Red pill, better late then never?

[JackofswordsParticipant 31]

Hi everyone,
I am a 30+ year old married (sigh) with 3 kids. I literally stumbled unto the red pill and MGTOW after watching Cassie Jaye’s “The red pill” and another absurd YouTube video of a woman driving and ranting about something called MGTOW. I suppose I am filled more with red pill confusion then rage, though I see how that could easily change. I have no delusions as to going my own way as long as I am married but it does seem like I am getting my way more then I am used to. I am currently a stay at home dad which will change in about a year once the kids are all eligible for daycare, though I must admit homeschooling them has a certain appeal. Any feedback would be appreciated and for those who took the time to read this far, I give thee thanks!

"What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power. You fear your anger, the drive to do great or terrible things."

[joetechParticipant]

There’s nothing wrong with already being married. Many of us have already done that and your mileage may vary. My second wife was somewhat red pilled, but she still baled on me. Welcome to the forum. I’m sure we’re all looking forward to your posts.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Jackofswords wrote:

I am a 30+ year old married (sigh) with 3 kids

I am sorry sir.

Jackofswords wrote:

another absurd YouTube video of a woman driving and ranting about something called MGTOW

Absurd is the correct word for that woman.

Welcome to the forums and good luck.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

joetech wrote:

your mileage may vary

LOL

[MonkParticipant 16977]

At least you now know the score. You can be on your guard and take precautions.

[Anonymous 18]

Red pill knowledge can provide you with a safety net when/if your married life goes south.

Based on you being a stay at home dad the odds of your woman doing something to violate the sanctity of your marriage are not favorable to you.

You can only hope for the best.

And there is no going your own way while you are married. You can certainly swing the pendulum to a more balanced position but life won’t be lived on your terms.

Nothing wrong with that either.

Reading about MGTOW and red pill knowledge (far removed from the Pua/how to pick women for sex) is a good thing.

I would suggest that you read Rollo Tomassi’s blog posts on therationalmale dot com.

Again learn and if (as in worst case scenario) you catch your wife in an affair or she serves you with divorce papers from the blue – you’d have a mental framework to maneuver around the suicidal tendencies men face in such times.

Best wishes.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome !
dig in here and you will find so many answers..
even to question’s you don’t realize you have !
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never too late ,
glad you found your way here !

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Watch your back sir.
Welcome home jack.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Welcome Jack.

The key thing is you recognise, or are at least beginning to, the reality of marriage.
As iLearn says, you have the mental framework to deal with issues, should they arise, and to make decisions based on YOUR requirements (and your kids).

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings JOS.

Your path on the MGTOW Road seems impossible now but there are ways of getting through it.

You did good by signing up here at MGTOW.com

The knowledge/ wisdom here will help you to open your eyes more to the real world and have some better ideas of what you’re dealing with.
And you are not alone.

Home Schooling my son was eventually the only option for me. It is also known as “Unschooling.”

A lot of educators have written about the dangers of our current educational system.

My favorite material that I have enjoyed about Home Schooling is from a man. His name is John Holt (not John Gault):

http://www.johnholtgws.com/

Here are some quotes from John Holt’s reply to Dr. Jerome Bruner’s letter to the NY Review of Books:

“The proper business of the intellectual is to:
Make complicated ideas more simple, not simple ideas more complicated;
Make the real world more comprehensible, not less so.”

Alas, most of the Home School support groups and conferences are dominated by women.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 43]

I was a stay at home dad for 11 years with 2 kids.

welcome, brother.

lol one of the few arguments I ever won was switching the $400 diaper bag the c~~~ won at her baby shower for a $9 backpack. No f~~~ing way am I parading around with that s~~~.

Y’all understand that MGTOW is totally incompatible for married life?
Also understand that after 10 years of marriage, you get part of her Social Security when she retires.
I made it to 10 years 7 months.

I was on the go back to college when the kids are in school plan, and got pushed back when the second child came along. Do yourself a favor, cut her off.

Child support is based on percentage of income…my state, I think 3 kids is 35% of gross. Be careful brother. You are in a dangerous place. Hypergamy among the working women is rampant. When you feel like an employee, it’s over amigo.

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Jack – good to have you here. I worry about you. Out of all the newbies joining I have a weird vibe or premonition of the ghost of Christmases yet to come.

Please be on the watch and lookout for anything that may be awry.

I don’t mean to sound like a naysayer, but you are in a dangerous place.

Familiarize yourself with divorce laws in your state and be watchful for any wrong doings of the wife. Does she guard her phone like a hawk? Does she take a lot of business trips or run errands out of the blue.

I hope I’m wrong.

CR

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

First of all, welcome!

Second, if you are married and have registered on MGTOW, things can’t be going too well. Perhaps, you’ve been contemplating divorce, but are afraid to take the next step and want to talk to knowledgeable men about it. If so, feel free to ask.

“It does seem like I am getting my way more than I am used to.”

Who are you trying to convince, yourself, or the readers? I doubt you’ll convince anyone here, especially using the phrase, “used to.” I was in a similar situation. I was used to rarely getting my way. I was allowed little to no fishing, sports, hunting, and no going out with the guys. I was a simpering little ‘yes, dear’. Our marriage counselor, a guy, called her out on it when I brought it up. Damn, did that p~~~ her off. She was fine treating me like a doormat in private, but exposed to the light of day, she was forced to admit how controlling she was and that she was wrong to do it.

If you are fine getting more than what you are used to, then enjoy it while it lasts. However, that turn of phrase speaks to me that the pendulum will swing the other way one day and you will get less than what you are used to.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[JackofswordsParticipant 31]

Thank you all for the welcome, advice and tips!
Looking forward to our shared discussions and experiencing all that this site and the men here have to offer!

"What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power. You fear your anger, the drive to do great or terrible things."

[AttonParticipant]

I am currently a stay at home dad

Being the home maker does provide you with a fair bit of protection if push comes to shove. You might also live longer I dare say have done better than a great many men.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[LEO THE WISEParticipant 249]

Screwed, but redemption is still possible.

Hope you will be able to endure.

Leo the wise : Giving to all men their needed uprise My MGTOW YOUTUBE channel, first vid : https://youtu.be/Xt-tJgVUGuI

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome
There is plenty of redpill knowledge than can help you in a marriage if you choose to stay in it.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[ConstantineParticipant 4416]

Welcome Jackofswords. We don’t mind that you’re married as long as you’re not taking any s~~~ from her. Keep us in the loop and enjoy your stay 🙂

Jackofswords wrote:

I literally stumbled unto the red pill and MGTOW after watching Cassie Jaye’s “The red pill” and another absurd YouTube video of a woman driving and ranting about something called MGTOW.

I found out about MGTOW on an Imdb message board. And now, of course, those things have been closed down. Lost a damn window of advertising. I may have taken far longer to find the site if I hadn’t taken part in that film discussion.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[.50calParticipant 62]

I didn’t see much complaining about your current marriage so hopefully that works out for you. But as someone else said you should just be on your toes about any BS and never roll over when you have an issue with something that smells shady in any way.

So then, he who marries the virgin does well, but he who does not marry her does even better. 1 Corinthians 7:38

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