Hi guys, haven’t written anything in quite a while, but you can be certain I’ve been lurking regularly.
I’m mostly over the red pill rage, but still there are some things that get to me. One of them will be written in this thread.
As you may or may not know, my journey with MGTOW began with my mother divorcing my father and consequential issues stemming from it – mainly my mothers and sisters despicable behaviour (in conjunction to third party women) after which I started seeking some answers and stumbled upon MGTOW. Currently I am working as a programmer and despite still having a couple of years to go to 30 I’m in the top 10-15% of money earned in my country. I have my ambitions and goals I set out to achieve.
Enough of who I am, the story:
My mother started divorcing my father around 3-4 years ago, I do not bother to remember the exact date. The reason stated by her was “supposed” betrayal. I’m writing supposed in quotations, because there was zero evidence and when I inquired to hear the statement from the person in question (the one passing on the information about betrayal), my mother set a condition of “listen and believe”. To which I, being a logical, sceptical person with a strong sense of justice, could never in my life agree to. Before divorce my parents were already living for 10 years “apart but together”, meaning my father was working in another city and only coming back for the weekends (economically forced – way higher pay than possible in our city), to my mother (government hospital work, set in place) who was becoming more and more of a c~~~ with each passing day and who treated him like a repulsive ATM machine. Have to say here, that lack of a father those 4-5 days a week for such a long time plus him himself allowing to become a tool of my mothers proxy violence resulted in huge distancing from my father, like – “do I even know that guy? who does he think he is?”. That changed when I got forced by my parents to live with my father in the big city (was going to an university), earlier mentioned, over the years I got to know, that he is just a regular guy (hella blue pill though). My sister went to yet another city to study and remained in contact mainly with my mother (while getting money from my father up till a year ago). Back to the divorce, since 3-4 years there was a constant struggle in courts for assets division, which finally came to an end. In this time my mother has been destroying or throwing out things belonging to my father, just a regular female hatred stuff, nothing worth mentioning. A couple months ago my father took a bank loan, to pay off my mothers “share” – 50% of supposed house value. Even after paying her she was continuing to unlawfully live in the house and rack up high bills for gas and electricity, which caused yet another case to be brought into court, this time by my father. To this case later was also joined the matter of my mother stealing some of the house equipment (mainly big TV) despite not having rights to it as ruled in court.
You know what she and my sister did?
My mother claimed that in the period, the TV disappeared from my fathers house, she was on the pilgrimage and thus it couldn’t have been her. She claimed that my sister was home at that time. My father spoke to my sister about that and she said she knew about what my mother said, leaving my father with a case that could possibly result in my sister being found guilty and convicted for theft (which in case of an accountant isn’t a good life prospect). All of that directed by my mother who claims to be a believing catholic.
Essentialy, they emotionally blackmailed him with the love for his daughter, to get just a few more resources out and pass a few high, spiteful bills they generated to him without any consequences.
I got both, angry as hell at them and glad as f~~~ I broke off any contact I had with them few years ago. For the sake of my mental health, I can’t have spiteful, evil people present in my life, whether I am connected to them by blood or not.
I might have put in some unnecessary information. I hope I didn’t tangle the story too much and gave enough background insight for you to understand the situation.
