Reached that point…..

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

narwhal wrote:

And I disagree about men who become fathers to kids that aren’t theirs as losers. I respect they have good intentions, it’s just that you will pay and be resented for doing the job. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. It’s not a thankless job, it’s a job you will be hated for doing.

Couldn’t agree more Narwhal. She will try to stop you from pulling her children out of a burning car.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

It didn’t take me long to realize that life is not the same as when I stopped dating in 1979. Women were very s***** willing to sleep with you and a moment’s notice so like there’s no challenge right what the f*** is the point I could just watch p***

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

TattooDave wrote:

After the ride was over I got out of the car said goodbye shut the door when in my house and had some beer.

Just curious – how did she rate you as a passenger? 😉

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

TattooDave wrote:

How long did it take any of you guys to realize that it wasn’t going to be possible anymore this business of being around women?

I haven’t actually gotten to that point—yet.

Basically, the reason why I’m on this website is because I totally agree with what most men are saying here, that women are not to be trusted, are capricious, dangerous, mistreat men, etc., and that it’s so easy to overlook women’s undesirable traits.

Yet I’m still totally open to the idea of finding a woman whom I could hang out with.

Because who cares if most women—hell, who cares if 99% of women—are obnoxious and treat men badly and hold them up to unreasonable standards? Who cares if I’m not considered conventionally attractive? I only need to find one (or maybe two or three) women who won’t mistreat me, and who consider me attractive, and whom I consider attractive.

There are over 3.5 billion, with a b, women in this world. You could hang out with, date, know intimately literally a million women, and even then you would not have even begun to scratch the surface of possible personalities.

Experience (and this website) has taught me that there are certain patterns of behavior that many women follow, and which are pernicious if you’re not prepared for them; but math and numbers tell me not to give up just yet.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

Yet I’m still totally open to the idea of finding a woman whom I could hang out with.

I would say that’s normal. A chick you can call up on Friday, “hang out” with, go see a movie , get a bite to eat,… but it doesn’t exist. They have an “agenda”. A mission. They are not as relaxed or casual about it.

Go see a movie and grab a slice of pizza TO YOU means “movie and a slice of pizza”. To her, it’s “he’s trying to get into my pants”. It’s f~~~ing unbelievable.

You can’t even buy her a beer or a drink and have pleasant and normal conversation because the dialogue in her head is just “Would I f~~~ this guy? Would I f~~~ this guy? Would I f~~~ this guy? Would I f~~~ this guy? Would I f~~~ this guy? Would I f~~~ this guy? Would I f~~~ this guy? Would I f~~~ this guy? Would I f~~~ this guy?”.….

Can you imagine that screaming in your head — so loudly — that you can’t even behave in a cordial manner for 5 goddam minutes while you’re trying to enjoy some pleasant conversation????

I once (casually, random and relaxed) met a woman and we started taking, and I thought it was only natural to keep going and maybe get something to eat. Like a non-date. You know what she says “are you looking for a serious relationship? Because I don’t want either of us to waste our time”.

F~~~ing bat s~~~ insane.

“You know what? on second thought…. don’t ‘waste your time” with me. Just go away.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 1]

Keymaster, that last post was hilarious because its so true.

Keymaster wrote:

Because I don’t want either of us to waste our time”.

Zeez

[AmongstMenParticipant 129]

Right on. Yesterday at the gym, there was this fitness junkie-type female who likes to have dudes orbit her with attention. She’s talking to 2 manginas and is blatantly staring at me most the timetime for attention. I can tell from 1-2 quick glances. I’m like whatever. Next thing you know she comes into the room I’m working out in, gets near me and starts mirroring/matching my body language and my workouts to an extent while she’s facing her body toward me. At that point, I’m just annoyed and even projecting a “your childish and creepy” vibe. It was just too obvious.

I’m noticing that it’s becoming a routine thing wherever I go and I’m not even dressed in wealthy attire. Females can pick up your redpill paradigms through your body language to a certain extent. Some find it arousing, some find it threatening. They all see it as a challenge. Give them nothing and kick them off their high horse.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Keymaster, that last post was hilarious because its so true.

Yeah if you’re not “trying to get into her pants”…..

….. you’re “wasting her time”.

+1 to the list of excellent reasons not to bother.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

She absolutely lives every day of her life to have male attention. I don’t care how hot she is she does not deserve it because it won’t last

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

I wonder what is living in her pants

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Anonymous 1]

Keymaster wrote:

Yeah if you’re not “trying to get into her pants”…..

Year and a half ago, me and a few friends got tickets to the football in a town a few hours train ride away. had a great day at the bars by the river with a few drinks in the Sun before watching the game.

We got the the train home after and my friends convinced me to push onto a few bars that were still open on a sunday night – I agreed

Got talking to this fit blonde in a bar called ‘chicago’s’. We talked for a while and discovered she’d just moved in the street round the corner.

I mentioned she should pop in on the way back and meet my dogs (was intended innocently). There was some resistance, which I found odd but I eventually persuaded her (sex was not on my agenda)

She came in the house and met the dogs, then asked which way the bedroom was :-).

[Anonymous 5]

There’s no winning with women .dammed if you do dammed if you don’t .

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Antipathy wrote:

Just though thought of raising kids that came from the act of her having sex with another man, is always enough for me to say no.

You f~~~ing said it. Never again will I ever engage with a single mother and her c~~~ kid/s. NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Keymaster wrote:

They have an “agenda”. A mission. They are not as relaxed or casual about it.

Go see a movie and grab a slice of pizza TO YOU means “movie and a slice of pizza”. To her, it’s “he’s trying to get into my pants”. It’s f~~~ing unbelievable.

Dunno about you, but when I voluntarily interact with women for any extended period of time, it’s because I’m trying to get her into bed as quickly as humanly possible. As you you’ve pointed, sex is the entire biological point between men and women, and that no man should ever be expected to apologize for trying to do that.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

narwhal wrote:

And I disagree about men who become fathers to kids that aren’t theirs as losers.

They’re not necessarily losers.

But they are definitely chumps.

Keymaster wrote:

I would say that’s normal. A chick you can call up on Friday, “hang out” with, go see a movie , get a bite to eat,… but it doesn’t exist. They have an “agenda”. A mission. They are not as relaxed or casual about it.

But that only matters if you give a f~~~ about her agenda.

Why would you do that?

Regardless of whatever her plans are for the future, you don’t have to have any part in them unless you so choose. Because in our society men are still the ones expected to do the asking, and then women have the choice to say yes or no.

But if you don’t ask, well then she doesn’t get a choice, and there’s not a f~~~ing thing she can do about it.

Go see a movie and grab a slice of pizza TO YOU means “movie and a slice of pizza”. To her, it’s “he’s trying to get into my pants”. It’s f~~~ing unbelievable.

And when you don’t try to get into her pants, she can’t believe it. It completely f~~~s with her head. Suddenly things aren’t going according to her agenda, and she will be desperate to find some way, any way, to get things back on track. Don’t let things get back on track.

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