Peeling off the layers of denial and brain washing

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Hello “red pill” brothers,

It has been thirty years since I began my “red pill” journey. I am in my fifties and still shaking off “blue pill” programming and dealing with the consequences.

My marriage happened when I was in my early 20’s, just after after my girlfriend got pregnant my senior year in college. To support her, my Son, and pay off our college debt, I had to work double shifts and was in construction and the trades. I had to survive in mostly hard/ dangerous environments working with rough men who were in the same situation as me.

The feminists like to give examples of white collar guys like bankers and CEO’s to support their effort to get higher wages for women. They always “overlook” what the majority of men have to do to make a decent living. Most guys are like me who have worked long hours risking their lives/ health to make a middle class wage.

Ten years of marriage cost me over a million dollars of hard earned wages. I had nothing left after the divorce and was saddled with a third of my wages being taken away for the following ten years.

At some point after my divorce, a good friend gave me a copy of Esther Vilar’s book, “The manipulated man.” This book saved me. It was my “red pill” because it helped me find words and ideas to describe what I have been experiencing.

At first I could not accept everything in this book. I would hold onto “NAWALT” ideas like my Irish Grandfather’s advice on finding a good wife: “It is a fine horse that will pull its own weight.”

It took decades to peel off the layers of denial and brain washing to see the truth about women’s nature described in Vilar’s book and in the stories of MGTOWS.

I spent the past 30 years involved with major universities studying numerous field of discipline. The gynocracy and other elites have successfully c~~~ blocked/ sabotaged my numerous efforts to get advanced degrees.

Because of the health hazards while continuing to work in the building trades, I have fought off cancer several times and seen many good men die unnecessarily.

Much of my acquired knowledge/ expertise in alternative health and cancer cures has been suppressed for many reasons. The main one is the “blue Pill” denial as a result of the powerful medical establishment. Many good people have been put in prison and had their lives ruined because they went public with their cancer cures.

Another reason to “ghost” about cancer cures is that many people who dominate the “alternative Health” fields are mostly pilfering from desperate/ sick people to avoiding doing any hard /dangerous work. The real cures are mostly free, inexpensive, and simple. Also, people living in denial/ delusions about their health are hostile to those who upset their views.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I am glad you made it through your ordeal by fire, and I hope your son learns from your example and does not repeat your mistakes. By that, I mean not getting married; construction is not such a bad gig as I would not wish it on him.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[NioZenParticipant 856]

See, this is the real heroism in man, the ability to keep on rocking no matter what, and yet still search for truth and peace. You have my utmost respect. I know what you mean re. all of the bulls~~~ peddled in cancer cures to predate on the desperate, but I’d be interested in what you found to be true. I read quite a bit about Linus Pauling and Vit C – it’s amazing to see how many infectious diseases can be treated by the theraputic use of Vit C, so I have no doubt that there are simple cures for many other health problems.

Good to have you here.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

My son’s choices is a painful topic. I was lucky to have custody of him for a few years as a teenager. He has profound creativity in an Alpha male consciousness, so I had to home school him. The feminists running the primary schools did not like him and he gave them hell. Thankfully, I live on a college campus in Chicago and we had access to several University’s facilities.

At first, I had a hard time teaching him English and the humanities, until he studied the PUA philosophies/ wisdom.

As he became older, he chose a more creative/ chaotic path that is too scary for me and we have had a strained relationship. His use of drugs/ alcohol and PUA skills to manipulate/ use others is at odds with my values.

Even though I am proud of him for many reasons, especially turning the tables on women, the things he does and places he goes makes my stomach turn.

My discipline, reliability, trustworthiness, and healthy mind/ body are the foundations that helped me rise to the top of the food chain in the trades. It is difficult for me to understand the value of the other paths that my son chooses
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He is now living in Arizona and works part time moving furniture.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

Happy to read your story, your health matters the most, our children need to find their own way, in time.
I’m not sure where I read this, but story goes- a child is formed in the womb, and we don’t have to interfere or worry.
When child is born, we “take over”.
Maybe it’s time to give it back.
And take care of the man, that be you.
Welcome and cheers, bros.

[Anonymous 29]

A good read. Welcome.

[Anonymous 5]

Great intro, and a very warm welcome to the land of Ex-manginas.
I was amazed at the number of younger guys joining who seemed to understand female nature. I thought the only way possible to overcome the cognitive dissonance was to go through what you and many others of us had to. I had to catch up on the discrimination against boys which now starts from their first day of school. I was horrified.
I don’t think anyone believes all of “The Manipulated Man” the first time through. I certainly didn’t. The reality of female nature is so far from the Hollywood stereotype that we think Vilar must be going overboard in a number of respects. As you’ve stated, it’s a matter of “peeling off the layers” after being indoctrinated from the cradle.
Within a few months of reading Vilar, the stark truth became more evident as I witnessed the female behaviour about me and I realized the true dynamics of relationships in my past. Lots of things suddenly made perfect sense. It took away more than 90% of all the inexplicable “Mystery” of women.

Another terrific read is “The Anatomy of Female Power” by Chinweizu,,,,and “The Predatory Female” by Rev Lawrence. Shannon.
You can’t get Chinweizu’s book but there’s some PDF versions online, it’s a quick but powerful read.
Warren Farrel’s “The Myth of Male Power” very nicely de constructs the patriarchy myth with the facts of reality. It’s very sobering.

Thanks for sharing. You’ll enjoy your freedom to present your ideas and experiences here.

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Good intro, I’m sorry you had to go through the cycle of things before you tasted the red pill. But you’re story inspires and offers insight to other men.
Here’s a PDF link for the manipulated man. We deserve to be educated and prepared for what this feminized world will throw at us.
https://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf

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