Overcoming Vasectomy Fears

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    The_Young
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    I’m in my very early 20’s. I am past the point of wanting to get married and have children.. However, I still have regular sex however, and I make stupid choices (no condoms due to sensitivity problems). Its an addiction for me at this point.

    But what if I change my mind 20 years from now? I’ll have gained so much knowledge, what if I want to pass it on and experience fatherhood through a surrogate wife?

    But then again, I am terribly afraid a woman would have my child against my will. My life would be ruined

    Its difficult to come up with a decision. I know it is something I need to do but I’m not sure if I have the courage to do it.

    Brother, we need to stick together.

    #494939
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    Heave-Ho Mgtow
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    Freeze some swimmers for later. A bag of frozen peas, a jock strap and some beers and your good to go

    skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

    #494948
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    MarketWatcher
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    I make stupid choices

    Do you?

    no condoms

    Oh……

    #494950
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    MarketWatcher
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    Freeze some swimmers for later.

    A real solution believe it or not.

    #494989
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    IRuleMe
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    I’m in my very early 20’s. I am past the point of wanting to get married and have children.. However, I still have regular sex however, and I make stupid choices (no condoms due to sensitivity problems). Its an addiction for me at this point.

    But what if I change my mind 20 years from now? I’ll have gained so much knowledge, what if I want to pass it on and experience fatherhood through a surrogate wife?

    But then again, I am terribly afraid a woman would have my child against my will. My life would be ruined

    Its difficult to come up with a decision. I know it is something I need to do but I’m not sure if I have the courage to do it.

    You can’t be that big of a dumbass. You’re playing with fire. You’re asking to knock a girl up and be liable for child support. Even if she’s using birth control is no guarantee. Hell, using a condom itself is the least effective form of birth control. You can pull out early all you want, but all it takes it one time. One time, where a little gets out before you pull out. Boom. Pregnant. If you’re gonna be a dumbass (having raw sex anyways, since you have ZERO protection from STD’s), at least be a smart dumbass and get a vasectomy.

    #494991
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    Stargazer
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    Believe me, once you get past 30 and achieve some measure of financial and personal success, your feelings about marriage and children will intensify toward the negative.

    Of course, should you always go Switch and beg the agents to slot your dumb ass back into the matrix, you can simply marry some single mother and adopt her kids. Hell, by then they will probably have a process to extract your sperm from your b~~~~ directly and plant them in your wife… you’ll still be making them, after all.

    Here’s an alternative, however. How about you go marry some nice girl and knock her up a few times, let her f~~~ around on you and take your kids and all your stuff and THEN you can go MGTOW. That way you’ll know FOR SURE where you stand on both counts.

    As Bill Burr says, if I told you we were going sky diving but that 50% of the parachutes don’t open, you’d say “I ain’t going!” So what makes you think that marriage and father hood and all that is going to work out for you? If you know the odds and already have a doubt, your best bet is to accept it fully and stay out of the game because once you know the truth, you can’t un-know it and regardless of what happens, you’ll f~~~ it up yourself out of fear, uncertainty and doubt.

    Like I tell the women who ask me if their boyfriend is gay… “If you have a suspicion, does it even matter if he is or not?”

    #495002
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    MGTOW_Mike
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    You can’t be that big of a dumbass. You’re playing with fire. You’re asking to knock a girl up and be liable for child suppor

    Also running the risk of paying child support for some other Chad’s kid, after tagging his as the baby daddy.

    A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

    #495009
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    DarkRyu
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    Jesus. I don’t know why ANYONE would be stupid enough to get a vasectomy. Just don’t stick your dick in a bitch. Problem solved. Your choices are:

    1. Don’t stick your dick in a bitch
    2. Mutilate your body and let some doctor cut up your junk

    You’d have to be f~~~ing INSANE to choose option #2. Just get a f~~~ing fleshlight. Not only is it cheaper, it’s easier with no risks and you don’t have to mutilate your own body in order to use it.

    #495016
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    Untamed
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    A vasectomy isn’t a decision to take lightly. Sure it can be reversible but only for a few years, after that it’s permanent.
    You’re still young so I wouldn’t advise it because you may want children later but if not, then I can tell you there’s nothing to be apprehensive about. The procedure is painless, on outpatient basis and there’s isn’t any discomfort the same day.
    I had it done when they operated on my abdominal hernia and I didn’t feel a thing besides pain from where the muscle had been patched up but the vasectomy itself was no sweat.
    I already have three wonderful children and I didn’t want any more, especially if they could so easily be taken away on some c~~~-sucking lawyer’s advice or the decision of some feminist mengina judge.

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #495065
    Suraxis
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    My question to all of you here is vasectomy worth it ?? i mean should MGTOW really do it ??

    #495140
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    My question to all of you here is vasectomy worth it ?? i mean should MGTOW really do it ??

    It’s definitely worth it to me, if only to have the peace of mind that some bitch won’t come around and stick me with somebody’s else progeny for 18 years.
    But it’s also worth it as I have noticed my sexual drive double up on me in so may different and beneficial ways.
    Also, I don’t see how the simple snipping of a biological tube constitutes ‘mutilation’. It doesn’t in my book and I have to say that getting a visectomy was the best thing I coulda done.

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #495147
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    Suraxis
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    alright I understand you brother

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