This place is insane. Did you know a single Mom can claim anyone as a father and CA mails a verification demand and if there is no reply a default judgement is entered awarding child support from whatever recipient she names?
Thanks Michael. I didnât know this. So a woman can get a default judgement awarding child support just for making a claim? Damn. I hope this does not spread to other states. Thanks for the heads up. This red pill will be good for a week or so.
I’m not a family law attorney so anyone feel free to correct me if I’m wrong. My understanding is this:
When a CA single mother has the kid in the hospital without the father present she names him or suffers the humiliation of telling everyone at hospital she don’t know who da baby daddy is. Then a birth certificate is created with the “biological fathers name”and added to the birth file.
Miss single mother and baby leave the hospital. Later… she goes to file for child support and they ask for the biological fathers name and last known address. This name is checked against the hospital record as “proof” of the fathers name.
Then CA mails a notice/demand to the “father’s” address with an opportunity to contest within a certain time period. All of this assumes you still live at the address she gave them. This letter is your first chance to contest.
If no response is received a default judgment is automatically entered granting baby mama your cash. If she has your current employers name a demand for child support withholding (wage garnishment) is issued to your current employer. If she has your SS number and you have a new employer or you’re unemployed and they do not get a response the CA FTB puts a lien against your bank account (in all 50 states) and steals your money. If you ain’t got no money they put a tracer on your SS number so your wages are automatically garnished for any new job you get.
In other words you banged this slut 9+ months ago, moved to another state then wake up one day and your bank account is frozen or/and funds have been deducted the CA FTB based on whatever amount baby mamma told CA DCSS was your “estimated income”.
So you call the CA FTB and wait 2 hours on hold and they say “Sir we have the documents from CA DCSS and your name matches the hospital records stating you’re the father and you never responded to our official letters”.
Now you’re forced to fight it. The process is bureaucratic and costly which means you do it yourself or forced to hire an attorney. If it gets to the point where they already give her your money the only option is to take CA DCSS final ruling on your case to civil court and sue her for a judgement – assuming she still has your “child support” money and it was not spent on fake boobs, new shoes and designer purses.
And even if she does find the real father his child support cannot be taken to pay your civil judgement nor can her welfare, housing stipends, student loans, SSI or other government related disability money be taken to reimburse you. That means if you win a judgment in civil court – baby mama has no incentive to get a job.
And the best part about all of this? Here it is: There are ZERO repercussions against baby mama for labeling YOU as the father and signing all those official looking CA government forms that read “I hereby declare under penalty of perjury”.
Untamed 3 years, 11 months ago.
