Postponing inevitable

[nonameParticipant 746]

Friend is going for a 3 child, he is going through some “May 7” stuff.
He caught her lie multiple times.
Few month back she told him that she does not love him any more.
He suspects which Chad she is hunting. (truth be told I’ve seen her in her slut uniform few times and casually commented it in front of them)

We talked and he gets it but is determine to fix it, most of all he thinks that it is his fault (i know it is not as i have witnessed how he treats her and what he does for her and her side of family).

I hope the child will reignite the spark between them but I have seen to many and know too much from your experiences to doubt it.
Was best man at his weeding and care for him, it is tough to see where things are going.

Thing is i want to help him but do not want to be seen as someone who destroyed his marriage. (she did that).
Is there a way?

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Nothing you can do bro.

You will have to watch him crash and burn, and if you want pick up the ashes later.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 43]

lol 3rd kid means he coughs up maybe 40% of his gross to a c~~~ in the event of divorce. When I was paying for 2 kids, it was 28%. 28% when I was making $40K a year is an absolute killer. I was walking parking lots and carwashes at night looking for dropped change. Id typically find a dollar or two in change, thus coming up with one month’s rent, for free after a year. One kid aged out, and now I’m at 20% for one kid, again at low income, 20% is a killer. I’ll have maybe $50 left over at the end of the month for myself. No chance at building wealth, starting a business, or invest in my IRA. Now I am unemployed again, so I have rent, credit card bills from the divorce, a student loan payment, car expenses, and $470 child support. S~~~, car insurance is due next month. Gonna need tires maybe this spring. Just keep the plates spinning, until May of 2020, when I’ll hopefully be working for myself. Right now, every Monday, is C~~~day.

Explain that to your friend. How bad does he want another larvae, especially one that is supposed to save the marriage? Aren’t the other two worth saying married for? I would tell him to his face that he is a goddamned fool for thinking that another child is going to save him. It adds another 18 cubic miles to the s~~~ vortex, a cubic mile a year until age 18, of course. She wants to nail him with more CS, she has done the math, and decided that was in her best interest, not the best interest for the family, or your friend.

Well, you have one option, and you are not going to like this. You know what I am going to say. You have to let him go his own way. His way is not your way. The second he got married, his way ceased to exist. Poof, gone. Its now her way, or get divorce raped. He is so far under the s~~~ vortex, there is no easy way out. Smartest safest thing is to get out. Sucking up to this c~~~ is prolonging the inevitable, and more expensive in the future. Stop loss now.

Get out now, before he makes another larvae emerge from the ovipositor. Let Chad pay for s~~~. lol. I love that my c~~~’s chad is prolly paying for my daughter’s college. I giggle every morning knowing I don’t have to carry that load. Thank Gawd I cut my c~~~ off at 2 kids…the third pregnancy for her family going back several generations were twins. Both sisters, third pregnancy was twins. It’s ok to tell the c~~~ no. No more kids. Nope none. four kids in Illinois was 50% of Gross. lofl I have an ex brother in law in year 10 of paying half his gross to the c~~~’s sister, and she married a millionaire business owner. EXBIL is a mall cop. So f~~~ing f~~~ed.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

May i swear I can’t read your whole history.

I cringe to the idea that could be me.

Thanks death for saving me from fatherhood.

A-MEN

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 43]

dude if you knew the whole story, you would have been there holding my bbq lighter counting back from 10 while I was pouring gasoline. It has been a regrettable 8 years. But I will tell you this, Today I feel indestructible.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

A child Can’t do for them what they Can’t do to Together.

WISHFUL THINKING……..

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[nonameParticipant 746]

Carnage wrote:

Nothing you can do bro.

You will have to watch him crash and burn, and if you want pick up the ashes later.

You are right, he can see where this s~~~ show is leading but i can not make the decisions for him.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Anonymous 43]

noname, I am truly sorry that your friend is in such agony. Your best course is to back off a bit, and let things run its course. Your friend will either combine DNA again or not, and his bitch will ass rape him or not. Nothing you can say or do will prevent any of that. The assrape could happen later, it could happen at lunchtime today. Who the f~~~ knows.

I tell people in your situation to have a little extra cash on hand, for a hotel room, car rental or clothing, a little something to show your buddy that you care. I was blown out with the shorts, sandals, and a tshirt I was wearing, a suit and shoes in a suit bag, some papers and $66 in my pocket. oh yeah, no job. I didn’t have a car for 8 weeks, lived in a hotel for those 8 weeks then lived in the car. Still paying that credit card bill down. F~~~. that was in 2009.

All the redpill wisdom you have will not save your friend. Watching him for signs of depression and hopelessness/suicide will be invaluable, if you can still get near him.

[Anonymous 42]

Wonder why I’m not attending anymore weddings or buying wedding gifts to be sold off later to fund Mrs Crabcake’s adventures with Mr Chad?

I haven’t seen a first marriage last in my LIFETIME! They’re just warming up for the first season of Cash and Prizes from the disposable starter husband!

These c~~~s think they’re schrude and life’s a f~~~ing game!

This is what happens when men are demoralized enough to accept another mans wife for sloppy seconds!

STAY THE F~~~ AWAY FROM SINGLE MOTHERS! GIVE THEM NO CONSIDERATION, NO QUARTER!

Marriage should only be afforded ONCE! Then after that no more marriage license to be issued.

It’s not even a fair and equitable contract anymore! It’s just a new form of documented slave papers!

I’m gonna take material part in that? LIKE F~~~ I AM!

[nonameParticipant 746]

Anonymous wrote:

Explain that to your friend. How bad does he want another larvae, especially one that is supposed to save the marriage? Aren’t the other two worth saying married for? I would tell him to his face that he is a goddamned fool for thinking that another child is going to save him. It adds another 18 cubic miles to the s~~~ vortex, a cubic mile a year until age 18, of course. She wants to nail him with more CS, she has done the math, and decided that was in her best interest, not the best interest for the family, or your friend.
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Well, you have one option, and you are not going to like this. You know what I am going to say. You have to let him go his own way. His way is not your way. The second he got married, his way ceased to exist. Poof, gone. Its now her way, or get divorce raped. He is so far under the s~~~ vortex, there is no easy way out. Smartest safest thing is to get out. Sucking up to this c~~~ is prolonging the inevitable, and more expensive in the future. Stop loss now.
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Get out now, before he makes another larvae emerge from the ovipositor.

Thank you May, will give him your side of the story.
Unfortunately there is nothing he can do about it, she made her choice. He can only minimize the damage, man i hope he listens.

Bitch is violent and he thinks she would change, f~~~ it!!!
When i heard abut it adrenaline pumped hard, she is one nasty c~~~.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Print off May’s comments and take them to your friend.

A child STRESSES a marriage he doesn’t REPAIR a marriage.

Think about it:
-Less Sleep
-More Costs
-Less Sex
-Strapped at home b/c a child is an inconvenience (yes you love it, but face it – a baby is a pain in the ass now matter how cute it is).

Stress b/c he bitch gets grumpy b/c the kid needs to feed. Her t~~~ hurt. Her Vag feels like someone drove a bus through it.

She will be a bitter mess and Chad will make her feel “loved and appreciated”. Then your buddy will be triple f~~~ed and paying out his ass for decades to come…

[Anonymous 42]

Another slave in the making…

[BoarParticipant]

Your friend is a fool and there is nothing you can do.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[nonameParticipant 746]

Anonymous wrote:

noname, I am truly sorry that your friend is in such agony. Your best course is to back off a bit, and let things run its course. Your friend will either combine DNA again or not, and his bitch will ass rape him or not. Nothing you can say or do will prevent any of that. The assrape could happen later, it could happen at lunchtime today. Who the f~~~ knows.

True.
My predicament is that she agreed for 3 child to get him of her back but will file for divorce ASAP or the child will be Chad’s.

Anonymous wrote:

I tell people in your situation to have a little extra cash on hand, for a hotel room, car rental or clothing, a little something to show your buddy that you care. I was blown out with the shorts, sandals, and a tshirt I was wearing, a suit and shoes in a suit bag, some papers and $66 in my pocket. oh yeah, no job. I didn’t have a car for 8 weeks, lived in a hotel for those 8 weeks then lived in the car. Still paying that credit card bill down. F~~~. that was in 2009.

Will do, we go back 20+ years.
Sorry to hear that May, but as you say you feel indestructible now and that is nice to hear.

Anonymous wrote:

All the redpill wisdom you have will not save your friend. Watching him for signs of depression and hopelessness/suicide will be invaluable, if you can still get near him.

Oh depression already get him, hope in new beginning is what is keeping him going.
The crash will be hard.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

I’d advise him against more kids if it’s a s~~~ relationship already. He sounds like he’s in too deep already. Just keep him in mind if and when it goes wrong and offer a space on your couch if you can.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[MonkParticipant 16988]

Thinking that another child will ‘get them back together’ is a classic delusion.

It never does.

If she does get pregnant, he should get a paternity test.

[AttonParticipant]

Shame kids end up getting f~~~ed in all of this.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[nonameParticipant 746]

@space-cowboy agreed, another kid would complicate already complicated situation.

@monk my thoughts exactly, paternity test is a must.

@atton I believe he is putting up with her s~~~ because of the kids. She really is selfcentered and i could bet that she did not consider what are effects of her actions.
F~~~ing tingles!
F~~~ing sluts!

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

And then it all inevitably blows up and I can understand male suicide and homicide. It’s all evil. I’d just try to be there for your friend because he’s in for it.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[nonameParticipant 746]

PuniShredder wrote:

And then it all inevitably blows up and I can understand male suicide and homicide. It’s all evil. I’d just try to be there for your friend because he’s in for it.

True brother, i did not get married but can grasp that idea when the world that man built is collapsing.
I am and will be there for him.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

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