I even know that guy? who does he think he is?”. That changed when I got forced by my parents to live with my father in the big city (was going to an university), earlier mentioned, over the years I got to know, that he is just a regular guy (hella blue pill though). My sister went to yet another city to study and remained in contact mainly with my mother (while getting money from my father up till a year ago). Back to the divorce, since 3-4 years there was a constant struggle in courts for assets division, which finally came to an end. In this time my mother has been destroying or throwing out things belonging to my father, just a regular female hatred stuff, nothing worth mentioning. A couple months ago my father took a bank loan, to pay off my mothers “share” – 50% of supposed house value. Even after paying her she was continuing to unlawfully live in the house and rack up high bills for gas and electricity, which caused yet another case to be brought into court, this time by my father. To this case later was also joined the matter of my mother stealing some of the house equipment (mainly big TV) despite not having rights to it as ruled in court.
You know what she and my sister did?
My mother claimed that in the period, the TV disappeared from my fathers house, she was on the pilgrimage and thus it couldn’t have been her. She claimed that my sister was home at that time. My father spoke to my sister about that and she said she knew about what my mother said, leaving my father with a case that could possibly result in my sister being found guilty and convicted for theft (which in case of an accountant isn’t a good life prospect). All of that directed by my mother who claims to be a believing catholic.
Essentialy, they emotionally blackmailed him with the love for his daughter, to get just a few more resources out and pass a few high, spiteful bills they generated to him without any consequences.
I got both, angry as hell at them and glad as f~~~ I broke off any contact I had with them few years ago. For the sake of my mental health, I can’t have spiteful, evil people present in my life, whether I am connected to them by blood or not.
I might have put in some unnecessary information. I hope I didn’t tangle the story too much and gave enough background insight for you to understand the situation.
Your fathers tale and the emotional blackmail is usual, there are thousands of women stopping good fathers seeing their own children, using a child in that manner is child abuse simple as that.
Look on the positive side you have seen at a young age what women think of men and how they use them, go and have a great life.
I have no words for you. To experience that type of behaviour from your own family….
Didn’t she for once think that you guys were one family?
And our politicians and infamous femae leaders talk about ‘preserving family values’
I am so sorry; for as much as I try, I cannot imagine to be in a situation like yours. My father passed away when I was like 10 months old.. now I’m 20 and now-and-then my mother still says “My life was ruined the day I married your father” <- this is red pill for us, gentlemen. Swallow it hard and swallow it good. Thank you for sharing your story.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
Well, I’m happy that I got to know of female nature this early, my dad is kinda sad, because he’d love some grandchildren, but oh well, his wants are not my life determining factors.
Can hardly call myself a child, I was in my 20s already when my parents started the divorce and my sister is 1 year older than me. I can’t think of myself or my sister being used, we are too old to shove responsibility for, in the end, our decisions under the rug.
In all honesty I knew my mother perhaps has some mental issues, because I can’t believe just how much hate she condenses in herself, but I got mad more at my sister. Here is a guy who raised you, paid for everything you needed in life, supported you even though you were not a child anymore and you willfully stab him in the back. I mean he never even hurt her. I’ve had a few scuffles with my own father, but she was never a subject to it, the moment she started crying all responsibility for errors and wrongdoings was gone.
And to this guy who raised you and paid for 22-24 years of your life not asking for anything back, never hurt you, you shove a knife in the back because your mother suddenly decided she’s not happy and that he’s the bad guy?!
I have less than zero respect for such people. Absolute contempt. And the saddest thing of it all is that most if not all women are like that. I’m not even bothering with relationships or one night stands, but even if you have female friends, you can be 100% sure, that the moment stabbing you in the back becomes beneficial to them, they will.
That’s why I put my trust only in my male friends, I know I can trust those guys and I make sure, they know they can trust me. As far as my female friends go, I wouldn’t even borrow them small amounts of money.
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