Opportunity to spy on a "Sologamist" wedding of ex-gf

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

About 6 weeks ago, I broke up with one of the two women that I’d been dating for about 3 months. (They didn’t know about each other). The frustrated ex didn’t understand how I could just break up with her like that and end up with another woman a month later.

(She came by my house a month post-breakup and saw the other woman weeding in my garden and found out she had the same first name as her). I still have both of my b~~~~ attached, so the brief introduction they must have had must have precluded a timeline.

Anyhow, the ex-gf by text announced that “she is done” with men, and is going to marry herself next month at a certain big garden center. Now the ex-gf didn’t see me at my house, and I am all goateed up now. I am fairly sure I could go there incognito (big shades, hat, different clothes, my goatee) and film the ceremony incognito.

Anyone have an interest in watching a female “marry herself” ? I have a morbid curiosity about that sort of lunacy.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Ranger One wrote:

Anyone have an interest in watching a female “marry herself” ? I have a morbid curiosity about that sort of lunacy.

Nope. ‘Cause lunacy. But, if it’s your thing, enjoy.

[bladeParticipant]

Oh boy . This won’t end well thats for sure . 2 woman (head down shaking and laughing )

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[AutoliteParticipant]

I can’t see anything good coming from this. I would go out of my way to avoid any interaction or any type of contact at all with an ex.

Maybe that’s just me…

[Anonymous 42]

blade wrote:

This won’t end well thats for sure . 2 woman (head down shaking and laughing )

(Two heads down shaking and laughing!)

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Well I dated them from late December and then broke up with the one at the beginning of April. (The Asian one)

The Asian ex-gf had been sporadically texting me this month and had made mention of dropping off some Asian hot pepper seedlings and of “being just friends”.

I of course suspected she was trying to get me back. Just like I suspected she would eventually want to marry me, despite both of us saying in January that neither one of us wanted to ever marry again. (I figured it was the female game of “say one thing, then try to get me to change my mind”)

The Asian ex-gf was offended I got a “new” gf so soon. But there is not now TWO women; I just have one gf. Since the other one lives about 30 miles away, it makes it much less likely the ex-gf will see her again.

I suspect the ex-gf needs some sort of closure and I think I’ve figured out the best angle to avoid ex-gf problems is to paint myself as an unattractive prize. I have no ego I issues, so I will bring up anything to that end: I have Asperger’s Syndrome, I have no money for vacations, etc. She obviously has issues considering how she insulted me about the new gf (she is older, she is ugly, etc) and is going to “marry herself” in a ceremony.

I had to google that last bit; I’ve heard of that crazy before. I’d love to film it. I’m good at going incognito. It’d make an awesome video for the archives. It sounds like it will be a mostly female thing. (her and female friends).

Since it is at a big garden place (membership & admission fee kind of place) with fountains, etc, I can get away with having video or camera to record.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

AVOID at ALL COST !!

This one is Definitely Bat S~~~ Crazy !!!

She just can’t go her own way, and Not date, She has to MARRY HERSELF ????

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Let it go.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

AVOID at ALL COST !!

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Let it go.

This thread got me thinking about ex-GFs. There isn’t one today that I would ever want to meet-up with again. Not even to go for a coffee. My last ex I would deliberately avoid at all cost!

I feel bad for the guys that still have to deal with their ex-wives because of the kids. I’m I the only one here that feels like this???

[Anonymous 43]

why would you choose to s~~~ upon yourself in this stupid way?

[BoarParticipant]

By your post, I see you have been married and divorced. And you still continue to date bat s~~~ crazy. Haven’t you had enough?

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

You know what’s funny? My first ex-wife has lost enough weight and the second ex-wife has gained enough that I think their weight over time graph lines may have crossed.

Both my current ex-gf (Asian) and my current gf (white) are both size 5/6.

Is a good point about avoiding the ex-gf. I’m starting to suspect that it may drag things out if I have any contact with the ex.

I’m wondering that it might not be an issue of closure with her, but with her still thinking she might get me back. She might want me back, just so she can break up with me, because I think it really stuck in her craw that I dared to break up with HER.

She might want me back because she is having ‘gina tingles and wants me to make her grunt again. (Dating her, I finally understood exactly what “Uhn Tiss Uhn Tiss” meant in that Bloodhound Gang song).

In any case, it’d be an annoyance if she tried to break me and the current gf up. The current gf likes gardening (not a faked hobby) and actually has helped me weed 3 of my 9 gardens. Interestingly, turns out she also likes train modeling; I saw some of the stuff she helped her Dad build in HO. (Her Dad has a huge HO setup in his basement).

I haven’t done anything with my N-gauge stuff since my youngest son damaged a C&O caboose about 9 years ago.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Boar wrote:

By your post, I see you have been married and divorced. And you still continue to date bat s~~~ crazy. Haven’t you had enough?

Well the Asian ex-gf was fairly generous and looked towards her own finances, so it didn’t cost me much to date her. I broke up with her because I sniffed out like 1 part per million of crazy from her, and I sensed eventually she’d leave because of my limited means (she owns about 10 houses) so I figured I’d leave first.

The white gf has more interests in common with me, and actually has directly helped me with stuff. (her helping me weed the house gardens and the center garden has essentially opened a window of opportunity for me, and I should be able to roll back the weeds in the main garden by the end of June, no small thing)

At this point, things have been really even while dating… we usually split stuff evenly and she may have actually paid for more stuff for me, than me for her. She’s not anti-gun (she has her own Glock), and has helped her Dad build models for his train setup, so I know she has actual interests that are similar to mine, as opposed to simply faking interest.

I’ve chosen to have one gf because she fits into my lifestyle. I got rid of the other gf because I deemed her to not fit into my lifestyle as well and because I got a tiny trace amount of crazy from her.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

BlacqueJacqueShellacque wrote:

Nope. ‘Cause lunacy.

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Let it go.

Boar wrote:

By your post, I see you have been married and divorced. And you still continue to date bat s~~~ crazy. Haven’t you had enough?

Avoid ALL weddings. Especially the ones where women marry themselves, and thus reveal their selfish characters for all to see. She expects you to show up.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Ranger One wrote:

I’ve chosen to have one gf because she fits into my lifestyle.

It “sounds” good now, but aren’t you concerned about HER INEVITABLE CRAZY as time Goes on, and she sets her claws set in even deeper ??

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

BlacqueJacque Shellacque wrote:

Nope. ‘Cause lunacy.

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Let it go.

Boar wrote:

By your post, I see you have been married and divorced. And you still continue to date bat s~~~ crazy. Haven’t you had enough?

Avoid ALL weddings. Especially the ones where women marry themselves, and thus reveal their selfish characters for all to see. She expects you to show up.

Well, I am amused by weddings now. My take on them, is about the same as Rick’s take in “Rick and Morty” — “Weddings are just funerals with cake”.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Awakened wrote:

rangerone314 wrote:

I’ve chosen to have one gf because she fits into my lifestyle.

It “sounds” good now, but aren’t you concerned about HER INEVITABLE CRAZY as time Goes on, and she sets her claws set in even deeper ??

Well, the claws would be only in her mind. I’m just a mirror, or like the Cave in the Allegory of the Cave. The romance is in her head only. I’ve changed. I don’t have emotional feelings for any woman I’ve been with since the ex-wife left last spring, nor do I have any feelings for the ex-wife either.

I chose a gf with hobbies similar to mine (gardening, guns, trains, sci-fi, zombie movies) but it is like having a guy friend who is interested in such things, except I get pussy, too. Its more efficient and I’m a guy with a lot of stuff to do, so I can’t afford time spent dating. I’ve gotten so much done, even more done since I dumped the other gf in early April. (The Asian ex-gf was more of a time-hog than the white gf, and the white gf actively helps me get stuff I need to do ahead of schedule. Plus the Asian gf didn’t do bj’s, LOL)

I can’t fall in love with any women any more since I understand them too well. So with me, I have my own male and personal version of Briffault’s Law.

“Where I can derive no benefit from association with the female, no such association takes place.”

As soon as I get exposed to any real signs of crazy, or I derive no benefit from association, I’ll leave the current gf, and she lives about 45 minutes away. And no cohabitation ever. Not even a permanent toothbrush stationed in my bathroom. That’s one of my Red Lines.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

In that case take a bullet for us and go.

If you don’t get burn and satisfied your interest then good for you.

If not we have another good example not to get involve with crazy, good for us them.

Its good either way.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10910]

I understand the curiosity but I am sure that Youtube has some videos of women marrying themselves. Why subject yourself to this? What is the pay-off?
Eventually I think this will become more mainstream and the net will be flooded with videos of narcissistic c~~~s marrying themselves. And the videos will be provided by her “friends” who won’t have to be invisible to get them. Probably from multiple angles too.
If you decide to go through with it, good luck!

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Gnostic wrote:

In that case take a bullet for us and go.

If you don’t get burn and satisfied your interest then good for you.

If not we have another good example not to get involve with crazy, good for us them.

Its good either way.

Hmmmm. Well, I have to look at how much it will cost (in both time and money). It’d be a funny video to post here, but I have to do cost-benefit analysis first. I have about a month to decide.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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