Passing "MY" home onto my son when I die !!

[Animal InstinctsParticipant 6]

Ok newbie on here but VERY experienced but with a thought that bugs the s~~~ outta me.

From the Uk, quick run down.
Got involved , got used, she got pregnant we got married, my money disappeared and we divorced , that was in 1998, I paid her to get out the house. Been happily single since, using and abusing whenever I need but more important things in life than a warm hole for Mr Floppy.

Ok so heres the thing, I paid her half the profit on the house to get her out way back then, never wanted a woman to move in with me after that as I was a tad concerned that if she got me by the short and curlys she could have half as well and that would leave me paying twice for my house… 3.5 years left and its all mine and my lad is now coming up for 22 and has a g/friend, that got me thinking about if i left everything for him when I die and that went into his relationship and she f~~~ed him off then she would then have half of what Ive paid for…..

For me that destroys the idea of leaving something to make my sons life easier after ive gone if you know what i mean.

Nice to meet you all btw

I like being single, I’m always there when I need me.

[Anonymous 25]

Put the house into a trust in your will for your son. that way the trust owns it and not your son. the trust owns it, for his benefit. so, gold digging hoe can’t take anything. they might try, but they will fail

make sure you do it properly though and see a good solicitor if that’s what you decide to do. There’s probably an added bonus of doing that, you might be able to get around inheritance tax rules. I’m not a specialist in that area, but I know a solicitor who did it and his wife divorced him and she got nothing

[DwightDavidParticipant 859]

Welcome! Sorry I have no advice to give, but I understand your dilemma, and it would bother me too. Unless you can show him the ways of MGTOW.

[Animal InstinctsParticipant 6]

Thanks Machiavelli.. Seems the only way to go given a quick search online.. So long gone are the days of looking after our own in our culture. Maybe if I’m lucky enough to have a couple or three years notice before I die and my son is doing ok I can sell up and go out in a blaze of glory…. Now there’s a thought !

I like being single, I’m always there when I need me.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Anonymous wrote:

Put the house into a trust in your will for your son. that way the trust owns it and not your son. the trust owns it, for his benefit. so, gold digging hoe can’t take anything. they might try, but they will fail

make sure you do it properly though and see a good solicitor if that’s what you decide to do. There’s probably an added bonus of doing that, you might be able to get around inheritance tax rules. I’m not a specialist in that area, but I know a solicitor who did it and his wife divorced him and she got nothing

Sad thing is that I expect she’ll find a way, or the laws will change so women can still take half of a man’s stuff.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Animal InstinctsParticipant 6]

Can see where your coming from Nerevar. I figure that if he sells up whilst involved (married or has kids from it)his screwed and if a profit comes from house eg. He just rents it out and puts the proceeds into the relationship, all kinds of s~~~ can happen but without looking into the trust thing at great depth who knows. Where there’s a will there’s a way

I like being single, I’m always there when I need me.

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