Possible monkey branching and question about its mentality ?

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Hey fellas hope you guys all been well,

So got a quick question I am currently pondering related to one of my female bosses at work.

This woman who we will call for name sake is called “lady person” ( for sake of privacy and all that blah blah blah).

Now lady person is in a higher position than me at my current job shes a bit moody and all that jazz like the other women which i have learned to deal with in my own way as a part of the job to keep myself in money, that being said i recently found out about a long list of her exses from and related to my work place ( 3 of them are brothers so go figures) and how she has been with quite a lot of guys over the time at my work.

That and recently about a situation she has gotten from one “bad relationship” with a guy we used to worth with and recently officially went with another guy who we both work with in the same work place. She used to have a house and moved in with this ex of hers and has finished with him to repeat the process of moving into the house with her new current partner.

Oh as a side note I had recently learned of two new information pieces related to matter about how she was cheating on her ex with her current partner and a tattooist who has done some of her tattoos.

With a bonus detail of being told of a reason/justification of her actions which was “she hats being alone” as one of the main reasons of her actions due to her mind set.

I will admit i did like this girl and had feelings for her at one point but decided to quickly kill them before anything happened to keep up my professionalism.

So what do you guys think of this kind of situation ?

Personally I kinda lost a lot of respect for her at this point and the guy to on the matter of principles but unsure what else to think of her mindset and reason for these form of repeated action.

thanks for reading!

– Casual Guy

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

CasualGuy227 wrote:

Personally I kinda lost a lot of respect for her at this point

Doesn’t sound like she deserved ANY respect, in the first place.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[BoarParticipant]

I have no idea what the hell I just read….

CG227, interpreting casual gossip is not a purpose of this forum. My honest advice is swallow the red pill, read everything here and try to keep yourself unstained by all the drama that seems to be swirling around your workplace.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Just let her be,if she’s a boss and screwing around with guys that are below her,it will probably get her fired anyway.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Tuneout wrote:

Just let her be,if she’s a boss and screwing around with guys that are below her,it will probably get her fired anyway.

This, and you never date at work. EVER. That’s where your money comes from. You don’t want to jeopardize your career for a woman. EVER.

Order the good wine

[HitmanParticipant]

She is a man-eater..
A shark and your in the tank with her. .
Keep your distance from this one. .
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Edit
Keep your distance from ALL of them.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Life working for E Corp taught me to focus on doing my job. My social life was strictly isolated. I did not hang out with coworkers. (We did go to lunch in groups. I gave myself a pass on that.)

I tried it the other way, and it blew up in my face. So I tried it again, and got even more egg in my beard. Lesson learned . . . however slowly.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[narwhalParticipant]

Yep, everything you just mentioned is completely irrelevant. She’s a coworker, so don’t get involved with her. Her mentality is irrelevant. Even within a work context, it doesn’t matter how her personal life effects her ability to perform. Expect her to do her job and work with her on that basis if you need to.

Ok. Then do it.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I had a friend that worked in the tax department of a Fortune 100 company. He told me that he would run into the CEO on the elevator every once in a while. I asked him if he ever talked to him. He said Hell no! What good could come of that? I can’t make him think I’m smart in 30 seconds, but I can sure as hell look stupid in 30 seconds!

Treat your personal life like that at work. It probably isn’t going to impress anyone, so why give them ammo to think less of you?

Order the good wine

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

CasualGuy227 wrote:

Personally I kinda lost a lot of respect for her at this point

Solomon beat me to it, but yeah. I’m guessing you haven’t been around here too long?

We get stories like that around here ALL THE TIME, and it’s disgusting and a major part of the reason many/most of us are GOOW.

Plus tatoos even. Iugch.

This is what we call the c~~~ carousel. This is a chick that won’t hesitate to spend a night humping any given chad she gets the chance to and then go home to her “honeybun” and tell him how glad she is to have him.

This is the reason that middle eastern men refer to all of our women here as “your fat American whores.” And they would be right, except for maybe the fat part in (fewer and fewer) cases.

That’s a tough one. Above all steer clear – sooner or later you will probably be the intended target. It will probably start off with something “innocent” like her saying “I feel like crap – I need a drink. Want to go down to to the bar with me for a quick drink?”

You need to steer clear. Women like this are especially troublesome because they are trying to fill a missing/scarred piece of their personality with something and you don’t want to be the next victim, especially if the workplace is involved because when the sex doesn’t do the trick anymore, drama will do nicely.

Telling her that you’re actually gay might help, but then you might have to put up with her and her coworkers trying to fix you up with guys all the time.

You’ll have to decide for your self if it’s worth doing that or trying to deal conventionally.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Anonymous 0]

Keep sex and work separate. When men used to run things, they used to have an old saying: “Don’t go fishing in the secretarial pool.” A cruder saying to the same effect: “Don’t s~~~ where you eat.”

[SimpleLifeParticipant 439]

Casualguy would do well to heed the advice given here.

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Right thank you for a lot of the advice and I am sorry if like Boar said this did come across as a little gossipish that was not my intention.

But again thank you fro the advice.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

CasualGuy227 wrote:

So what do you guys think of this kind of situation ?

She’s a slut! Snap out of it! There are no NAWALTS! Swallow the redpill!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

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