Reaching the point of being indifferent

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

I have just realized I have reached the point  of indifference in my life. Yes I don’t care what the ex wife says to me. It’s not  worth my time and effort to defend myself against  a crazy person. My time is too valuable to waste it on the Bulls~~~ non sense.

Funny thing, the more I move towards towards this better direction, the more crazy she gets. I THINK SHE IS STARTING TO REALIZE HER CARE FREE LIFE LIKE LAST SUMMER, WILL BE REPLACED BY THE DAILY GRIND OF BEING A SINGLE MOM. Gone will be her days of going out several days a week with the new boyfriend. It will be replaced by being a parent again. The boyfriend will find out the responsibilities that come with dating a single mom with several  kids.It gets to be expensive buying dinner for more than just him and her like last summer. I have no ill will directed towards him. Heck I would love to shake his hand and buy him a beer for helping to set me free.

Crazy ex wife still tries to control what I say. I DONT TALK BADLY ABOUT HER TO MY KIDS. It’s great being able to do what I  want to do and say what ever I want. I WISH HER LUCK IN HER FUTURE. I sense  a level of jealousy that I will have the life she had so briefly enjoyed  last summer.

It’s only 4 short weeks  until she moves into the house her  parents bought her, with the kids. I am sure everything  will turn out fine for everyone.I will pay my child support and smile knowing she will get no alimony. As the ex wife always says–karma a real bitch.

 

 

 

[RoyDalParticipant]

Bright guy wrote:

It’s not  worth my time and effort to defend myself against  a crazy person. My time is too valuable to waste it on the Bulls~~~ non sense.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BDParticipant 1146]

Bright guy wrote:

My time is too valuable to waste it on the Bulls~~~ non sense.

Enjoy your path, the point of indifference when you can just look right through any woman is a great feeling….

She’s a single mother, she probably thought it would be all gravy, but she has dropped down a tier just because of that, and well, all she is going to find is a zombie hamster, we all need to be glad that ain’t us! I’d buy the Eskimo brother a beer as well, cheers to his stupidity!

In fact, I was at the gym yesterday, this 8/10 had been checking me out a bit, and as I walked by her she was attempting to move a 80 pound barbell so that she could use it for so some pointless exercise, she was struggling something fierce to move it off the rack and looking towards me as if to suggest something, and as I walked by the former me would have been the ass licker that did it for her, but instead as I walked by, I ignored her and a few feet later I laughed inside, then the thug life music started playing in my head, kinda like that guy that reached up and grabbed the case of beer while ignoring the chick, lada da da da it’s the motherf#cken deegal dounble G, snoop dog!

 

All I have to do to justify it is think about if the roles were reversed, would she have helped me? Doubtful, she didn’t look like a unicorn, not that I’ve ever seen one. Gotta love equality, they wanted it!

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5658]

I believe most of us became indifferent after the ass kicking we received in family court. That is what taught me not to care. All my friends, family, and co-workers realize I just plain don’t give a f~~~. The people it bothers the most are the women. Especially the ex. I think an alarm goes off in these lady’s heads when they realize they have absolutely no chance of manipulating you or getting anything from you. They start to think there is something wrong with THEM when I won’t even go out with them, let alone have sex with them. By not giving a damn, they realize they have lost complete control of you. And it scares the hell out of them.

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

I enjoy it when she says” you truly don’t give a f~~~!! You will never find another women. You will live all by yourself”.

I say Upp ..smile and walk away. It drives her nuts

.WINNING!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

[narwhalParticipant]

karma is not always a bitch.  Don’t be surprised if her parents continue to support her way of life and never let her see the realities of her choices.  Don’t be surprised if the BF  “man’s up” and starts financially supporting her as well.  Or maybe some other guy.  Dude could start being a father figure to your kids…and you could be blamed for not being there for your kids.

While my ex and I were separated, I had a venting session with a couple of guy friends.  I had stated in confidence that my ex wasn’t going to be very marketable, having 3 kids from 2 different fathers (she had a kid out of wedlock 2 years before we married).  One of my friends repeated that back to his wife, who told my ex.  I was a bastard for that….and I was wrong anyway.  She remarried 2 years after our divorce.

Point is, in this world, people don’t get what they deserve, and you can’t based your own happiness on what happens to other people anyway.

Ok. Then do it.

[experiencedParticipant]

To Bright  Guy: …and wait til the “several kids’ ” child support runs out.  Although she spends 100% of it on the kids, she won’t notice the void?   She had the world by the b~~~~ in the tradcon sense, and now she can watch the clock tick toward her financial demise while bitterly observing your success.  And she’ll be able to buy them homes? The MGTOW way proof is unbeatable, because old dried out hags are not reheatable.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

” You will never find another women. You will live all by yourself”.

I would have to say You promise? For real and it won’t cost me a penny extra?

Can I get that in writing?

Signed sealed and delivered?

LOL

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[conscientiaParticipant 6]

BulletDodger,

Should’ve said what it was all about, so she knows who to blame. Indirect badvertising of feminism, however.

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

Her parents will always be supporting her for the rest of their lives. I am greatful that her parents have the resources  available  to them. As far as the karma is a bitch comment… she has always had a negative personality  which has only gotten worse over the years. If she finds someone who makes her happy.. more power to her. Again not my issue.  I walked on eggshells for several years to try to  make an unhappy person happy with her life while I lost my own happiness in the process.

I get to live my own life with my kids moving in the right direction . Will there be other male figure in my kids live?? Probably but I accept that as one of the prices a man pays to live a free live. I will always be their father and will always be their for my kids.

I am the only one solely responsible  for my own happiness.

 

 

[QcummerParticipant 652]

“The MGTOW way proof is unbeatable, because old dried out hags are not reheatable.”

 

put that on the wall.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Enjoy your newfound freedom bro. I think we’ll became indifferent after having our emotions tugged and plucked liked guitar strings, its probably a sign off just being fed up from all the drama and BS that women seem to thrust onto us at any given moment, for me it felt liberating.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

treelville..miami wrote:

Enjoy your newfound freedom bro. I think we’ll became indifferent after having our emotions tugged and plucked liked guitar strings, its probably a sign off just being fed up from all the drama and BS that women seem to thrust onto us at any given moment, for me it felt liberating.

it’s funny. I think there was more drama here  than the TNT network. .lol

 

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

BD wrote:

the former me would have been the ass licker that did it for her, but instead as I walked by, I ignored her

I think I’d have stopped just to watch her struggle.

I think there’s a point beyond indifference where their struggles become entertaining. Or at least they entertain me.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I am thinking this Linkin Park song fits here for some reason (In the End):

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[narwhalParticipant]

@Brightside, I know what you mean about making an unhappy person happy.  I wouldn’t say my ex was an unhappy person, just that she was never satisfied with what she had, never could accept the bad with the good, or that’s it’s just a bad season, and carry on.

She went from teaching high school, to teaching elementary, to not wanting to work at all, to wanting to work part time as interpreter (Spanish) while we were married for 5 years.  She had her cat, then wanted a dog, then wanted another dog, to wanting to get rid of both dogs. Since the divorce (about 6 years), she’s gotten remarried, moved to another house across town, gotten a dog, gotten another dog, and now talking about getting rid of dogs.  So, it’s not hard to come to the conclusion that I was neither the problem or solution in this chain of events.

Ok. Then do it.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Everyone on here is awesome,

narwhal wrote:

e BF  “man’s up” and starts financially supporting her as well.

This is simply just another form of prostitution, I wouldn’t pay for any single mother lol, actually I refuse to pay for any pussy unless it is a professional.

narwhal wrote:

She remarried 2 years after our divorce.

 Haha , might as well hedge your bets, isn’t the divorce rate for second marriages like 70%, clueless Joe six pack will be homeless when she is done with him.

 

sidecar wrote:

I think I’d have stopped just to watch her struggle.

 I was laughing so hard inside, the thug life video was playing in my mind, and I was envisioning a thug life reefer and logo being placed in front of me, damn it was funny. No idea how she did it, just know it wasn’t me!

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

Can’t wait to get to “indifferent”. I’m still stuck on “f~~~ing annoyed by this bitch”.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

KingOfTheSea wrote:

Can’t wait to get to “indifferent”. I’m still stuck on “f~~~ing annoyed by this bitch”.

Funny.

You can accelerate it with “no contact”. The only problem is , you have to really not cave. You have to be prepared never to see her or have contact with her again. And never, never cave. Like 2 seconds after you make up your mind to do that…. the feeling is awesome. She will no longer live in your head rent free.

I wish I could bottle and sell it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

Keymaster wrote:

 You can accelerate it with “no contact”. The only problem is , you have to really not cave. You have to be prepared never to see her or have contact with her again. And never, never cave. Like 2 seconds after you make up your mind to do that…. the feeling is awesome. She will no longer live in your head rent free. I wish I could bottle and sell it.

Oh, I didn’t mean a specific woman. Just women in general. One of them always finds a way to get on my nerves with some feminism nonsense or just being a generally greedy bitch.

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