Passive Aggressive

[Anonymous 0]

For many years I used to think ‘Passive Aggressive’ was describing someone that was all nice and friendly and compliant (passive) but would fly into rages and nasty scary conflict at random (aggressive)
I don’t want to sound like an arm-chair psychologist wanker and i’m sure that most readers here know the meaning of ‘passive-aggressive’, but I’ve heard so many around me (not here so much) lately misuse the term.
So let me give you my definition/example of passive/aggressive and share yours if you fancy.

“Hey you lazy c~~~, you never do the dishes, so do the f~~~ing dishes before i get home and if you don’t, i will kick you in the b~~~~!!!
The approach that this person has decided to use to encourage the other person to do the dishes is aggressive accompanied by the threat of further aggression.
Ok so the passive/aggressive response is

I really want to get this person back, i really want to p~~~ them off, so, i wont punch them in the head for speaking to me like a piece of s~~~, i just won’t do the dishes, that will really p~~~ them off!!
So i am being aggressive (retaliating or attacking) by doing NOTHING (being passive). Thats passive/aggressive. We all can do it at times. Some people even deserve coping it if they cant read other clues to their stupid behaviour.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

If a woman asks you to do something and you say NO you will be labelled Passive Aggressive. That’s all it takes. I’ve experienced this at work when a lazy colleague tried to palm some of her tasks onto me. I just said no and the snowflake exposing way too much clevage could not fathom that I wouldn’t comply, because VAGINA. Fast-foward a year and I was promoted and she was let go once the men in the firm stopped covering up her incompetence.

But hey, the British probably labelled Ghandi as a Passive Agressive during India’s Salt March so I wouldn’t sweat the term too much.

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[bladeParticipant]

Just having a dick these days means ya passive aggressive.

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[Anonymous 54]

Im no expert, but passive aggressive is where their form of agressesion is to do nothing.Being a little late on purpose. Leaveing the dirty dishes knowing it will p~~~ you off.They are not litterly agressive.

Being nice, then a nasty side appears is more of a mood swing disorder like bi- polar.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

You’re standing in the kitchen WAITING patiently to use the sink holding a handful of dirty dishes, and the lil sweety won’t get out of the way as she takes her sweet ass time washing and drying her hands.

The lil cutie tells you that she’s ready to go. So, you tell her that you will be waiting for her in he car, and she lets you WAIT there for more then a “few” minutes while she f~~~s off inside the house.

These are examples of what I consider to be “passive aggressive” behavior, but I’m no shrink, and I may be misusing the term. In other words, maybe these are just examples of your typical self-centered lil sweety being a thoughtless clueless bitch.

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[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Awakened wrote:

These are examples of what I consider to be “passive aggressive” behavior, but I’m no shrink, and I may be misusing the term. In other words, maybe these are just examples of your typical self-centered lil sweety being a thoughtless clueless bitch.

Either way works for me…all I know, is after such events, I would say something at times about how it was bulls~~~ & she would then act high & mighty, and tell me I was the one being passive aggressive & coming across like I was better than her…would always twist s~~~ on me to “win” the argument.

Ironic to me.

[Anonymous 54]

Awakened wrote:

You’re standing in the kitchen WAITING patiently to use the sink holding a handful of dirty dishes, and the lil sweety won’t get out of the way as she takes her sweet ass time washing and drying her hands.

The lil cutie tells you that she’s ready to go. So, you tell her that you will be waiting for her in he car, and she lets you WAIT there for more then a “few” minutes while she f~~~s off inside the house.

These are examples of what I consider to be “passive aggressive” behavior, but I’m no shrink, and I may be misusing the term. In other words, maybe these are just examples of your typical self-centered lil sweety being a thoughtless clueless bitch.

Yes this is my interpratation of it also.

Women will say anything they think will shame you.

Who gives a f~~~ what they think!

I wish people wouldnt miss use Pyscological terms.

[Anonymous 3]

I thought passive aggressive was attacking someone and then pretending you didn’t, to keep them from responding to you in the same way. So when they say something about your obvious insults, you pretend you didn’t do anything and lie right in their face, and act like they’re the ones making a scene.

Needless to say, it is what women and manginas do, because they would get wrecked in a real, honest conflict.

[narwhalParticipant]

I tend to think of it as taking an indirect approach to accomplishing the goal you want to achieve, or provide false reasons, true or otherwise, for wanting something to happen instead of admitting the actual reason. In some cases, they will deny wanting what they want, yet punish you if you don’t give them what they want.

From what I’ve seen, people (usually women) do this for three main reasons:
– They realize a direct approach will not work.
– They do not want to be judged for wanting what they want
– They cannot risk admitting to themselves what kind of
person they really are.

A woman will tell you she doesn’t want flowers for V-day. She understand that telling you she does will make her look bad and may turn you away, so she pretends she doesn’t want them. When the day comes and you give her nothing, she will silently resent you and find ways to punish you for your behavior, without saying why.

Ok. Then do it.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

blade wrote:

Just having a dick these days means ya passive aggressive.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Definition of passive aggressive = my marriage.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[experiencedParticipant]

Man, when trying to find the definition below, all female written sources slammed the male for this behavior. Go Figgur.

Correct, IMO:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Passive+Aggressive

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[Anonymous 54]

What ever it is, I dont like it. I like directness.

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