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[StealthParticipant 5378]

I have a side job working in a warehouse. One of our contractors is a young, attractive white female. The first words she ever said to me was to ask me whether I was hot. It was a summer afternoon. There was a pause as I considered how to reply, and I said I can’t talk about that while I’m working. It was an awkward but hilarious moment that drew out the sexual overtones of her seemingly innocent question, while not answering it. And life went on.

This contractor has come in a few times since, and still laughs about that first encounter. She seems mystified by my playfulness and avoidance. She asked my name and wanted to know more about me. Another woman I work with comments how she likes the vibe between us–how it seems like we are always flirting, and I should try to pursue her but she is probably too good for me, etc. I just say it’s not flirting and I’m not interested.

Recently on my day off I went out of my way to send her a message (mistake). I opened with hello it’s Stealth, wondering if you’re feeling hot today… then continued with my email. She wrote back saying that was a very creepy thing to say, and one should never, ever open with such a line, and that it’s a good thing she has a sense of humor. She was serious. And she was absolutely right. Except of course that she established this as the center point of our interactions. I would not have written it otherwise.

I said sorry not my intent. Then said I’m still laughing about when you opened this way to me (very lightly reminding her she started it). And then backed off. If I see her again at the warehouse I’ll be all business.

I know to never let them blame, shame, or tame you–but in this case I was at fault for talking to a woman any more than necessary. And for continuing a script that is, you might say, off-script. Fortunately it sounds like this won’t develop into future problems, but time will tell. Not a good position to put myself in. A tiny error, yet a big red pill. It’s amazing to me the tone of a dialogue can turn on the whim of a woman’s feelings, although I do understand that tone is more readable in person than over email.

This episode puts me one step closer to ignoring all the women all of the time. Every now and then I test to see if that’s really necessary, and it turns out that it is.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22546]

Stealth wrote:

I have a side job working in a warehouse. One of our contractors is a young, attractive white female. The first words she ever said to me was to ask me whether I was hot. It was a summer afternoon. There was a pause as I considered how to reply, and I said I can’t talk about that while I’m working. It was an awkward but hilarious moment that drew out the sexual overtones of her seemingly innocent question, while not answering it. And life went on.
This contractor has come in a few times since, and still laughs about our first encounter. She seems mystified by my playfulness and avoidance. She asked my name and wanted to know more about me. Another woman I work with comments how she likes the vibe between us–how it seems like we are always flirting, and I should try to pursue her but she is probably too good for me, etc. I just say it’s not flirting and I’m not interested.
Recently on my day off I went out of my way to send her a message (mistake). I opened with hello it’s Stealth, wondering if you’re feeling hot today… then continued with my email. She wrote back saying that was a very creepy thing to say, and one should never, ever open with such a line, and that it’s a good thing she has a sense of humor. She was serious. And she was absolutely right, except of course that she established this as a point of ongoing humor in our interactions but felt different now.
I said sorry not my intent. Then said I’m still laughing about when you opened this way to me (very lightly reminding her she started it). And then backed off. If I see her again at the warehouse I’ll be all business.
I know to never let them blame, shame, or tame you–but in this case I was at fault for talking to a woman any more than necessary. And for continuing a script that is, you might say, off-script. Fortunately it sounds like this won’t develop into future problems, but time alone will tell. It could if she wanted it to–not a good position to put myself in. A tiny error, but the possible consequences are a red pill to share. It’s amazing to me the tone of a dialogue can turn on the whim of a woman’s feelings, although I do understand that tone is more readable in person than over email.
This puts me one step closer to ignoring all the women all of the time. Every now and then I test to see if that’s really necessary, and it turns out that it is.

You are least safe when you believe you are safe.

That ought to be a f~~~ing tagline.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 5]

Thank god she reverted back to c~~~ mode so quickly before any type of relations~~~ eventuated. Her reaction would have scared away a lot of Blue Pillers, let alone Red Pillers.

It’s so easy to theoretically digest the logic and reason of the Red Pill but real life is different when you’re close to their soft silky hair, feminine voices, curves, movements, mannerisms and whifting in the pheromes.

Nice move to message back that she started the “Are you hot” theme,,,,,,just in case she decides to legally play the victim.

[BoarParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

Recently on my day off I went out of my way to send her a message (mistake). I opened with hello it’s Stealth, wondering if you’re feeling hot today… then continued with my email.

If it is in writing, you can expect a #metoo sometime before you die.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[StealthParticipant 5378]

Boar wrote:

Stealth wrote:

Recently on my day off I went out of my way to send her a message (mistake). I opened with hello it’s Stealth, wondering if you’re feeling hot today… then continued with my email.

If it is in writing, you can expect a #metoo sometime before you die.

Great, well at least I’ll die famous.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

THEY can Play around with all the “flirting” that THEY WANT until the day that THEY THINK it’s crossed the line/CREEPY, and then it’s off to HR, and you’re left being escorted off the property by security.

It’s a DANGEROUS GAME in TODAYS WORLD.

Best left for the Blue Pill SIMPS that don’t know any better.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Stealth-

First let me offer congratulations. You caught this before it really backfired.

I know a doc who was removed from hospital staff for telling one of the nurses she looked hot.

If I were in this situation, I wouldn’t say anything, except good morning.
Don’t socialize with any women at work.

Woman: “how was your weekend?”
Me: “not long enough”

Woman: “want to get a drink after work”
Me: “sorry, I’m tied up”

Woman: “I’m hot”
Me: “be sure to hydrate”

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Awakened is right. She considered you a challenge since you did not bow to her and was just practicing her skills at deception. Treat all conversations with women as if she is the opposing attorney in your ass raping divorce case. Makes one very carefull with words and how they can be used against you

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Anonymous 38]

Stealth wrote:

I said sorry not my intent. Then said I’m still laughing about when you opened this way to me (very lightly reminding her she started it). And then backed off. If I see her again at the warehouse I’ll be all business.

Well played.

US women sound like the most humourless, c~~~ish creatures alive.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22546]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

Stealth-
First let me offer congratulations. You caught this before it really backfired.
I know a doc who was removed from hospital staff for telling one of the nurses she looked hot.
If I were in this situation, I wouldn’t say anything, except good morning.Don’t socialize with any women at work.
Woman: “how was your weekend?”Me: “not long enough”
Woman: “want to get a drink after work”Me: “sorry, I’m tied up”
Woman: “I’m hot”Me: “be sure to hydrate”

dont say anything about being tied up, she may take as sexual innuendo

say you have prior plans

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 1]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

Woman: “how was your weekend?”

Quickly glance left and right, and with squinting eyes, ask, “Why, what did you hear?”

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10917]

Awakened wrote:

THEY can Play around with all the “flirting” that THEY WANT until the day that THEY THINK it’s crossed the line/CREEPY, and then it’s off to HR, and you’re left being escorted off the property by security.

That line is often THEIR line and it can be fuzzy and it moves from second to second without notice. One never knows it’s location until it’s too late. Best to avoid talking to women at work unless it’s work related and absolutely necessary.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

Woman: “I’m hot”Me: “be sure to hydrate”

I had an admin at a place I worked about 25 years ago that came up to me once in front of a group of people and leaned up against me and said “It’s SO cold in here.” She was wearing a skimpy low cut shirt and jeans. I replied with “Then maybe you should wear some more clothes.”

She walked off and I really didn’t think any more of it. Later a group of the women in the office came in and told me I was their hero for shutting her down like that. Apparently she was really flirty with all the men. I was pretty new then and didn’t really know that, although it wouldn’t have mattered.

Later found out she had herpes. Although again I wasn’t interested, it was a pretty scary wake-up call.

NEVER s~~~ where you eat. It never turns out well.

Order the good wine

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Stealth wrote:

This episode puts me one step closer to ignoring all the women all of the time.

This.

I cannot recommend this lifestyle highly enough. My peace is borderline transcendent as a result.

[Anonymous 18]

When a man flirts with a woman its akin to having an ice cream on a hot summer day.

When a woman flirts with a man it’s a s~~~ test if he is a simp or not.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

In today’s world,……it is a dangerous situation you have got yourself into. MSG/Email tied to you, that could be taken as of a sexual content and she could use at her whim. Co-workers who know of previous interactions. Good luck you are going to need it.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

How about, “I wouldn’t dare judge you. You are my superior. Both in position and finance.”

[Branched offParticipant 10975]

When it comes to flirting as with anything else with women -It all depends how she feels.

You are supposed to know how she feels, you dumb man!

If I were a betting man I would say that if you successfully ignore her without being p~~~y about it, just genuinely treat her straight like everyone else not passive aggressively do it (which will offend her vanity), she will be back trying to flirt with you again as much as ever before a moon’s cycle is done. She will want to check that her gravity can still pull you into orbit. She will be a bit worried if it can’t.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[sidecarParticipant 35842]

Never, ever talk about anything other than work with any woman you have to work with.

[Anonymous 0]

Hell hath no fury like a woman spurned.

I don’t get much in the way of flirting, but anything a woman says that is not directly related (when I can’t get away with saying nothing) gets a neutral non committal “I don’t know” or “ok” depending if it be formed as a question or statement.

It do be fun to put I bitch down verbally, and some will get a wide on for you as a result but remember… Hell hath no fury like a woman spurned.

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