Parental Alienation Is Abuse

[JosephParticipant 9]

My friend/boss is being attacked by his ex-wife, please support and help him….. His story is really sad and he’s such an amazing father/man/friend/boss. Read his experience dealing with the witch (with all due respect as I love this man as a friend!) >>>>>

https://www.gofundme.com/parental-alienation-is-abuse

I am fighting for my four children. My wife of 23 years was found having an affair with the physician of our 12 year old Type 1 diabetic daughter. Given our many years of marriage which brought us four beautiful children (4, 12, 12, 14 at the time), I tried to reconcile with her through several counselors over 3 years. She never accepted “ownership” of her betrayal or how it impacted me as a human being. I was not allowed to speak with her about it or even have a heart-to-heart with her. Counselors and therapists could also make no progress.

At first, she blamed the other man. And then, she blamed her parents and then she finally blamed me. I absorbed 2 years of verbal and emotional abuse, with our children too often hearing her demean and smear me in front of them. Because I believed she was responsible for her own behavior, I was labelled a “threat” and a “danger”. Out of the blue, I came home one day from a session as a State Representative, to be notified by the local police that the mother of our children had filed a protection from abuse order. That is when the Parental Alienation first began. False allegations followed by forced separation from our four children, my best friends in the world.

It has taken several years of counseling and therapy for me to understand why she behaved this way, the nature of personality disorders, and why she is susceptible to acting out by alienating the children from their loving, responsible father. In order for me to re-establish a normal relationship with all four children and protect their long-term emotional well-being, I need to engage a forensic psychologist. Fortunately, the judge in our divorce case took my words and testimony to heart and insisted on a psychological evaluation of the family dynamic.

Children deserve to have a loving relationship with both their mother and father, even in the case of divorce. It is a God given blessing. The longer this situation persists, the more damage it can cause to these children. Children of Parental Alienation have a much higher incidence of self-abuse: drugs, sex, self-mutilation, and suicide. I was shattered when I was informed by one of our child’s counselors a few months ago that they had expressed “suicidal ideation”. No parent should ever hear those words.

I am blocked from seeing my kids, other than 1 hour a week at a local fast-food restaurant, because of this disturbed mother’s false allegations of abuse. (I can tell you with 100% confidence that I have no criminal record or drunk driving violations, no driving accidents. The last speeding ticket I had was from well over 10 years ago. Public records verify this.) When I am with my children for these brief moments, they are engaged, smiling, sharing. And then I see sadness cross their faces as the time nears for us to part, especially my 8 year old daughter. She drew the picture I posted with this appeal, shortly after I was first separated from her. She had never before drawn a picture of a crying girl. Like most little kids, her pictures were always sunny, bright, rainbows, horses, herself and her dad.

I appeal to you for the funds needed to pay for the forensic psychologist, psychological evaluation and legal fees to re-gain normal visitation rights with our children. To date, I have spent over $65,000.00 of my personal funds on legal fees and mental health services for our children and myself during this period of alienation. I am confident that following the psychological evaluation the court will have the information they need to make a visitation decision that is in the best interests of our children. The funds will be needed starting in February 2019.

Parental Alienation is a form of psychological child abuse (DSM 5). It can happen to both mothers and fathers, usually during the course of a divorce. It is terribly damaging to the well-being of children. It is soul crushing to the parent who goes from having a happy, normal, loving relationship with his/her children to suddenly being feared and avoided by those same children. Parental Alienation is a form of psychological and emotional manipulation by a personality disordered parent who fears “abandonment”, triggered by a life altering event like divorce.

I thank you in advance for considering my situation and what I am trying to do to help re-unite with my children. I am not alone. This problem is growing, the family courts are not up to speed yet on how to confront this situation. There are many men (and women) who are in the same situation today. You can find many examples on the internet and YouTube if you search for Parental Alienation. I have engaged two of the top experts in the Northeast to help me and our children reunite and become whole again.

There is nothing more sacred that I have experienced than the unique bond between a parent and his child. Imagine if all of your children were suddenly kidnapped, yet you knew where they were but you were powerless to save them. I am asking you to help me save these children from an abusive situation and prevent any further emotional damage to them. I will not stop until they are saved. No parent would give up. Yes, they can be saved and reunited and have a loving relationship with both parents.

It is humbling to say, but I need your help. You will be changing the world of four innocent and loving children. It is impossible to describe my gratitude for any help at all. My children will thank you too, a long time from now when they have the maturity to understand what their dad and your support did to help them. May God bless you.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

NIGER GET A JOB!

You think the rest of us just got here? F~~~ YOU! You want help, YOU GO WORK 24 hours day just to do it all over again!

YOUR ASS LIVIES IN A FUCJKING HOUSE! SOme of the men here did without for YEARS! ANd here you are BEGGING US FOR MOENY!

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You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[JosephParticipant 9]

Wow. You must be a troll! Real men wouldn’t start off with mindless rants. I’m starting to think that you’re a woman!!

[HermitParticipant]

Joseph, while his post may seem a bit rude, it also seems fitting. You’ve been here since 2016 and you’ve not even established yourself with your 2 or 3 posts, yet you believe it’s appropriate to beg for money on here? You haven’t contributed anything since you’ve joined two and half years ago and you think anyone here is going to help someone we don’t even know?

If you had spent any time on this site at all, you’d know that he is certainly not a troll. Also, your “real men” statement makes you sound like a woman.

Very lame.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

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The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[JosephParticipant 9]

Hi, I completely understand your perspective but I’ve been busy with work and don’t have the time to use social media. My friend told me his story and I, under my own accord, remembered about MGTOW and decided to get help for him here. When did this manly landing page become an emotional punching bag? I thought that this was the place for men to come to when we had counterpart issues. I guess MGTOW isn’t what it was when I first joined. SMH 🙁

[HermitParticipant]

Joseph wrote:

Hi, I completely understand your perspective but I’ve been busy with work and don’t have the time to use social media. My friend told me his story and I, under my own accord, remembered about MGTOW and decided to get help for him here. When did this manly landing page become an emotional punching bag? I thought that this was the place for men to come to when we had counterpart issues. I guess MGTOW isn’t what it was when I first joined. SMH

Since you first joined, we’ve had a lot of infiltrators, actual trolls and females. This causes established members to be cautious, especially with someone who has a very minimal post count and especially when they are asking for something.

I’ve witnessed a lot of bulls~~~ that has happened on this sight since I’ve been a member. I’ve seen it change a lot in just a short amount of time. It probably is quite a bit different from what you remember back in 2016.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[JosephParticipant 9]

I understand my friend. Thank you for being respectful and not using racial slurs. I’m not here to take monies away from anyone, I just want to make sure that my friend doesn’t lose his mind…… He’s already lost his house, children, company and so-called friends. Again, thank you Hermit! Also, I know that trolls tend to ruin EVERYTHING that’s good, hence why I avoid social media. Best of everything to you brother!

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Sooo sad, im gonna cry… No wait, just gas.

F~~~ YOUUUUUUUU.

cant deal with it anymore?
pull a kurt cobain.

Hope your ex wife get a few tyrones over, tie you up and f~~~ you all night, then you guys will have something on common.

Welcome to hell mother f~~~er.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Joseph wrote:

I understand my friend. Thank you for being respectful and not using racial slurs. I’m not here to take monies away from anyone, I just want to make sure that my friend doesn’t lose his mind…… He’s already lost his house, children, company and so-called friends. Again, thank you Hermit! Also, I know that trolls tend to ruin EVERYTHING that’s good, hence why I avoid social media. Best of everything to you brother!

I hope he does, i hope he does something funny worth reading on the news. Lets face it, guy is a mangina, mom is a total psychopath (lack of empathy, lier, imposibility to accept responsability), kids have bad genes, bad parental models and a f~~~ed up society, most probable outcome TOTAL TRAIN WRECKT.

hope they all die.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[HermitParticipant]

Joseph wrote:

I understand my friend. Thank you for being respectful and not using racial slurs. I’m not here to take monies away from anyone, I just want to make sure that my friend doesn’t lose his mind…… He’s already lost his house, children, company and so-called friends. Again, thank you Hermit! Also, I know that trolls tend to ruin EVERYTHING that’s good, hence why I avoid social media. Best of everything to you brother!

I lost my mind a long time ago during the marriage along with my house after the divorce. Starting all over again was a little difficult, but it was certainly worth it.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[JosephParticipant 9]

I wish that he and you could talk so that he can be convinced that there is light beyond the tunnel! BTW, what the f~~~ is going on here? This place has become a cesspool! When I first became a member, there were people of profession here, now all that I see is “youtube” like comments! WTF!!

[Gravel PitParticipant]

In any event, this account by a father screwed over by the courts is just another example of why Going Your Own Way is a glorious and totally justified move.

Not that Im trying to tell men what to do, but it may be a great idea to:

Don’t seek relations~~~s with women. Why the f~~~ do you need a woman in your life? Think about that.

Don’t cohabitate. Your own personal space is very important to maintain sanity and safety for YOU, so that you can provide for YOURSELF. I would NEVER let a woman in my condo (apart from my old mother or old aunt). Luckily my sister inlaws have no desire to visit my home. Don’t invite women in your home, no s~~~!

Don’t have sex because it leads to children. Sorry but do you really need a cuddle and a f~~~? I just masturbate. Get a doll if you must or use a prostitute. Sex just opens the door for so much risk: physically, emotionally, legally and financially. Many men look back and realize, “needing sex” was their biggest mistake.

Women are a scam. Evo-psych speaking and just plain common sense… take an objective appraisal of what the modern woman’s motives and behaviors are. She is a threat to you, not some cuddly lil harmless f~~~ buddy…she is poisonous. Do you really need that?

Don’t mingle with women because once you’re on a first name basis, you’re just some guy she can blame s~~~ on etc..

Dont help women. Ghost them. Don’t offer your service or your help, AT ALL. There are so many white knight stories that end in hell. You went to help move a couch and somehow got hooked for 18 years of child support or lost your home a year later… LOL. all because …

Hide your wealth (not that any of us have any wealth but if you do own your home, dont tell women that).

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY…. SAVES LIVES

[HermitParticipant]

Joseph wrote:

I wish that he and you could talk so that he can be convinced that there is light beyond the tunnel! BTW, what the f~~~ is going on here? This place has become a cesspool! When I first became a member, there were people of profession here, now all that I see is “youtube” like comments! WTF!!

There is always light at the end of the tunnel. Twice in my life I was a coward and put a loaded gun to my head, the last time happening when I was married and saw no way out. Sure glad I smartened up because both situations were not as bad as I thought. Things always get better. The s~~~ty times are definitely no fun, but since then I’ve learned and always try to remember to just keep a positive attitude and as my son was taught in basic training, “embrace the suck” during those times that suck. Embrace it, laugh at it and just be a man and keep moving forward. Don’t know if you or he are spiritual men, but I always try to look to God and have faith that He will help and He does.

There are still some decent people here, but like I said, a lot has changed, too much to even begin to try to tell you all the stories.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[narwhalParticipant]

Assuming the story is true, than it is rather sad. However, I don’t know that it’s true. I also don’t know that any money I give will be used wisely. From what I read (I didn’t read the whole thing) your friend got himself in a horrible situation by not realizing that his marriage was over the second she cheated. He continued to believe, for years, that his wife would take responsibility for her actions, when nothing she did indicated that she would. In fact, divorcing her, giving her what she deserved, would have been the best thing he could have do for her, since she believed her actions didn’t deserve consequences.

So no, not giving any money. I tend not to give to charities and certainly won’t do so blindly. Hope your friend finds a way out of this and learns from his mistakes.

Ok. Then do it.

[HermitParticipant]

narwhal wrote:

Assuming the story is true, than it is rather sad. However, I don’t know that it’s true. I also don’t know that any money I give will be used wisely. From what I read (I didn’t read the whole thing) your friend got himself in a horrible situation by not realizing that his marriage was over the second she cheated. He continued to believe, for years, that his wife would take responsibility for her actions, when nothing she did indicated that she would. In fact, divorcing her, giving her what she deserved, would have been the best thing he could have do for her, since she believed her actions didn’t deserve consequences.
So no, not giving any money. I tend not to give to charities and certainly won’t do so blindly. Hope your friend finds a way out of this and learns from his mistakes.

No one gave me any money when I was forced from my home and I had to start over. I had to take out a large some of money from my retirement and then I had to pay a huge penalty tax for doing so. I’m just glad I could get to that money when I needed it, otherwise, I don’t know what I would’ve done.

Oh well, things are better now. Life is good and we’re supposed to get a large bonus this year where I work. That will certainly help me be more financially stable.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[JosephParticipant 9]

Thanks for the kind words and verbal support for my friend, Narwhal!

[JosephParticipant 9]

I never get on social media as it tends to go downhill fairly quickly. However, I appreciate you and if you ever need to talk feel free to send me a message bud!

[JosephParticipant 9]

Amen to that brother!

[HermitParticipant]

Joseph wrote:

I never get on social media as it tends to go downhill fairly quickly. However, I appreciate you and if you ever need to talk feel free to send me a message bud!

To whom are you speaking, Carnage or Mickey?

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

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