Paying For Women to Spend Time With You

[BDParticipant 1146]

I had to bring this up,

Since coming into the Mgtow community, I just cannot bring myself to spend any money on a woman.

Every time I meet a girl she asks me to buy her a drink, or dinner, or she goes directly into interrogating me about my financial potential/resources. It’s the same verbal diarrhoea from all of them.

I’ve dated dozens of women, and it always eventually comes down to them wanting custody or access to my resources, it is always in the end, about money.

I feel that I am disrespecting myself if I have to pay for anyone to spend time with me. I just flat out refuse to participate is this social prostitution.

Does anyone else feel this way or?

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[J.D SilvernailParticipant 383]

That is the very definition of prostitution. Next time those women ask you to pay for everything just say “thats rude”.

I'm married to the game,but she broke her vows.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Women can f~~~ off, I’m not their ATM or their emotional punching bag.  Most women aren’t worth my time even if they paid their own way.  She would have to be pretty special for me to spend time with her.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

BD wrote:

I had to bring this up, Since coming into the Mgtow community, I just cannot bring myself to spend any money on a woman. Every time I meet a girl she asks me to buy her a drink, or dinner, or she goes directly into interrogating me about my financial potential/resources. It’s the same verbal diarrhoea from all of them. I’ve dated dozens of women, and it always eventually comes down to them wanting custody or access to my resources, it is always in the end, about money. I feel that I am disrespecting myself if I have to pay for anyone to spend time with me. I just flat out refuse to participate is this social prostitution. Does anyone else feel this way or?

I’d pay to spend time with you …. buy you a beer … maybe a cheeseburger 😆

You get to the point where all the crap … the side shows … are revealed.

Dinner, drinks, cinema …. weekends away etc. In reality they are different forms of money extraction.

Not only that, you have to spend time (money) coming up with new s~~~ so you don’t bore her.

That’s why in the end I just went for hookers & escorts.

It’s exactly the same. You f~~~ and then think … what a waste 😃

Just like being married but on your time and on your terms.

I glad hookers don’t stick around and chat after … saves me thinking on how to eject them.

[RennieParticipant]

…is like the guy at school who was offering people money to hang around with him.

[BDParticipant 1146]

ILiveAgain wrote:

I’d pay to spend time with you …. buy you a beer … maybe a cheeseburger You get to the point where all the crap … the side shows … are revealed. Dinner, drinks, cinema …. weekends away etc. In reality they are different forms of money extraction. Not only that, you have to spend time (money) coming up with new s~~~ so you don’t bore her. That’s why in the end I just went for hookers & escorts. It’s exactly the same. You f~~~ and then think … what a waste Just like being married but on your time and on your terms. I glad hookers don’t stick around and chat after … saves me thinking on how to eject them.

ILiveagain, always funny, great post! I like your analogy of the hookers!

Crazy Canuck wrote:

She would have to be pretty special for me to spend time with her.

Totally agree CrazyCanuck

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[RoyDalParticipant]

BD wrote:

I feel that I am disrespecting myself if I have to pay for anyone to spend time with me. I just flat out refuse to participate is this social prostitution.

Does anyone else feel this way or?

Yes.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 12]

I totally agree with you. When I was still in my transition point between Blue and Red pill I considered the Sugar Daddy thing, I thought I could find a lady to spend some time with, have a date all the way I want it to be. Romantic fantasies basically. But the self entitlement of those women just put me off as well as finding out I have more pride and self esteem than I thought I did. I chatted with a few women but never spent anything.

Buying “friends” or “dates” is sadder than buying sex in my opinion.

The other thing that really stuck with me was many of these women wanted a man they had chemistry with, so in other words they want to be paid to spend time with a man that they like anyway! How f~~~ed up is that? Male vs Female s~~~ aside for a moment, on a Human level that is just so wrong.

Funny story, there was one woman, a big woman who was saying on her profile that she had had enough of dating and a lack of romance so she is now looking for a sugar daddy to treat her right and isn’t ashamed to be seen with her. Ummmmm honey if you can’t find a man for free…..

 

 

[Anonymous 11]

BD wrote:

I feel that I am disrespecting myself if I have to pay for anyone to spend time with me.

I completely agree BD as that is the unquestionable truth. I’ve heard a few over the years say they felt like whores working guys that way so logically they are capable of processing it.

They do it, because they can simply get away with doing it. There is an army of fools that will gladly pay to have a few a drips of meager female attention so they pretty much have come to expect it.

I would not give a plugged nickel for a woman to spend time with me now that I have finally become wiser. I treat them exactly as I would a man. If the relationship is not reciprocal, I will cut that person out of my life.

[narwhalParticipant]

This is a minor issue in my opinion.  For one thing, most of the women I’ve gone out with have made an attempt to meet me half way on expenses.  Perhaps it’s an age thing or demographics, but it’s never been that big of  a problem.  Besides that, I usually have fun on my dates.    Paying a little more isn’t going to set me back all that much.

As for women getting an idea of my financial status, that doesn’t bother me either.  It isn’t just about resource she may want from me, it could very well be that she doesn’t want to be financially dragged down herself.   Women don’t want someone else’s debt either.  They don’t want a guy that can’t afford to pay for himself to the type of places she wants to go.  Besides, knowing that I might have some money to spend doesn’t mean that she’s going to be able to work her way into that money.  I’m not concerned about that in the least.

And honestly, I want to get an idea of what her financial situation is for the same reasons.  She can be a hairdresser if that’s what she loves to do, but she better be prepared to live off a hairdressers salary, not mine.

 

Ok. Then do it.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

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I feel that I am disrespecting myself if I have to pay for anyone to spend time with me.

Feel the exact same way, I won’t even spend a dollar on a broad, I won’t hold a door open, I won’t let her through in traffic, I won’t help her move s~~~.
Bitches are on their own from my circumstance.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[experiencedParticipant]

Always a losing deal. If they sense that they’ll fail at a financial negotiation, they will go for your self-esteem, sensing failure at that, they will try to destroy your reputation.   Hell hath no fury as a c~~~.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Be Her DaddyParticipant 410]

I refer to them as $10 an hour prostitutes. The last girl I dated was actually an $8.52 an hour prostitute and this is because I keep the dates really cheap. Coffee the first date, the same local bar with free live music and no mixed drinks the second and then hiking, the beach or some other free activity the third and then I invite them over and cook them dinner. I do not waste any time planning dates or spending money on women.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Years ago, before my mgtow transition, I may it clear to the trollops that they had to pay for their own meals if ever we went out to eat.

 

[BDParticipant 1146]

Anonymous wrote:

women wanted a man they had chemistry with,

Ha! What is a woman’s definition of chemistry then? Is chemistry defined by how well they can access your resources?

narwhal wrote:

have made an attempt to meet me half way on expenses.

Be Her Daddy wrote:

I refer to them as $10 an hour prostitutes. The last girl I dated was actually an $8.52 an hour prostitute

Interesting that you worked it out that way! My dad worked it out once and he calculated per stroke.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

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