Red Flags.

[Sam FisherParticipant 206]

So,

Long story short, some chick hit me up on Facebook, known her for a couple of years but never bothered to talk to her much. We go on a date, “hell” I thought “if it leads to sex, cool, but I have to determine if she’s worth a microsecond of my time to pursue it tonight, and tonight only”. So she seems real accommodating, you know, suggesting we go to a favorite place of mine (surprise surprise, Chameleon, anybody?). I was cool at first, but what we were talking about (I forgot exactly, it was a blur) and how we were talking about it set me off in an uneasy way. I sensed desperation from her part, and that s~~~ scared me. By this point, I went into Bill Burr mode and thought “F~~~ IT!”, so I thought I’d drop a s~~~ test of my own and said that relationships, marriage, and kids isn’t for me. Her reaction was… it was hard to explain, it was sort of like shock, but not so obvious. More and more red flags popped up until I said “I have to go now” and we called it a day. Looking further into it, turns out she had a thing with a guy (mind you, this bloke is blue pill as f~~~ and has a lot of baggage) she recently fell head over heels for – talk about monkey branching. Thought I was an easy target, but I’m more alert to the warning signs of women now. It may have cost me sex, but while that’s fun and everything, it really isn’t worth putting much effort for, nor putting myself in harm’s way.

Now has anyone here got any stories about you picking up bad vibes from a chick on a date they’d like to share?

P.S. for those who remember my Tinder thread, I ended up informing my friend some time ago. He took it well, but now it’s on him to make the right move.

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

Sam Fisher wrote:

Did it turn out that you dodged a bullet? Or was it a case of paranoia?

Umm, not to rain on the logic of your post. (I did read the whole thing.)

Ultimately, who really gives a s~~~ if it’s paranoia?  If you thought it was a bullet wouldn’t you dodge every f~~~ing time?
This is a dangerous thread because it will set MGTOWs into a false sense of security because this is “something they’ve seen before” in a thread. Then BAM. Bullet to the face.

My two cents. Always assume it’s a f~~~ing bullet. Then you won’t be sorry.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Sam Fisher wrote:

Or was it a case of paranoia?

It’s never paranoia.

Because All Women Are Like That.  All of them.

[Sam FisherParticipant 206]

Exsliventxs wrote:

Sam Fisher wrote:

Did it turn out that you dodged a bullet? Or was it a case of paranoia?

Umm, not to rain on the logic of your post. (I did read the whole thing.)

Ultimately, who really gives a s~~~ if it’s paranoia? If you thought it was a bullet wouldn’t you dodge every f~~~ing time?
This is a dangerous thread because it will set MGTOWs into a false sense of security because this is “something they’ve seen before” in a thread. Then BAM. Bullet to the face.

My two cents. Always assume it’s a f~~~ing bullet. Then you won’t be sorry.

I’ve hopefully changed the direction of the thread to make it more focused on the experience of catching red flags during dates, or any encounter with women, really. I’m just interested in hearing other people’s stories, as this particular account was the first time I ever had this happen to me.

But yeah, any stories feel free to share. +10 points if you said anything offensive or funny to set her off and close the deal.

[Anonymous 27]

Should of just f~~~ed her in all possible ways (with a dome), and spit on her face..then called it a night. I have no further man-information. I see red flags with almost all girls I go out with, have weekend parties with, etc. which I do sometimes in other cities etc. I have, in the past, gave my two sense of MGTOWism to many of these sluts; however, this is one of two ways to go about it.

1. Tell them what’s really up-still have a good time-probably not get laid (although sometimes you still do)

2. Accept all the hilarious, manipulative (only if your a blue piller) s~~~ that comes out of their mouths, agree with most of it, and then f~~~ the s~~~ outta them

I admit it is hard for me to undertake option two for an entire night without puking..even with 2 hot girls over Christmas I couldn’t take them talking so much s~~~ about guys, and laughing at their bf’s while I treated them (and could have f~~~ed) but gave them my two sense worth lol

So the option my brother, is of course, yours.

HAIL MGTOW

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

Sure, I dodge a bullet every time my ex mentions us getting back together. She comes across as different, changed and ‘better’ but in the end I left for a reason and those reasons havent changed.

Same thing with a girl I’m in a study group with at uni(College for you americans). Been chatting to her for ages, get along like a house on fire but I’ve just got that niggling feeling that shes psychotic in a relationship. Bit of a pity, shes G cup with an ass to bounce coins off. Still not worth it.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[Sam FisherParticipant 206]

FitzBones wrote:

Sure, I dodge a bullet every time my ex mentions us getting back together. She comes across as different, changed and ‘better’ but in the end I left for a reason and those reasons havent changed.

Same thing with a girl I’m in a study group with at uni(College for you americans). Been chatting to her for ages, get along like a house on fire but I’ve just got that niggling feeling that shes psychotic in a relationship. Bit of a pity, shes G cup with an ass to bounce coins off. Still not worth it.

Step 1 – Tell her it ended for a reason in the first place.

Step 2 – Laugh.

In regards to the crazy college girl, yeah, I mean, I’m sure there are ways to bed those chicks and pull tricks so they don’t go psycho on you, but it’s better to be safe than sorry.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

Sam Fisher wrote:

Step 1 – Tell her it ended for a reason in the first place. Step 2 – Laugh. In regards to the crazy college girl, yeah, I mean, I’m sure there are ways to bed those chicks and pull tricks so they don’t go psycho on you, but it’s better to be safe than sorry.

I do tell her it ended for a reason and while shes grown up some, shes still a manipulative bitch who gets mad as hell when I call her out on her s~~~ and lives in denial.. not a hope in hell since I’ve also seen her future by meeting her mother who is almost as repulsive. Wtf was I thinking in the first place?

Oh I’ll bed the uni student if/when it comes to it but I’m not chasing it and I’m not giving even the remotest impression that I would ever want a relationship..

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[finallyfreeParticipant 341]

The biggest red flag I ignored: “I have only slept with 5 guys my whole life” -Bwahahhahha. Multiply 5 by 4 hun, maybe 6

– Talking about marriage within 1 month- Red flag of the year.

Red flags should never be ignored, that’s why they are called “RED Flags”. But I did ignore so damn many of those with a manipulator a few years back. She recently made the mistake of contacting me so I wrote her a long text titled “red flags I ignored with you”. It was hilarious and I’m sure painful as hell because the stuff was 100% true. I know it hurt because she gave my number to some mangina who then started texting me. Texting is for children but most women love it??

 

[Anonymous 9]

When my marriage was ending and I shouldered all the blame I read everything I could on abuse, emotions, anger, etc. I actually had never heard of red flags, kick ’em to the curb. Anyhow, I basically read their playbook and with the equality thing I figured if it was considered abuse toward them it must be considered abuse towards me and men. Some red flags:

criticizing me for wearing cut offs and a fanny pack……. yes, I may be stuck in the 80’s, and I am comfortable with that

suggesting the next date I empty the ashtray of my truck………there will be no next date

screaming at your dog when he is in the bedroom checking things out when we were in bed………..that will be me eventually

There are probably more but I am feeling lazy and going to play my first round of golf this morning. Fore!

[Sam FisherParticipant 206]

finallyfree wrote:

She recently made the mistake of contacting me so I wrote her a long text titled “red flags I ignored with you”. It was hilarious and I’m sure painful as hell because the stuff was 100% true. I know it hurt because she gave my number to some mangina who then started texting me. Texting is for children but most women love it??

Now THAT is hilarious. What could he have even say to you?

I don’t understand manginas. They waste so much energy sticking their nose into women’s affairs on their behalf, and throw other men under the bus for what? False female approval?

Each to their own… I guess. Good read – this is what I was hoping I would find come up in the thread. Thanks.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

When I was younger I had a lot of red flags because I wanted to get married and have children. Every one of them failed. I broke my first red flag on the second date I had with my ex-wife. I lived in LA so valet parking is everywhere and expensive. I was going on a lot of dates so I made a personal rule that if a chick made me park valet, that would be that and I would dump her.

Needless to say, on our second date, my ex wanted the valet even though half a block away was a fine parking space.

That was that. The entire dinner was uncomfortable as I was done with her.

The next day I get this bouquet of flowers and an “I’m sorry” note.

I’m such a mangina, I fell for it and, 21 years later am still paying the price.

Some of my more useful red flags were chicks that cancel on first dates and don’t put out by 3 dates. I ain’t buying 10 dinners before I get some puntang.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[finallyfreeParticipant 341]

Sam Fisher. Oh yes it was the most fun I have ever had ( as far as texting goes).

Me :  walk away from this narcissistic girl now because she is a textbook sociopath trying to use you because she is broke. I wish someone could have warned me when I first met her, in fact I would have paid cash for that info.

Mangina: you are just angry, she has been a Godly woman ever since I met her

Me:  A lot of whores start attending church when the “wall” is approaching.  She is putting on an act to lure you in. See how you jumped at the opportunity to text me even though you don’t know anything about me? Also your brand new whore texted me after 7 months of total silence from my end (not 1 call or text from my end) ? and you aren’t concerned?

Mangina:  total silence

And guys this is after I said some really mean stuff to her 7 months ago? I was absolutely shocked that she texted me after what I said back then? Glutton for punishment I guess???

 

[BONEParticipant 448]

For me it was the emotional tampon thing, this girl constantly bitched to me about her FATHER: a major red flag, if a girl bitches to you about her father, uncles, brothers, she’s a feminist and need to dump that bitch on her head.

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

BONE wrote:

For me it was the emotional tampon thing, this girl constantly bitched to me about her FATHER: a major red flag, if a girl bitches to you about her father, uncles, brothers, she’s a feminist and need to dump that bitch on her head.

Daddy issues are YOUR problem, you become daddy. All his sins are now yours.

A woman with daddy issues? Baggage galore.

Been there, done that.

 

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