Peter Pan Syndrome or Shame tactics

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

So as MGTOW because we won’t support the single mothers and their brood or be slaves on the plantation we are accused of being slackers, perpetual adolescents, and video game players.

So, stupid is as stupid does….If I’m going to be accused of something I might as well do it. I have started playing World of Tanks. This is really the first online game I have ever played. Never had the time to waste with games. It is pretty cool. You pick a historically accurate tank and you fight it out. I suck at it, for now.

When you don’t care about females it opens up a whole swath of time.

As an aside: That is their main tactic. To Shame Men. Study it, research it, don’t fall victim to it. Shame cuts to the heart of men. water off a ducks back. Don’t fall for it. It will hurt at first. It is only words.

PS. I’m in the early model Panzer.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 3]

Well that’s why MGTOW exists.

When you understand that everything on TV will shame you, then you are free to stop watching TV. When you understand people are only interested in shaming and attacking you, then you are free to avoid people.

You have the freedom to choose what you do and who to associate with.

Very few people have access to me. I don’t use social media, I don’t go bar or club hopping, I don’t head out to parties. I am at peace alone.

The only time you’re really stuck with people is at work, and rarely neighbors if you get stuck talking to them. I avoid my neighbors and I only work contract jobs a few months out of the year. My expenses are low so there is no need to do more than that, plus at this point I have enough passive income on top of that to be pretty secure. When I do work I always wear headphones, put my head down and just work. There is no need to talk to people, and most aren’t interested in me anyway. The best is when I can just work remote.

If you need to be the center of attention and need social acceptance, MGTOW probably won’t work for you. It’s really checking out of a society that doesn’t want to be reasonable with you.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Woman know that they offer a bs deal. And single mothers know they are in competition with hotter women but they also have expensive baggage. When us men simply drop out of dating or date younger chicks they try shamming us as a last resort. To try get us men to take responsibility for their actions (even thou they had none when they had kids out of wedlock). If you still date it’s best to ignore them don’t even have sex with them because you know what they will do in case of pregnancy.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22558]

Women seem to suffer in greater numbers from Peter Pan Syndrome than men. Just because a woman pops out a kid does not make her an adult.

It is actions, personal responsibility, and emotional maturity, that define what an adult is. Not how many kids one has. Not how many achievements one has. Not how much wealth one accumulation.

Being an adult comes from inner growth of one’s mind and soul, not outer growth of one’s achievements and physical abilities.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

The more I encounter shaming tactics, the more hilarious I find them. What do women seriously expect…they call me a perpetual adolescent for being happily single, so I’m supposed to get offended and take them on a date to prove myself? No, lol.

I don’t want a relationship because women aren’t worth it, if they want me to change my mind, why don’t they do something to make me think they are worth it rather than just call me names, which only reinforces the concept that women aren’t worth it.

[Anonymous 7]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I have started playing World of Tanks.

If you ever have the urge to play any other games try out nazi zombies, it’s all I play.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

When a grown man acts immature, it’s called “Peter Pan Syndrome”.

When a grown woman acts immature, it’s typical.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22558]

I know where you are coming from, Beer. I don’t spend much time with anyone, of either gender, because most people I am around lack the emotional maturity to be worth my time. It is just not worth talking to people that will take offense at even the more minor of misunderstanding, and start an argument at the drop of a hat.

[experiencedParticipant]

It’s effective to immediately sort and silo the structure of their every utterance.

Doing so focuses your mind on their tactics and strategy structurally, rather than the content within.

This keeps it an analysis, revealing their intentions, and they’re less likely to gain ground via specific content.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RoyDalParticipant]

Let me see. Stay home and eat, drink, and be merry? Or rush to an overcrowded mall searching for flowers, candy, and maybe a diamond or two? Decisions, decisions!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[NerdtasticParticipant 194]

You know i spend my time doing only a few things, making money, playing video games, sleeping and seeing my close friends and family once in a while going out to eat or playing said video games. What more do i need to enjoy life? A woman telling me i play too much or how she hates my friends? I don’t think so.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

If a man has a job, is on his own, and manages his life, why care what else he does? He spends a lot of time playing videogames? Who cares?

I say the PPS and shame tactics are part of the ordeal a man goes through to get a successful MGTOW life. If a man ends up going back to the social norms, because of the talk, I say he still needs work on walking MGTOW.

I am getting better personally trying to drop things that don’t work for my life, and I don’t care what others say.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[experiencedParticipant]

Dealing with Shaming tactics:

Men talk to each other. They communicate info, e.g. here.

Because we talk this way, with trust, for results, it’s viewed as a weakness and totally manipulated by women.

Skip, ignore, block out: ‘what’ women are saying.
Ignore her content as it’s all bait to lure you into thinking that an exchange of info will take place.

Instead, analyze the structure of ‘her mouthing’ not the content,

THEN!!!! you will see that she is taking the offensive via her structure of delivery.

The content is bait and slams to ignore unless you’re a ‘mental masochist.’

Remember: Communication for men is for info. Women use it for manipulation.

~~”respond to a fool and become a fool yourself OR ignore a fool and they will think they are smarter.”
It only makes sense to pay the price of knowing that they think they’re smarter. In time you won’t care.

LAYDEE conversational “structure” = any combo of:
Question?
WHY?
Explain yourself! [delivered in Dalek voice]
Ridicule,
Shame,
Ad hominem attacks,
More than one question BEFORE the first one’s answered,
Total piggish attempt at control of conversation.

Guys don’t pull this crap on guys.
Those that have, got their clocks cleaned free of charge and later on agreed that they deserved it.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[KeithParticipant 482]

All men endure the “when are you going to grow up” rant. I have become desensitized to it and my brain doesn’t even receive the words anymore.

As a 50 year old I was not socialized in the online gaming culture so my diversions are in other areas. This rarely involves TV. I cut the cable television 5 years ago because the anti-male shows and commercials sickened me. I am not on Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Instagram, Snapchat or any other social media platforms.

It seems to me, that the older I get, the happier I get, and The happier I get the more it annoys my sisters, their female friends, other women that I interact with or are exposed to either socially or through work. This perplexes me. This is no mystery to guys however.

I enjoy my own company, can spend hours putzing around the house, reading, etc. Women generally do indeed find it incomprehensible that a man can be happy without a woman.

At least 2 or 3 times a month some female will tell me about a friend of theirs who I “should meet”. I have never had a guy do that. This because they understand. Nearly every woman I know wants me to have a relationship. That is just weird.

Leave me alone.

ONCE UPON A TIME there was a man who never found a wife and he lived happily ever after. The End.

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