People enjoy putting you down

[Anonymous 16]

Guess this all started when i was 13y old and started lifting weights, i got laugh at a lot people told me i would never grow or build a good body, when all they did was drink and smoke pot.

Same happened when i competed in martial arts and so on, has i got older i tough good that competition is over i won’t hear anyone jealous comments anymore i am done with this.

But it seems that people enjoy putting you down no mater your age.

When my ex left me i was devastated and 2 guys at my job told me that at my age to meet a women i had to go online, took pictures build a good profile and i was on, the truth will set you free, i am not afraid to say i failed online, i got rejected like never before, took that to heart, looked at myself and ask what the hell went wrong that in my 20 and 30 i could get so many women and not i can’t even catch a cold add insult to injury another guy at my job who is skinny short and bald was like look i don’t need to be big and muscular like you online works so much better for me. The 2 other guys at my job are younger 26, one told me well there is no other way to tell you, you don’t look good you are not pretty…… the other one told me that all women i messaged where out of my league. I don’t talk to them anymore but it was quit funny because there is a blond girl at my job she is sexy older 46 but looks stunning for her age one of them told me out of your league you got zero chance with her, i started talking to her via facebook and at my job, she as a boyfriend but she invited me to lunch hahaha, she told me that i the last 6 weeks my body changed and that it really shows i am training and i have beautiful blue eyes….. LOL

That guy saw me talk to her and i rubbed it into is face, not my style to do things like that.

I am working hard on not giving a f~~~ about what people think and find it funny when you go to the source like the blonde girl who was way over my league or a waitress that asked me to slow dance in a bar this summer that the opposite of what theses idiots say is true.

I don’t understand why people are so damn mean either i would never tell anyone that a women is out of is league or discourage someone of a goal he as in life losing weight getting in better shape finding a better job.

The guy i went to Cuba with back in 2013 did the same thing, i lost a lot of weight before going to Cuba got my tan within a day and things where rocking for me, a night in the lobby he exploded saying that i was imaging all this and women where not coming on to me, like he was literally jealous even if he had is girlfriend and daughter back home he wanted to cheat but was so fat at nearly 300 pounds that no women wanted him…… same thing happened when we where in IT school together we went out in clubs he was going out with is girlfriend back then the same one he as now and failing with women where i was not and he got all mad at me. Needless to say when i came back from Cuba i told him off.

I just lost close to 40 pounds and going with proper diet and training while most people and the older crowd at my job told me i would never be able to lose the weight funny how they react when you achieve this some even have the b~~~~ to ask you advise after putting you down.

[Anonymous 54]

The more above average you become, the more average will attack you.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

But it seems that people enjoy putting you down no mater your age.

Spite and envy are as common as dirt. Keep on keepin’ on!

Anonymous wrote:

The more above average you become, the more average will attack you.

Yep. If there is anything the herd hates, it is its leader.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[narwhalParticipant]

There are 2 ways to get ahead in life. Actually get better or put everyone else down.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 16]

I still have a long way to go to be thin now i am massive and yes fat LOL, i need to lose 20 and i am using this negative vibes people send me as motivation. I have goals that i plan to reach next year that really keep me motivated too.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

people want you to fail because your success means they could have succeeded but they were too lazy. ever tell people you’re on a meal plan to get back in shape and they try to sabotage you by offering sweets or alcohol? They want you to stay a loser like them

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Anonymous 54]

“Mediocre People dont like high acheivers. High acievers dont like mediocre people”

Nick Saban

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

If you improve yourself, just for yourself, it’ll become self-sustaining, as you see the dividends of your hard work. This is how people become happy & fulfilled in the long-term.

If you improve yourself just to pick up chicks, you’re giving up control of your own self-esteem. That’s a recipe for disaster.

[Anonymous 16]

uchibenkei wrote:

people want you to fail because your success means they could have succeeded but they were too lazy. ever tell people you’re on a meal plan to get back in shape and they try to sabotage you by offering sweets or alcohol? They want you to stay a loser like them

Yeah 110% true i used this for motivation.

[Anonymous 16]

MattNYC wrote:

If you improve yourself, just for yourself, it’ll become self-sustaining, as you see the dividends of your hard work. This is how people become happy & fulfilled in the long-term.

If you improve yourself just to pick up chicks, you’re giving up control of your own self-esteem. That’s a recipe for disaster.

Never do things for chicks never did that, younger and not doing this at 44 either, i want to keep fit for me to fit in my clothes smaller clothes to feel good, be less fatigue have better cardio more energy. Lose fat and try to maintain a low bodyfat % and hold on to my muscle mass as i age gracefully. Women at my age won’t keep up and if i ever got back in a relationship i can kiss my goals goodbye…… worth it i think not

[High RollerParticipant 157]

Focus on yourself only, yannick44. Please do not focus too much about what everyone thinks about you, it will drive you nuts, trust me.

Don’t just get in shape, reinvent yourself! I’ve been analyzing myself constantly on how I can continue bettering myself and minimizing every flaw. I have been working on my health, education, psyche, and lifestyle. It certainly hasn’t been easy for me especially when I first started but with continued practice I am developing more discipline. Be your own mentor and you’ll be rewarded.

Yes, people suck. If you let these envious self-hating individuals conquer your well-being, they will win. Have complete control over yourself and you will win by infinity.

[Anonymous 16]

High Roller wrote:

Focus on yourself only, yannick44. Please do not focus too much about what everyone thinks about you, it will drive you nuts, trust me.

Don’t just get in shape, reinvent yourself! I’ve been analyzing myself constantly on how I can continue bettering myself and minimizing every flaw. I have been working on my health, education, psyche, and lifestyle. It certainly hasn’t been easy for me especially when I first started but with continued practice I am developing more discipline. Be your own mentor and you’ll be rewarded.

Yes, people suck. If you let these envious self-hating individuals conquer your well-being, they will win. Have complete control over yourself and you will win by infinity.

I am doing this right now actually, and yes its hard to re invent yourself. But we have to work on us all the time its funny because i have changed and people at my job notice, the ones that where putting me down, i ignore them now, and since i made friends with the blonde girl lots of them shut up funny stuff.

[High RollerParticipant 157]

Anonymous wrote:

High Roller wrote:

Focus on yourself only, yannick44. Please do not focus too much about what everyone thinks about you, it will drive you nuts, trust me.

Don’t just get in shape, reinvent yourself! I’ve been analyzing myself constantly on how I can continue bettering myself and minimizing every flaw. I have been working on my health, education, psyche, and lifestyle. It certainly hasn’t been easy for me especially when I first started but with continued practice I am developing more discipline. Be your own mentor and you’ll be rewarded.

Yes, people suck. If you let these envious self-hating individuals conquer your well-being, they will win. Have complete control over yourself and you will win by infinity.

I am doing this right now actually, and yes its hard to re invent yourself. But we have to work on us all the time its funny because i have changed and people at my job notice, the ones that where putting me down, i ignore them now, and since i made friends with the blonde girl lots of them shut up funny stuff.

Perhaps it’s time to keep moving forward. Since getting back into shape and getting your desires accomplished so far, there is no need to dwell in failures, whether your fault or not. I always work on keeping that in mind.

[Anonymous 16]

Perhaps it’s time to keep moving forward. Since getting back into shape and getting your desires accomplished so far, there is no need to dwell in failures, whether your fault or not. I always work on keeping that in mind.

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Yes for sure. but like i said its hard work but ready to do it for all aspect.

[Anonymous 22]

I’ve noticed that being in good shape, going to gym and really enjoying it is a very sensitive subject to a lot of people. In my experience, the ones that have some kind of a strange problem with it, are usually fat or slightly overweight people.

Envy has to be earned. So don’t let the envious, insecure people affect you in any way but take all their insults as compliments.

[LookAfter#1Participant 352]

Some people enjoy putting you down

Just think to yourself “No F~~~s Given”
Why should you care about their opinion, anyway? Especially if they’re no friend and never do anything for you.

Alternatively, sometimes the best motivation to get something done is to prove all the haters wrong. “If they say I’ll never lose weight, then Im going to do it just to prove them wrong”

[Anonymous 16]

LookAfter#1 wrote:

Some people enjoy putting you down

Just think to yourself “No F~~~s Given”
Why should you care about their opinion, anyway? Especially if they’re no friend and never do anything for you.

I am a new look on life hahah just started a vegan diet plan to shed a lot more weight and yeah don’t give too much f~~~ about what people think if they are jealous now wait in 6 months who cares. I am not a super human, i am just a guy who is passionate about is training and i love to keep active.

F~~~ these worthless bitch ass.

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