R.I.P. Sandman – Dating again

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I listened this morning. I was wondering what the f~~~ his problem is.

He can do whatever he wants. I don’t care. I don’t agree with all the thinkers or content providers out there on everything. I take what I want from each of them. They don’t have to be “pure” MGTOW (whatever that means).

But this morning’s episode I couldn’t even listen to all the way.

Funny, I thought something like this was on the horizon based on his videos over the past couple months. Every once in a while I could hear the words of a man that was trying to talk himself back into the bargaining phase.

I don’t care if he’s into men also. That doesn’t concern me.

#MANOUT

[~BSParticipant 3266]

i haven’t watched any of his videos in a long time, but my impression of the guy was that he was one of those youtube guys putting out material to get paid. so the more shocking or interesting material he puts out the better, he didn’t necessarily believe any of it. So yeah, I’m not surprised.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Maybe Sandman maxed out. Guys I have to tell you to do what he does and then get criticism for it he’s a martyr in my eyes. I recently left Facebook because 2 friends turned on me for my red pill awareness when relating to the Cosby trial and Brett Kavanaugh. That alone made me say social media is just tiring. So to be doing this everyday and now I don’t know the deal with Sandman because I did listen to the video and it sounded ambiguous. Maybe Sandman is like me a read the Rational Male and I understand women a lot more than I did before I read those 3 books. Am I going back into a relations~~~? hell no because I know I am the prize not any woman. I just like to dangle the carrot in front of their eyes. I’ve done things right in my life and at 47 in 8 years I can retire.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

kbbroiler wrote:

Maybe Sandman maxed out. Guys I have to tell you to do what he does and then get criticism for it he’s a martyr in my eyes. I recently left Facebook because 2 friends turned on me for my red pill awareness when relating to the Cosby trial and Brett Kavanaugh. That alone made me say social media is just tiring. So to be doing this everyday and now I don’t know the deal with Sandman because I did listen to the video and it sounded ambiguous. Maybe Sandman is like me a read the Rational Male and I understand women a lot more than I did before I read those 3 books. Am I going back into a relations~~~? hell no because I know I am the prize not any woman. I just like to dangle the carrot in front of their eyes. I’ve done things right in my life and at 47 in 8 years I can retire.

Who knows? One thing that I rarely, or maybe never, have heard him speak of is the biological imperative. Men naturally want to nest up and claim a chick, screw her brains out, and then find the next one. Whether or not we act on that is our prerogative.

Does he sound hypocritical? Yes he does after stating that he was pure monk mode.

Is he being dead honest? It seems that he is to me. That’s difficult for most men to admit to.

In regard to your other statements, yes always remember that you are the prize, not them. Good luck on a relatively early retirement. I’m in the same boat if I play my cards right and I have only a few more year than you to go.

#MANOUT

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Is anyone surprised? Sandman was a fence sitter from the get-go. He has repeatedly trod the line of outright banishment from general mgtow audiences.

Though I’ve largely forgiven him, no one ever forgot “wallowing in filth and misery.” I knew what he meant in that video and I knew where he was coming from but his delivery and choice of words were abyssmal and the back lash he got (though over the top) was to be expected.

From there he continued to market MGTOW like a cheap cologne, no one can deny this. And I get it, he lighthoused thousands into MGTOW but he was always one foot out the door.

He is the reason that so-called monkhood ever became a thing. In 2013, basic abstinence was just normal mgtow (not an oath of celibacy but a default consequence of going your own way, AWAY FROM WOMEN to be precise!). Preppy college boys and Sandman watered down the definition of MGTOW to include continued pussy begging! This was a huge transition, just so you know, for those of you that haven’t followed MGTOW content from 2013….

And today, we have how many channels run by 23 year old SIMPS who claim the title of MGTOW yet they have girlfriends!!! and you can catch them in the Youtube comment sections trying to have it both ways, defending dating and seeking pussy, one nights stands, defending tradcons and defending PUAs. F~~~ing morons!

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Let the man go his own way, that’s what the whole MGTOW acronym stands for.

Exactly. Maybe it’s dumb, but we’ve all been there along the way.

I don’t think MGTOW should become some kind of purity contest. Going monk is probably the safest option, but it’s hard to fight biology sometimes.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

Yeah….in some ways I think it might be inevitable…a MGTOW gets horny and lonely enough and builds up enough knowledge they think they can pull off an act as a Chad. But the problem is keeping the Act up. And no matter what: Alpha or Beta the legal system is entirely rigged in favor of the woman.
I know some poster her wrote that he just married a Unicorn: a woman who is much younger and right now everything is just gravy….but with enough time…the kid gloves come off her hands, and with a Full Moon she turns into an inhuman beast and proceeds to financially ass rape the man and take him for everything he has.

I am not above this….it has been a long time since I’ve been on a date. But a part of my mind keeps looking for an exception to the rule (that proverbial unicorn)…but I have never found any. Thankfully many of these Hypergamous Harpy’s automatically reject me without really knowing anything about me.

It helps to have a full untrimmed beard, drive a really crappy pickup truck and dress like a complete bum.
Looking poor is like Kryptonite to most women.
And being nice is just the “kiss of death”…..
“Poor” + “Beta” Nice Guy = MAJOR Female Repellent
And when a woman casually asks me what I do for a living and I tell her I am chronically unemployed (I’m actually retired)…she is looking for the nearest fire exit…

These are some of my defenses to insure that no woman gets close to me.
Except for no sex or companionship and love…life is pretty f~~~ing good.
I ride my motorcycles and gradually customize them.
I go where I want and do whatever I want to.
The house is nice and quiet and is my refuge from the world.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

RealityBites wrote:

full untrimmed beard, drive a really crappy pickup truck and dress like a complete bum.

I hear where you’re coming from and understand the intent.
Unfortunately, growing a beard is exactly what these little whores seem to be attracted to, driving a s~~~ty car and dressing like a f~~ also seem be be sexually appealing.

I dont know. Perhaps there are different CLASSes of Wowen. To a man, the 20-29 year old guys are sporting beards and dressing like hipsters/grungers, with s~~~ty used cars…. and without exception, all are pussy beggards to the T.

Im ex military so I cant go without shaving my face. That is heinous. It’s kept women from being interested in me since I dont look like a wood chuck, MLB player, al quaeda hipster… And I dress semi preppy… seems to keep women away (a clean shaven, benignly dressed modern man).

But if you grow the beard, wear tattoos and thick brimmed glasses, (throw in a Bernie 2016 T-Shirt) …suddenly women are throwing their panties at you.

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Gravel Pit wrote:

RealityBites wrote:

full untrimmed beard, drive a really crappy pickup truck and dress like a complete bum.

I hear where you’re coming from and understand the intent. Unfortunately, growing a beard is exactly what these little whores seem to be attracted to

I can confirm this. I’ve had a beard for a few years ago, just cos I wanted to, but I get a lot more interest now. And I’m not interested, which stokes the flames further. I shamelessly take advantage of it to get female clients and make money.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

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